Question:
EDIT: Scroll down for update (Pt 2)
well at this church that i've been attending, I met this boy in my age. let's call him john. well john and I didn't really know each other because I never was really close with any of my bible study classmates. but my friend got to be friends with john and eventually, john and I became friends. ever since then I started to fall for him... it's been 2 years now.
the past year , we got super close. we started to talk on msn daily, and we'd make fun of each other, and etc...
one day at church, something bad happened so I was crying. he saw me and he gave me a little hug (i guess) and told me that's it's going to be okay, and everything.
at this camp we went to, I was yet again cryying and he took my hands and we prayed.... then he gave me a hug
he said that i'm cute when I speak in chinese (lol)
because of all these events.. now I'm in madly love with him... I know that i'm not supposed to at this age when I'm a christian, but I can't help it...
but these days, I think he likes another girl
everytime I logon msn, he doesn't talk to me if the other girl is online...
when the girl is gone, he starts talking to me..
Idon't know if this is true because sometimes he talks to me more than that girl...
PEOPLE OF SOOMPI! What should I do? I want him so badly ...
EDIT!!
7:48:22 PM me: brb
7:48:31 PM him: i love u
7:48:41 PM me: such a noob
7:49:27 PM him: hey
7:49:29 PM him: what if
7:49:36 PM him: kevin (this other guy at my church)
7:49:41 PM him: said that he liked you? what would you do? lol
7:49:42 PM him: ahaahhahaaha
7:49:46 PM me: uh
7:49:51 PM me: i don't know o_O
7:49:52 PM me: brbthis is from the 15th:
11:00:07 PM me: what
11:00:07 PM me: what
11:00:46 PM him: you're a noob
11:00:55 PM me: (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
11:01:31 PM him: stupid
11:01:45 PM me: I'm not stupid T_T
11:02:40 PM him: okay
11:02:42 PM him: genius!
11:02:44 PM him: i luv u
11:02:50 PM me: lol
11:02:57 PM me: yay i'm a genius~
11:03:01 PM me: i love you too =D
what do you guys think ? T__________T
EDIT 2: MARCH 22ND
he's being really close and honest to me these days...
he's talking to me about going to the States with me to go to New Jersey/New York together for university...
He's asking me questions like do you think best friends can ever get married?
and from what I know, i'm the only best girl friend he has...
next week he invited me over to party and he wants to walk with me outside at night o_o
what do you guys think? oh and here's some convos from msn:
11:38:42 PM him: let's talk
11:38:46 PM me: we're talking loser
11:38:57 PM him: can you change that s in loser to v
11:39:09 PM me: lover? o_O
11:39:22 PM me: what the heck
talking about dorms in universities:
9:35:29 PM him: and we will live in same apartment
9:35:37 PM me: fine then you pay for it
9:36:00 PM him: puahahahha
9:36:03 PM him: lol
9:36:12 PM him: but when boys ask this question
9:36:16 PM him: u r supposed to say no--
9:36:25 PM me: what question o_O
9:36:36 PM him: to live together --
9:36:43 PM me: i was joking u dumbutt
9:37:24 PM him: what!!!
9:37:28 PM him: i was serious T.T
9:37:32 PM me: ahahhaahhahaahhahaha
9:53:31 PM him: hey
9:53:32 PM him: noob
9:53:40 PM him: do you think best friends can marry
9:53:41 PM him: ?
9:53:48 PM me: yeah if it's a girl
9:53:48 PM me: lol
9:54:02 PM him: but
9:54:04 PM him: girls always think
9:54:09 PM him: that friends are just friend
9:54:10 PM him: s
9:54:32 PM me: not all girls o_O
9:54:35 PM me: some girls
9:54:39 PM me: befriend guys
9:54:41 PM me: to
9:54:45 PM me: get
9:54:47 PM me: closer to them
9:54:48 PM me: because
9:54:51 PM me: they like them o_O
9:55:31 PM him: oh
9:55:33 PM him: so
9:55:38 PM him: like this case
9:55:39 PM him: right?
9:55:42 PM him: youand me?
9:55:44 PM him: right?
