Question:
Okay, when I was younger I used to be able to go on dates and get attracted to people real easily and when I would go on dates, I used to get that nervous, excited feeling (ex. butterflies in my stomuch) like most people do. But now, it seems that I'm just not attracted to anyone and I don't get that nervous, excited feeling even if a guy holds my hand or kisses me. Like nothing even turns me on....and I'm being serious here too. Not to mention, if I'm in a relationship, I get bored with it so fast...What's wrong with me? Is it because my standards are way too high or am I just stupid? Is anyone else like this? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif) and does anyone know a cure for this????
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This is EXACTLY what's happening to me.
Well, I think it's because I've kind of grown up and now I'm not seeking for the same kind of lovey-dovey stuffs (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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^ it's that or you're a lesbian. if not those then i don't know.
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That's like me too! I just don't have as much attraction as I use too. Your not alone.
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well maybe you haven't seen or found any good men in a while
because seeing the same old stuff can bore you
you need one of those thrilling and fun drama-like relationship
well that's what i think..
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you probably haven't found the right guy?
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^ yeah i believe its cause you havent found the right guy yet either
when you find the one youll think much differently _
or you just gotta try new things? :/
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You haven't found the right guy yet...
I used to be like that too... but then I met him^^
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You're probably dating and doing all that relationship stuff cuz thats what feels normal. In fact, you might be better off just being single till you actually find someone that you truly like. I guess a good analogy would be being in a relationship so much that the threshold of actually enjoying it has gone up significantly....
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i think the answer is quite plain. You don't like him that much.
When you were younger, everything is new, exciting, hormones raging -__-
now it's like you know what's the moves and what's happening next.
So...in conclusion, maybe he's not the right guy for you if he can't get you all excited and thrilled ;p
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itz cause u have matureddd.
and relationships for u have matured...
when your young...
anything can get u all nervous and stuf..
but when u grow up...
u mature.. n u juss want a guy that u really really like.
since u get bored of them so fast..
that means u dont like them
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You probably haven't met the right guy, and when you're in relationships... what do you guys do? Like hangout, call all the time, etc?
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That's exactly how I feel too! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif) and I don't how to deal with it.. :/
