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Would you date a person if they weren't physically attractive but something else
about them attracted you like personality.
I tend to gravitate towards lookspersonality side of things.
Can looks ever be supplemented?
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usually people have things that balance themselves out. if they are not good looking, they tend to have a certain characteristics that stands out. but if you really like that person because you find that they have a certain quality in them that you cannot find in another person, then yea looks shouldnt get in the way of your feelings for that person.
everyone is shallow no matter what one says. we all tend to gravitate towards looks, but it is the quality inside the person that makes us stay.
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Well the funny thing is, even if I don't find someone good-looking, if I start getting attracted to their personality, I'll start to find them good-looking somehow anyway. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) So, yeah, I would. But if someone asked me out who wasn't good-looking whose personality I didn't know yet, they'd probably be rejected.
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everyone is shallow no matter what one says. we all tend to gravitate towards looks, but it is the quality inside the person that makes us stay.
Agreed. Haha. Looks get you interested in them, but personality is what makes us stay.
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I need to be attracted to his appearance to some extent, things that make me want to know him better.
Most important things, he has to be taller than me, and not fat. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif)
The rest is not really a big deal to me.....yet.
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everyone is shallow no matter what one says. we all tend to gravitate towards looks, but it is the quality inside the person that makes us stay.
Agreed.
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He has to be appealing to me. It's the looks and first impressions that draw you in, at least for me. It's like 50/50.
I mean, he doesn't have to be that good-looking, just gotta have that aura I like, ya kno? Haha.. I do have a height requirement though (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) .
My ideal is Sung Kang, but no one can be as cool as him except Sung Kang himself.
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hmm. i am shallow to a certain level...
but i would date a not so good looking guy!
if he had something else that interested me!
eg. his personlity. DuH!
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I think it's like 70% personality and 30% looks that make a person attractive, in my opinion. If he had a killer personality but looks that only his mother would love, then he'd be a 70/100, and that still wouldn't be enough. Likewise, if he was hella hot but had a terrible personality, then he'd be a 30/100 and that wouldn't be enough to make me like him, either.
So it should just be a good balance between the two... There's someone I like who's like 65% personality and 25% looks. :D It's his personality that kept me liking him for 7 years, though. ^^
My ideal is Sung Kang, but no one can be as cool as him except Sung Kang himself.
Who is Sung Kang? (:
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Personality is definitely more important. I mean you wouldn't wanna stay with a goodlooking guy even though he's an ass.
I had this thing with a guy who was reaaaaaally hot but his personality like reeked, but somehow his looks overcame that but
I finally came to my sense and dumped him.
so what i'm saying is that looks is what attracts you and personality is what makes you stay.
Even though a guy isn't goodlooking you should see beyond his looks, see what's on the inside
because that's all that matters (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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everyone is shallow no matter what one says. we all tend to gravitate towards looks, but it is the quality inside the person that makes us stay.
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usually when he/she is easy on the eyes, then the personality quotation would come in naturally. People can say things about looks don't matter, but admit it, we do see the person's face first and we don't greet their personality before the face.
As my mum said choose someone who looks sweet and kinda cute, overly handsome doesn't mean he'll stay that way forever. But imagine if you gonna marry that person and see the same face everyday, when he's not easy on the eyes, it'll be troublesome
;p
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There's a saying:
Looks attract me, but personality keeps me
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im shallow... i only date physically attractive people T_T
i think in time ill cahnge tho and it wont matter for the person i truly love
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..,i admit - im at a shallow stage right now. and sometimes, i do doubt if i really like a person.
that's why i dont even enter relationships right now. coz i know the what's lacking is within me.
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I think;
Looks are what attract you.
And personality is what KEEPS you.
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From what I learned, if a guy is ugly he can easily supplement if he is hung, rich, funny/entertaining, or has connections in that order.
As for ugly women.....nothing can supplement, except if the guy is an old virgin that is desperate to get laid.
But when it comes to average looking women then its, sweet attitude/good in bed, funny, submissive, in that order.
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Looks are what I see first, it's what I get attracted to first most of the time, but then like people have said, the personality is what makes us want to stay. But sometimes, if you've known them for a while and they're not that great looking but have a great personality, you get attracted to that personality and it makes them look physically more attractive, if that makes sense (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif)
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everyone is shallow no matter what one says. we all tend to gravitate towards looks, but it is the quality inside the person that makes us stay.
exactly =] if someone is good looking but bores you to death or just is plain i dunno blah then byebye. but if they can make u stay then thats what matters.
i think sometimes personality creates the image of the person you see.
for instance there might be someone whos just okay lookign but his personality is great. u'll see a great looking person instead of that boring average person others might see b/c of the type of person he is to you.
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most of the times the relationships that last are the ones where you fall in love with the guy's personality over his looks. there has to be some physical attraction but the relationship can't be based solely on physical attraction. there has to be some clicking of the personalities so often when you click with someone, they have the personality that you are looking for in a SO and they will look more attractive in your eyes.
