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I'm the type of person who never really feels good when they're happy. It was brought to my attention recently by my family that I apparently love to be miserable, and I realized it's kind of true. Is that unusual. Is there anyone else who is the same way?
I don't think I'm depressed or anything, it's just that I love to cry. Maybe I'm just a drama queen (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
but for some reason when I'm sad, I think I'm truly happy. Anyone else like that?
Is there a name for it?
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i can somewhat understand you
or you just feel more like your self when you cry or be sad
i dont feel completely myself when im completely happy
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Do you ever laugh when you cry??
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I hate feeling sad
because I'm one of those gulping sort of criers...with the tears, running nose, shuddering, and everything
I feel happiest when I'm sleeping
especially if its in a nice warm sofffffffffft cushiony bed
and some kenny g or something playing on the radio
cuz I love just pushing my head into soft pillows and throwing the blanket up to my chin (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
damn...I want to sleep now lol
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I know what you're talking about. I've felt that way before, but I'm not like that all the time.
I don't think that's any way one should live.
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As weird as that sounds, I think I can somehow relate.
Sometimes I`d rather be content, and not too happy because then I know
it`s not going to last long. When I`m sad, I like cry it all out, and think
things through rather than ignore it, and just put a happy label on.
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well something like that XD
for me,
I'd rather be in pain then miserable =T
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whatever makes u happy. =)
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I hate feeling sad. But it feels good to have a good cry, you know? Is that what you're trying to say?
Because when I'm sad...I just feel sad. Not happy at all! But I feel really good when I have a good cry. Like sobbing.
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Do you ever laugh when you cry??
lawly lawly lawls
I'm imagining someone psychotic bawling...xD
I don't think I'm happy when I'm sad...unless, I'm releasing my emotion, like if I'm able to cry real hard. Then I feel satisfied...erhhh. It feels really good letting emotion out. I wouldn't want my days to be sad...lol...and feel like I'm having the time of my life. I prefer true happiness. Happiness without no worries, having fun, family and friends etc.
But I do get what you mean though. There've been some days in the past, where I felt sadness, yet it felt right. Erhh. Can't really explain why. xD Don't really know. o.o
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I can't say i like being miserable..i think you mean u feel sooo much better when ur crying and that u dont have to pretend u feel good anymore.
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I get what you guys are saying but it's not to get emotion out or anything like that.
It's just I'm somehow the most comfortable and happiest with myself when I'm sad and things aren't going right.
I think it all stems from when I was younger. My mom tells me I was born miserable. I think I'm just used to it
A different type of Drama Queen
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It's just I'm somehow the most comfortable and happiest with myself when I'm sad and things aren't going right.
I think it all stems from when I was younger. My mom tells me I was born miserable. I think I'm just used to it.
Maybe because, you feel that's a part of who you are? I don't know what I'm trying to say or if I'm making sense. lol -__-; Or you like to reflect on things..? 'Cause when I do feel like that, it's when I want to be alone and reflect.
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Sometimes crying makes me feel better... but not happy.
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Woah. Sorry i cant relate to it. :\
But i just like to be happy, and try not to think to much into it, and just enjoy whats present now.
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I'm often depressed. Not that I'm happy about it, but I'm sort use to it. More comfortable with it I guess. But I dunno.
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i enjoy being happy. happiness was created for a reason and i plan to enjoy it whenever i can.
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I try to cry often so I can to rewet my contact lenses the natural way.
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i've cried ALOT the past few days..like bawling my eyes out...in my heart there's so much sorrow..but it does make me feel better/good...
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Maybe you like being sad cuz ppl would feel sorry for you in turn giving you much wanted attention? Just a thought.. o__O
