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There's this older guy. amazing looks, sweet, and fun..
He's always saying I'm cute, telling me he's gonna score a goal in soccer(at our school game) for me,
asking me why i wasn't at the dance, telling me he's saving a dance for me at the next school dance (because i didn't
go to the one that just happened..)
He's super nice & flirty, but he's known to be a BIG PLAYER. although i haven't heard about it currently,
i'm scared that he's saying the same stuff to another girl..
cause i think im starting to fall in LIKE with him.. and i want to tell him my feelings, but i'll feel foolish
if hes just playing me like all the other girls. what should i do? to test him... or to trust him... what to say to him..
im so unsure and confused, especially since he's 2 years older..
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it's hard to trust players because you never know if you're truly special to them or not. you should eavesdrop on him when he talks to other girls and see how they interact. see if he says the same thing to them as he has said to you. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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he doesn't have a rep of a player for nothing, i wouldn't trust him
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don't let rumors dictate what u do or don't do.
if u want to tell him, then do it.
sometimes ur instincts about a person can be wrong.
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I had my friends check up on this dude that I sort of liked and they found out that he was a player.
So I was like ok...gotta stay away from that.
I see the guy like every other week with the same girl.
So my thoughts: Players can change too.
That or I don't see him when he's two timing his girlfriend. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
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he doesn't have a rep of a player for nothing, i wouldn't trust him
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it's hard to trust players because you never know if you're truly special to them or not. you should eavesdrop on him when he talks to other girls and see how they interact. see if he says the same thing to them as he has said to you. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
^^ haha that made me laugh hehe.
he doesn't have a rep of a player for nothing, i wouldn't trust him
^ tatz true if it has happen tew other gurlz not a gewd idea dont wanna end up in the same rope watz tat sayin...
once a player alwayz a player but if u really like him n tat dont matter then u should juz go 4 it n c wat happenz...
mayb juz eavesdroppin iz gewd hahaha.
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once a player always a player.
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There's this older guy. amazing looks, sweet, and fun..
He's always saying I'm cute, telling me he's gonna score a goal in soccer(at our school game) for me,
asking me why i wasn't at the dance, telling me he's saving a dance for me at the next school dance (because i didn't
go to the one that just happened..)
He's super nice & flirty, but he's known to be a BIG PLAYER. although i haven't heard about it currently,
i'm scared that he's saying the same stuff to another girl..
cause i think im starting to fall in LIKE with him.. and i want to tell him that so we can take it to another level
what should i do? to test him... or to trust him... what to say to him..
im so unsure and confused, especially since he's 2 years older..
i dont know what 'another level' is, but just hold hands, run around town, have nice conversations and have fun.
stay away from more intimate activities until he can build your trust, and dont let your feelings get in the way of opening up things other than your heart.
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Dont trust him yet, test him out first and take your time while doing it. Players tend to move on if they have to do to much effort.
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I wouldn't trust him
I'd feel wierd
try hearing out more stories about him or something =/
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Often times, if it's too good to be true, then it probably is.
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maybe he could have seen thelight (:
but then again. dont fall to deep.
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if i were you, i wouldn't trust him and i would hold some things back, but i'd still date him to date him and not fall too hard.
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ANDD.. i was warned.
he invited me to a party weekend. i was soo excited, spent so much money bought a super cute outfit, took forever doing my makeup.
and guess what i found? he invited like 10 other girls too.
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He`s a player for a reason. It`s hard for a guy to change his player ways for a girl, unless he really loves her.
I wouldn`t trust him if I was you.
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lol go for the eavesdropping
but i wouldn't trust him why else would he be called a player?
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omgoodness... i was SO in the same situation as you XD
cept he was onli 1 year older.
he used to tell me i was beautiful. i mean u dont get called tht much right? i dont nyways XD
he would come over to my house at like 1-2am in the morning... oh yeh he volunteered to let me stay at his place to get ready for the formal and took me to the place where me and my frends meet to get picked up by the limo, nyways i told him i flet retarded coz i was wearing a dress and having to wait in public for the others, and he got dressed up in a tux and everything so i wont feel like a tosser X)
he'd jus do nice stuff... but i was stoopid and i didnt let anything happen when he was clearly tryna make sumink happen. coz i knew or heard tht he was a player... but i strted to like him coz no toher guy had ever kinda took interest in me. nyways i got mad at him one time when he didnt come over XD so i stopped tlkin to him. during those 2 weeks i gnored him he would ask why im not tlkin and tht he misses me and crap like tht. 2 months of all the flirting and stuff... and after those 2 weeks of not tlkin. he has a new gf.... in two weeks after me~!!! wtf _
well im glad nothing happened.
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lol just the way u describe him and the stuff he says to u has PLAYER written all over it haha~~
neways if u got doubts then yer follow ur instincts...otherwise ull be regretting it laterz~~
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^ Agreed, your description seems to have your doubts about him spilled all over.
=/ You could choose to take a chance, but I doubt that you should trust him since he seems to have his way with girls.
