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Man.....I really like this girl that goes to my school and such but.... well I talked to her one day and than later on that day...I ran out of things to talk about I usually dont but I do. I cant talk to her like all teh other girls...she's...different ....everyone say that I might get a good chance but I dont know what to do...she doesnt like a quiet person...so any ideas like to keep a convo starting? and making them laugh?
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Just be yourself, crack jokes and stuff, I know how it feels, haha, you`re just shy, just gotta open up to her, if you do, it`s true you do have a pretty good chance, goodluck =) 3 .. Ask her how was her day, etc. And just start talking, haha, sorry no help
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school settings suck. it's like, 'what class did you just have' 'do you like your teachers' 'did you do your homework' 'i'm so bored' 'i hate school' 'i love school' 'i'm doing yadada after school' 'what are you doing on the weekend' 'i have detention because mr x is a dickhead'.
unless you see her outside of school.
i was at the city and this guy started chatting to me and he kept the conversation going with ease (despite me giving one-word answers even though he was hot as hell. yeah, i'm retarded). he was just heaps polite (i felt special because he and his friends have an attitude problem. ie yelling and swearing at security/officials/authority/etc, using sarcasm to make them look like idiots), cracked lame jokes, asked me lots of questions about myself.
to be honest, if she doesn't like you your lame jokes might irritate her. so just . . . be funny.
lol.
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oh my gosh. there was a guy who liked me a lot but i thought he was too quiet too... likeeee he wouldn't talk.. and when he did we'd have like a 10 word convo.
my suggestion is to just be yourself. i know easier said than done. but the more you worry about how awkward it is with her, the more awkward the situation is going to get. if not saying anything turns her off, then you might as well say SOMETHING. complement her clothes, hair, how she smells... something nice but not tooo nice. ask questions, keep asking them. of if you run out of things to say, bring up stories and such. try to engage in an actual conversation with her so she can get to know you better. don't be too forward, but approach her with confidence =] the fact that you're making an effort shows a lot. goodluck yo 3
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iunno man, i have the same troubles as you (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif) .
it seems like you just gotta find a common interest (some tv show you both like? for example.) you dont hafta constantly barrage her with words either...but it should come naturally (you shouldnt seem awkward by forcing yourself to say weird stuff) lol...im being a bit vague cuz i have this trouble myself; oh well... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif)
good luck dude.
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talk about music! =D
start off with i have a song stuck in myhead. it goes like this *sings* then ask her if she knows it..
and go from there!
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imagine she's one of your best friends [girl]
O_O; (: good luck !!
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be yourself and if you can't, then there's seriously a problem. let go, don't be too tense, and find something in common with her that you have. if you find that you're still running out of things to say to her, then it's best to have another friend with you until you're more comfortable with her and can have a relaxing conversation with her one-on-one.
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since u said u r normally talkative with all other gurls..
but u seem to be lost for wordz cause u like this gurl..
dont worry! just be yourself..
and eventually u WILL be able to talk freely with her too
u r just too afraid of how she sees u right now..
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haha. i'm in a situation like that except i'm the girl.
ahhh. i really dont know what to talk to him about. he just like to sit there let me do all the talking. So the conversations are so short... sometimes i dont even talk because there is nothign to talk about.........
i tell him jokes and stuff everyday. he just laughs and listen... if only he talked a little more, i wouldnt have to think of topics to talk about......
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Quit kidding yourself. If she doesn't like quiet people and you are a quiet person, chances are in the future maybe it wasnt ment to be.
Hey I got an idea, instead of trying to make her laugh and being all goofy, why dont you ask her questions about herself, listen then see if there are any commonalities between you and her. See if you like her as a person. Dont be a tool and be a comedian or entertainer. You want to be her boyfriend right? Not her best standup comedian.
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well you can't really become a good conversationalist. you either are one or you're not. but i guess there are things that kind of help you out. just keep asking questions about her. most people like talking about themselves because it's a subject they know really well. when she gives you answers about yourself don't just go uh huh. take what she says and compare it to yourself so that you can learn about each other.