9:55:45 PM me: o_O
9:55:49 PM him: llool
9:57:04 PM me: YOU CALLED ME NAIVE!! T_T
9:58:23 PM him: i like people who are like that
9:58:24 PM him: --
the reason why I don't really wannt to tell him is because i'm afraid of rejection.. i'm 16 and I never had a bf before, and if i confess to him, i'm afraid our friendship would be awkward and that it wouldn't be the same again.. what if he doesn't like me as a girl but as a friend? now these days, he only talks to me, or at least talks to me the most.. we talk for 3 hours almost everyday.. _
Reason for edit: merged threads
Answer:
You should ask him out...
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i think he likes u as a friend since u said that when ur on msn he talks to that girl first and then u whenever she's online...who knows? If u really want the truth, always go to the source..isn't that just easier than wondering?? Just ask him...can't hurt right??
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whoa christians aren't supposed to love at young ages?
anyways you should try getting closer to him..
maybe talk to him more and hang out more
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I think maybe he does, you should just try to push it a little more, the attraction i mean?? but then again I'm bad at this
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perhaps he used to like u...
bit since nothign happened..
theres only friendship that remains...
but now he is intersted inn the other gurl..
so yehh..
maybe u lost ur chance..
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yeah make a move i mean not too obvoius but just enough to know if he likes you or not see how he reacts. just something small like tell him you like him online first or somethign to see what he does so you won't ruin the friendship.
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7:48:22 PM me: brb
7:48:31 PM him: i love u
7:48:41 PM me: such a noob
7:49:27 PM him: hey
7:49:29 PM him: what if
7:49:36 PM him: kevin (this other guy at my church)
7:49:41 PM him: said that he liked you? what would you do? lol
7:49:42 PM him: ahaahhahaaha
7:49:46 PM me: uh
7:49:51 PM me: i don't know o_O
7:49:52 PM me: brbthis is from the 15th:
11:00:07 PM me: what
11:00:07 PM me: what
11:00:46 PM him: you're a noob
11:00:55 PM me: (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
11:01:31 PM him: stupid
11:01:45 PM me: I'm not stupid T_T
11:02:40 PM him: okay
11:02:42 PM him: genius!
11:02:44 PM him: i luv u
11:02:50 PM me: lol
11:02:57 PM me: yay i'm a genius~
11:03:01 PM me: i love you too =D
what do you guys think ? T__________T
Answer:
you two flirt alot but if you think he's talkign more to teh other girl o_O
maybe he's just freindly to everyone
Answer:
ask him
I am madly in love with you
and sees wat he thinks
and if he says no..and u still wanna keep this relationship then go
hahahaha.. i jk
or my cousin was jk
or something like that
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Don't use msn conversations as a basis of if he likes you or not. When I use msn I tend to not take the whole conversation seriously. Because online chatting really easy and everything, I tend to go with the flow. So when girls talk to me with that kinda thing that you're doing, I just go with it thinking nothing much of it. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif)
So if you're really into having a relationship try to at least get a bit more personal by talking to him face to face (at least you can see what his real response is by his facial expression) or by talking to him through the phone. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
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I dono but it just look like flirting to me..
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seems like flirting to me =/
guys sometimes flirt way to much that tend to make you believe what they are saying.
if you really want to know if he likes you just ask him straight forward.
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he might just think of you as a friend. talking on msn is totally different than talking in person. a lot of people flir with their friends on msn but it doesn't mean anything
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i think he might like you but he's not sure if you do?
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haha what's wrong with being christian and in love? just don't do any nasty things..
and no i don't think he likes you. he probably thinks of you as a really close friend.
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you just gotta tell him straight up how you feel. yeah it'll be hard but you'll feel better once you get an answer. and if you two are as close as i suspect you are..even if he doesn't feel the same you'll still remain friends. thats how i met my best friend! i thought i was in love with him for two years, i told him, we talked about it, and even though he rejected me as a girlfriend...we just got closer. I tell him i love him everyday.
GO FOR IT! best of luck to you.
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edited it again.............................
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I think it'd be better if you just asked him if he liked you. So you wouldn't burst your brain trying to figure out if he does.
Him: I love you
You: DO YOU LIKE ME?
Him: Yes
YEAH!! problem solved. I'm a genius.
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^LOL.
I agree.. but then when you ask, don't do it online -.-
Say it on the phone or face to face you know?
Cause he might not take it seriously ... like he might
think that you're joking... =P
but i dunno.. i think he likes you.. he sounds like it xD
