Do Your Friends Have Influence...

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Over the guys/girls you are into?
I mean, if you are starting to have interest in someone who they think has some flaws (not attractive enough, not smart enough, whatever) and tease you, does it change your feelings towards the person?
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no, not really
i'm into the guy, not them
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no o_o they dont know until i'm like with them o-o
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honestly;
yesss...but if i really like a guy then idc.
werdi sum of my frewdz been wit the same guyz b4 n like
i have alot of frewdz n like i try not tew go wit dudes tat they like or have been wit.
so mostly yea they do in tat way.
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Over the guys/girls you are into?
I mean, if you are starting to have interest in someone who they think has some flaws (not attractive enough, no smart enough, whatever) and tease you, does it change your feelings towards the person?
more when i was in elementary school (peer pressure? iunno)...but now...im just friends with whoever cmoes around (IMG:style_emoticons/default/phew.gif)
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If they said That guy is annoying and a jackass.
I would believe them and ditch the guy.
If they said that He's stupid and ugly.
Then I would ignore them.
Somethings aren't just up to them to judge.
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Haha honestly yes... but not enough to completely change my mind if I'm really stubborn.
WHat about you
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Some of my friends has some really mean comments about my ex.. like OMG you went out with someone like HIM you could totally get someone hotter. i couldnt count how many times i heard that, and i honestly it didnt matter all that much.
however if they said something like he's a total jerk and give me examples then i'll most likely listen and dump the guy.
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Oh yeah, my friends have immense influence over who I like.
For example, back in high school a friend nearly kicked my butt over this one girl.
Shoot, how was I supposed to know that she was his mom at the shopping mall? She looked young from behind. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/huh.gif)
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Psssh sike. They can say whatever about the guy but it's not like they know 'em.

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nooope. we all have differnt tastes. we kno it and we think it is a good thing since we dont go for the same guys (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
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Nopes, but my friends understand why I like him and all, they have to accept him even if they don`t like him, but they do =)
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No. I simply tell them that they'll only know how I feel if they sat down and got to know the guy.
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uh no...
i don't tell my friends these things
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No, and never.
I got friends who date, and another friend blatantly said that her boyfriend was ugly or wasn't fit, dude, as long as she likes him, then what matters? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
If something happens to me one day, my friend will have to accept the fact that I like him anyway and that I do find him attractive (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wink.gif)

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it kind of makes me think more about it..like my friends' opinions keep me grounded because you know how you start to like/date someone you're not really thinking straight..but I won't let them influence me if their opinions are on something shallow (like he's not hot enough)..but if it's something major like, he's selfish well of course that will matter.
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i dont get why it would change yoor opinon about yoor bf.
yoo lyk him and yoor going out for him becuz of who he is it doesnt matter wut yoor friends say.
but friends are always more important then boifriends (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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nope my friends have different tastes hha, my angel likes like thuggish guys im wth.. im into the cute adorable, hot guys =]. We have different tastes sometimes i guess =].
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If they had a problem with his personality (i.e. He's a jerk. He's so arrogant. He's rude) then that would be more of a warning sign to me. If you can't get along with my friends, no thank you.
If they had a problem with his physical appearance, (i.e. His style sucks. His hair is ugly) then it wouldn't affect me at all. It's a preference, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right?
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They used to in the past but now I listen to my own instinct. If I like the guy I just like him, just because my friends dont like him whether its his looks or personality or both thats just their problem. They're not the ones who are intimate with that particular guy. Dont let your friends control your life. Have your own opinion for goodness sake.
Its a different story when they see there's something wrong either with you, the bf or relationship overall. Afterall love can make people blind and if you have true friends they will see that. But in the end its all up to you.
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