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i have a new g/f right now. She's really cool and everything; i have a good time when im with her...but i just dont feel the same way how i felt when i was with my first g/f. I was so comfortable with my first g/f. I felt like i can tell her anything. Even when we did not have much to say sometimes, which happens, the dates still felt great. When i hugged her, I felt like i was the happiest person on earth. However, when im with this new girl now, i just dont feel the same way i had felt when i was with my first g/f. I just dont feel the loving chemistry like i had felt with my ex. I dunno how to explain it. When i see my current g/f, im happy, and i do feel excited to see her, but the feeling is just different. Perhaps i still love my first g/f without realizing it. Should i break up with my current g/f (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif)
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Maybe give it more time... If you're continuing to feel like you really don't have much chemistry, then I would end it before she has false beliefs of a relationship that's going nowhere.
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how long did it take you to feel that way with your first gf?
like the above poster said, maybe give it some time if time is what it took to feel that way
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question; did u dump ur ex ? or did she dump u?
maybe u r stil feeling attached. you shouldnt be if she dumped you, jus let time goes by, and move on. And be happy with ur new gf.
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that's normal.
you can't expect the same thing from a different person. and DON'T expect the same thing from a different person. don't break her heart.
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Perhaps your ex was your first love. You can never forget the love and moments you once shared with a person. Eventually the feelings will start developing again. Just give it some time. But remember, don't compare your previous relationship with your current one. It will messes up your mind and wish your current girlfriend was just like your ex.
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question; did u dump ur ex ? or did she dump u?
maybe u r stil feeling attached. you shouldnt be if she dumped you, jus let time goes by, and move on. And be happy with ur new gf.
Yeah...did she dump you or did you dump her?
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maybe you're not ready to be in a new relationship.
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how long ago did u start this new relationship with this new gf?
if its just a short time, just wait a lil longer, prob the feeling will come back
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if you're living in the past then stay in the past don't bring a new girl in the situation and destroy her heart ...if you compare past and present then there will not be future for current one to continue...
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Give it some time, you might just need adjusting. Your new gf may only be different and you ain't seen the side you love yet. You compare her with your first gf, when they're completely different people.
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maybe you're not ready to be in a new relationship.
yeah maybe ur not ready how recent was the breakup?
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Probably it`s too soon for you to get into another relationship if you recently got dumped/or dump that person.
Because I say you are still attached to your first girlfriend or you`re were just so use to your first. It`s normal.
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Give it some time but also keep in mind that your current girlfriend and your ex are two different people so don't expect to feel the same way.
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Now that me and my ex have broken up, I'm sorta afraid that this will happen to me too.
But I mean, first love is always the one you remember and have this fairy tale likeness to it. But I mean, just give it a little bit more time since you can't really expect to be totally comfortable with someone on the spot. I remember that it took me time before I could actually tell my ex (when we were together) everything.
Because usually with first relationships, you don't really know what are the rules and you just trust that person a lot, enough to tell them everything.
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well, you said new gf right? :]
i think that it might take some time, to get used to being with someone new.
it does not mean that you like her any less than your ex.
every love is different, that's the thing.
you can't expect every relationship to be like your last.
and you cannot have the same expectations because it is not fair.
so basically, what i'm saying is let time take its course
and if you still feel the same way; than you should either talk with her OR break up with her before you end up hurting her.
- eternal.happiness
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no! dont break up..you dont feel comfortable maybe because you guys just got together. YOU MUST give it more time! I was like this too..but with a guy. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) spend more time with her...
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maybe its cause your gf was your first love?
no one can replace that.
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It is hard but try not to compare. Sometimes we tend to look back at past loves and over romanticize it. There IS a reason why your EX is now your EX.
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ONLy u can answer that....take it time to think like 2 days or something
I think u like both girl! u just too selfish to let go one of them. Men kind.....is always selfish sorry i m not being harsh, just being honest. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)
You ask yourself if you can let go one of them and be fair ,then your really a good Men.
Doesnt matter if Both are your ex or girlfriend now, they r both girls, and you want them both.
