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okay well i dont know the girl alot. It's one of my close guy friend's EX CYBER GIRLFRIEND.
apprantly, his REAL girlfriend that he dated last year, dumped about a few months ago.. well yeah i guess he was really heartbroken. so he went on and just browsed around on a profile website. And yeah he met a girl thats a year younger than him. (*note were only freshmans..so the girl he cyber dated is in grade 8 ) anyways.. they went dated online. yadada.. anyways and then his real ex sorta started to tease him? about his cyber girlfriend being like ew your dating a girl online dadada.. and during those times.. they still went outside like hung out about 1 or 2 times and then stopped. apprantly, he started to like her again.. and he wanted to break up with his cyber girl. so he told his ex to do it for him.. LOL i guess she did. and yeah.. well after they broke up.. his cyber EX. kept bothering him online.. being like oh i love you .... dadadada. she asked his OLDER sister out, and his sister has no clue who the heck she is. and yeah.. now she wouldnt stop annoying him
and yeah so today i brought back up the subject and sorta tease him asking him how he is and how is cyber girlfriend is. since i found out she still talks to him. and yeah hes like.. im doing fine.. trying to do this & that. and trying NOT TO GET MY EX CYBER GIRLFRIEND KILLED.
when i read this.. i was like what the *&*()&&^^%. and seriously its ridiculuos a grade 8 girl crying & trying to kill herself over a cyber relationship that lasted about 1 month.
any advice i can tell the guy.. or the girl at least?
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Wow, are middle schoolers that dramatic nowadays?
Well you can tell both of them to get a reality check and that they need to get over themselves. Internet relationships don't work out because it's not exactly real and the chances of them two coming across with each other is slim.
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I guess that girl fell in love with him, never should have messed with someone`s feelings, especially the ones online, you don`t know what they all about, that`s crazy! Tell the girl she`s too young and that it was just a online relationship and she`ll find someone much better in real life that`ll she`ll be able to get with. And for him I guess he should have never did that in the first place, cause that`s someone`s feelings he is messing with, and tell him to just try to explain to her and stuff. But she`ll get over it someday, it`s not like it was a real relationship, only if they were really serious about her, but by the looks of it, he wasn`t, should have never done that in the first place..
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Oh, this reminds me of this thing my friend told me about. There was this girl on the game Maplestory and she's only a 6th grader. This guy became her boyfriend so she would get him stuff. He broke up with her and she wanted to die and went into depression. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) Yes, you should try giving that girl a reality slap.
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Err...no matter which way you look at it your friend was wrong to toy with other people's feelings. He seems pretty fickle to me. Anyways, maybe you should tell the girl to get over it. I mean, it's just an online relationship and no offence but, did she think it would have lasted forever? And she's only in Grade 8, right? That's plenty of time to find a new boyfriend or new whatever.
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shouldn'thave played wiht her
and then now he's played with the drama queen
=/ poor him
i dont think she'll die o_o
she'll find someone new soon
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Oh, this reminds me of this thing my friend told me about. There was this girl on the game Maplestory and she's only a 6th grader. This guy became her boyfriend so she would get him stuff. He broke up with her and she wanted to die and went into depression. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) Yes, you should try giving that girl a reality slap.
Haha Maple drama. I used to play that game quite often, and this happened to one of my online buddies. It was stupid and irritating. His online gf ditched him for another guy. He became all depressed and wanted to suicide. The sad part is that hes in his 20s? Oh gosh.
Reality check. They need to be told to look how they are acting. Maybe they will come to their senses. My online friend got over it eventually.
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maybe she does really feel bad b/c at school she's been bragging about having a boyfriend...
ionno, sorry i'm not much help but she just needs a reality check, the internet is like las vegas you can be whoever you want to be.
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Well online personalities are quite different to real life personalities. I know some online relationships may work out but some don't. Like all relationships, the best thing to do is to move on.
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anyone want to be my soompi gf? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wub.gif)
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hahahaha i personaly think this is STUPIDDDD.
she should move on. fast. leave her alone she probably wants attention
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thats stupid to kill yourself over a boy. i think that girl needs to look around becaue theres so much more fish in the sea
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how stupid
this girl needs a reality check badly.
your friend or SOMEone should talk some sense into this girl.
killing yourself over a relationship that lasted 1 month?
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anyone want to be my soompi gf? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wub.gif)
heeeeyy almighty (IMG:style_emoticons/default/w00t.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blush.gif)
anyways, yeah killing yourself over that is ehhh. but online relationship doesnt hurt. first i thought it was stupid too. but now i have a different opinion.
I SUPPORT ONLINE R !!
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...(IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) ;; thats stupid...but love is a powerful thing. oh well she needs a reality check. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) ;;
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is that girl desperate or what?
she should have move on instead of cliinging on to him...
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I know a girl just like this. She's basically an attention-whore so she say things like these and not really mean it. Probably the same case in this case. I happen to be a very skeptical person so she might really be just playing him for her own amusement.
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Thats just sad.
The girl can use a little yelling at, help her realize that shes only like 13. Unfortunately it seems that people are starting to date and all that much younger since thats the norm and I guess this shows they aren't very prepared for it.
The guy can also use a yelling at, he didn't exactly end the relationship nicely... but I guess hes also trying to fix things since he is trying to prevent her from going suicidal.
We all laugh and say thats stupid, but to find her on a profile website I certainly hope means myspace or something and not some matchup dating site because if anyone that young is doing that then they must have a LOT of relationship issues.
EDIT: I REALLY like the optimistic reply above my post though. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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I think relationships over the internet is mostly a joke and NOT real. I think you can tell the girl that she has a long life ahead of her and if she ends it over an internet boyfriend, she`d regret it for sure. &there are many other guys in REAL LIFE that she`ll meet.
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seeing she's only in 8th grade, she's still immature.
and maybe she really liked this guy...
well the guy's the only one who could get himself out of it
