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I had several guys confess to me and everytime they do, I asked them why they like me. They answer that it's because they think I'm cute & smart, unpredictable and that I don't act like a girly girl 24/7.
Haha. Cute & smart is kind of meaningless to me. :/ I like personality attraction WAY better.
I guess I'm unpredictable since my thoughts are usually all over the place and I do very random and spontaneous things. (And I do them without caring what others think. So I can get pretty out of the ordinary). I do things that most people that look like me wouldnt do. I guess I'm a nerd but I dont act like a nerd 24/7...? I dont know.
I admit I'm not the girliest girl out there, but I never really knew that being kind of boy-ish can be an attraction. I still dress like a girl and care about my skin, the way I dress, etc. But I guess I don't get caught up in bs & drama that's going on with a regular girl's life.
So all the girls out there, what attracts guys to you? BE HONESTTTTTTTT :]
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They also tell me I'm hard to get. *shrugg* I didnt think of myself that way but my blunt personality gets to them too. It's really weird.
Yeah and I'm one of the guys too. I have more guy friends than girls. That might be good&bad for your relationship. Good because your homies can tell the guys that you're a keeper. Bad because others might think you flirt too much.
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Well, not being a girly girl 24/7/365 may attract guys (probably does, actually), but I can say from experience that guys aren't usually attracted to girls who aren't obviously female in the way they speak, act, look, and dress. If it worked that way then guys would still think of me like a girl. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) Instead, as one friend told me...No straight guy wants to feel like he's dating another dude. At least look the part.
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Well, not being a girly girl 24/7/365 may attract guys (probably does, actually), but I can say from experience that guys aren't usually attracted to girls who aren't obviously female in the way they speak, act, look, and dress. If it worked that way then guys would still think of me like a girl. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) Instead, as one friend told me...No straight guy wants to feel like he's dating another dude. At least look the part.
..ouch (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif)
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Well, not being a girly girl 24/7/365 may attract guys (probably does, actually), but I can say from experience that guys aren't usually attracted to girls who aren't obviously female in the way they speak, act, look, and dress. If it worked that way then guys would still think of me like a girl. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) Instead, as one friend told me...No straight guy wants to feel like he's dating another dude. At least look the part.
i agree with you
fromteh most part a guy falls for a person that they feel that they can protect and care for o_o
well most guys tell me that at least (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
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guys have told me that I'm really fun to hang out with..good sense of humor and down for whatever but not over the top silly or crazy. as for physical stuff..I've gotten comments that they really like my style~
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um.
cuz i`m interesting
i`m not sure if that`s good or bad.
haha
that i`m fun to hang out with ?
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(IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif) i don't know
hahahah (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif)
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im up for anything, interesting, style, and my voice...i don't know why but recently quite a few of guys said my voice attracts them.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif) and lastly im fun to be with.
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Guys have told me that they like me for my personality and intelligence. Also my ''cuteness.'' Although, I have never shown my cuteness to them. Kind of weird. But yeah, I guess I draw guys most with my personality and sense of humor.
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because i'm outgoing and easy to talk to.
they feel comfortable around me because i don't
treat them like a stranger, and that i welcome
everyone in a friendly way~
i guess that's good?
hahaaa.
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coz i'm gullible and easy to make fun of.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
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Guys like pretty girls. Are you pretty? lol.
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I always get the Ashley's part of the guys kinda thing. I'm pretty chill (most of the time), and I have hobbies that most guys can relate to, while at the same time- being able to keep my femininity. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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they say i'm different (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
lmfao. i think it's cos i'm mean to them...
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They think I'm interesting, really easy to talk to, and down to do just about anything.
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because i'm a total weirdo... and i'm ridiculously nice to every one... and i'm not too ugly either
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I should've asked my boyfriend or something, lol. When people confess, I never end up asking them that question.
I think sometimes I can be loud (online, actually) and nice apparently. Nice, but not really nice. I don't think I'm easy to get especially because it's kind of hard for me to get super attached. It's really rare.
I enjoy making friends with guys because they're more comfortable to be around with and I speak/act the way I do because we're close and comfortable like that. Sometimes it happens with girls but not so much. It's so much funner to have guy friends.
My boyfriend once said he doesn't know what attracts him to me.. that there's something about me but he can't exactly pinpoint it out. And yeah, he thinks I'm attractive. (But I think that applies because when you love someone, you think all of their bad stuff are good.)
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i've never asked a guy that question before.
i'll ask next time lol d:
but most of the time, their guy friends tell me that they think im cute
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for the most part...most guys tell me that im funny and full of energy..and they said that the fact that I don't worry about how i look 100% of the time is a big turn on...
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Well...guys that like me, tell me that...
-I have a big booty for an asian girl (I got it from my momma=])
-I'm cute/pretty
-I'm nice
-Easy going
-Smart
That's about it...=]
