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yeah... so... i dont ever want to get pregnant...
my friends think im so weird and all but i mean
is it that weid that i dont want to get pregnent??
my mom's body and mine are really similar and i take after her i guess... when seh was in labor with me she passed out and nearly died... i have a lot more health problems than her and i just dont want to go through it.....
i want children though so im going to adopt...
i know ill be able to love them fully bc im a pretty love giving person HAH xD
and i know there are a lot of orphans out there who need homes =]
anyone here think the same as me??
or totally think im stupid and can critisize all they want
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*patpat* i feel the same way as you
but my friends always say that im gonna change my views in the future, which i highly doubt
cuz my health isnt that great either & i cant even handle stomaches, so going through labor is just unimaginable for me
^-^ but we have the same plan, i was planning to adopt too
cuz i feel bad for orphans ^-^ its a win win situation, ill be helping ppl & having kids while they gain a loving mommy
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you will probably feel dfferently when you get older. some people say tht it's better to have one of thir own. i understand why, though.
adoption is always a good idea, thouhg. there are so many kids who need new loving parents! i feel so bad (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
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Yeah. I will do the same thing.
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I'm the same way I don't ever want kids, people tell me i'll change my mind when i'm alot older, but I've never wanted kids when I was little and I don't want any kids now and i'm an adult.
Adopting is a very good thing if you don't want kids of your own or can't have your own kids.
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you will probably feel dfferently when you get older
hmm the thing is ive never wanted to be pregnant...
so i dont think ill change my mind... and if youre reffering to sex
i mean theres birthcontrol and condoms..
but im not really thinking of that yet cause
1. im not married
2. im a virgin
3. im 15 hah XD
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adopting kids isnt that easy, I heard it's expensive
if you try to adopt from a foreign country
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i feel bad for adopted kids.. they will never receive true love from a parent.. as their real parent threw them away/ something bad happened.. and its rediculous how expensive it is to adopt kids.. and how pedophiles are adopting kids to have sex with them and then throw them away.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
i think pregnancy isnt as bad as it used to be.. my teacher just got a baby and he told me his wife didnt go through alot of pain as they give her drugs and giving birth is easier due to better technology and stuff.. in the bible men's punishment is having to work for food and women's is labor.. but nowadays, both of them are getting easier and easier lol!
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^ do you think being an orphan is better then?? shouldnt they be able to receive love from parents that truely care for them??
and drugs?? wouldnt that be overwhelming to the body??
and yeha i guess it is expensive...but i mean i think its def worth the money...
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hell, I dont want to get pregnant
those morning sickness, fat ankles, stretchmarks, eating for 2 people, carrying extra 50 pounds for months, my vagina hole will be stretched out 5-6 inches more so that I can spit out that baby, post-pregnancy fat, ....
but, I want my own kid(s), so I've to suck it up and go through it
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for women that dont want to go through the pain, they usually get a cesarean / c-section
they knock you out and surgically remove the baby
(IMG:http://cesarean.upmc.com/Images/Sub/ImageCSection.jpg)
but you will have a scar on your tummy
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^I hope I can go through traditional labor, I dont want an ugly permanent scar on my stomach.
after I get my old body back, cant wear bikinis.
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c-section take 6 yrs away from the baby's life
ex. if the baby was supposed to live 100 yrs
it would only live about 94 give or take a few...
plus id still have to get pregnant
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i totally see where you are going. i want to just adopt too, don't want all the pain cos i can't even take a cramp during it
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well i gues sometimes its better to be an orphan then being treated bad or something.. if the parents that adopted u got themselves a real child, the adopted kid is mostlikely going to get less treatment and stuff.. and there are stories about adults adopting kids to get money off of the government and not even take care of the kids.. and the pain to find out that your adopted.. some adopted kids commit suicide and stuff.. but i guess its better to have a home then sharing a room with 30 other kids (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
damn i was c-sectioned damn it -6 years (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
how does a baby lose 6 years if it was c-sectioned.. kinda doesnt make sence to me lol!
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^ shpizzzle..... man i shouldve htought of other ppl bofore writing that...
ahh wel one of my best friends from childhood was C-sectioned and her and her mom told me it... so yeah~~ her mom had (man i forgot the word giving birth to a fetus that died) before...
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you could pay a woman to do the dirty work.
there're wives who cant get pregant, so they plant the egg and and sperm on someone else's stomach.
Like in Friends tv show, when Phoebe were having her brother's kids.
but it's pricey heh _
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Nah, thinking that isn't weird.
Lots of girls at my school were discussing this and, most of them considered adopting a child.
I'm pretty much afraid of the pain and stuff of pregnancy but, I still want a child of my own with who I love...so, I'm willing to go for it.
But, maybe you'll change your mind about it.
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I have a friend who also does not want to ever get pregnant.
She hates kids, and she also hates pain. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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i dont hate kids though~~ i love them...
well unless they hate me =]
but im thinking of adopting the older ones...
cause once they turn 18 they are kicked out... well thats what i heard...
and most parents want to adopt a baby no not much chance for the older orphans...
