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OK SOO.. BASICALLY THIS ALL STARTED DURING MY FRESHMAN YEAR IN HIGH SCHOOL... (FYI. I'M A SOPHOMORE NOW)
THIS GUY IN MY HEALTH CLASS STARTED TO LIKING ME IN BEGINNING OF SECOND SEMESTER..
BUT.. I DIDN'T KNOW THIS.. AND I ALSO STARTED TO LIKE HIM BUT IT WAS BY THE END OF THE YEAR...
AND SINCE HE'S MORMON HE CAN'T ASK ANY GIRL OUT UNTIL 16..
SOO HE TOLD MY FRIEND THAT HE WAS GOING TO WAIT UNTIL HE BECAME 16 TO ASK ME OUT..
I WAS FINE WITH THIS.. (BECAUSE IT WASN'T LIKE I WAS AGAINST HIS RELIGION OR ANYTHING.. EVEN THOUGH I'M A CHRISTIAN..)
BUT AFTER ALL OF THIS WAITING I REALIZED THAT I ONLY WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH HIM..NOW I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.. HIS BIRTHDAY IS ON MARCH 18.. THAT IS IN ABOUT 1 WEEK..
HE STILL THINKS THAT I LIKE HIM AND IS PLANNING TO ASK ME OUT..
I SERIOUSLY DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO.. DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY IDEAS??
SORRY IF THIS DOESN’T MAKE SENSE
AND THANKS..
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when he asks you out, just say no. honestly, there's no easy solution where you won't hurt his feelings because either you go out with him even though you don't like him or save him the heartache along the road (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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Tell him that you just want to be friends!
better tell him the truth now or you'll find yourself in a even more
difficult situation and you'll be hitting yourself for not telling the
truth earlier. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue2.gif)
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maybe you should not tell him that you waited too long and lost feelings for him because that might cause him to hate his religion =x
just leave out the waiting so long part and tell him you interpretted your feelings wrongly and that you just want to be friends.
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Yeah, just be honest about it, and say that you dont like him the same way he likes you
you shouldn't feel bad about it though..because it's not like you promised him that you'd wait for him..
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yeah, like everyone said, just be honest and tell him you want to be friends
you cant change the way you feel, so yeah!
off topic but.. he has the same birthday as me! lol (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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^advanced happy bday! lol.
well yeah. leave out the waiting too long part, as people say. just say that youve changed.. it sounds lame, but its kinda the situation to say:
its not you, its me
line.
get it?
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thank you ...
i hope this will workk..
i'm really afraid..
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thank you ...
i hope this will workk..
i'm really afraid..
Don't be afraid if he really likes you he will understand and put you first
but if not then he's not a really good friend.
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Yeahh, just break it down to him gently that you only want to be friends. No point in saying yes or anything ? He should understand.
That's why I hate it when guys take forever to ask a girl out. 'Cus sooner or later, the girls just gonna move on since they're not making any moves. o_O. That's what happen to my friends friend. He was planning on finally asking her out but found out she just got with someone. Heh.
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well yeah that is what i'm planning to do...
but i'm just afraid that i'm going to feel bad and say yes...
and if i do that i know that i'm going to regret it and make him more hurt...
wow this is making me soo frustrated.. i hope that i don't say yes... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif)
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ohhh.....i never knew that.....thats really...interesting.....a race/religion that doesn't let u date until a certain age...hmmmmmm....well....say no?
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What you should do is easy. How you should break it to him is the hard part.
I think, even if it hurts him to be honest w/him and say you don't want to date him, it's much better than lying to him and giving him false hope. In the long run, being honest with him is what's best.
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Aw that sucks. Well can't you give him signs that you're not interested. Start avoiding him...don't make eye contact..maybe he'll be smart enough to delay asking you out if he sees how you're no longer acting interested.
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you tell him that throughou tthis time you realize that it was best for you two to only be friends o_o
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be honest to tat guy,just politely say that ur not interested in him,but want to be good friends with him or smth lke that.i think that wont make him feel very bad,it woukld be even wose if u wont tell him that...
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when he asks you out, just say no. honestly, there's no easy solution where you won't hurt his feelings because either you go out with him even though you don't like him or save him the heartache along the road (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
o but its hist 16th b-day! u dont wanna break his heart on his b-day!!
i dunno.. sorry my post is useless
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Definitely let him know before his birthday that your feelings have changed. Don't wait until after he turns 16.
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i have another question with this...
was it wrong for my friend to go up to him and tell him for me..?
well she told him yesterday before period 5...
unfortunately.. i didn't know this... and i tried to talk to him but he look straight at me then walked away..
i was like what the heck?
and then my friend told me that she told him earlier...
and now he won't even talk to me...
it's not like he has to but yeah..
and then today he waited for me so that he could 'walk' me to class...
(i don't know if this was the smartest thing to do)
but i sorta ignored him---(IMG:style_emoticons/default/phew.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/phew.gif)
oh and what do i say to all of the people that come up to me and say ....
you totally broke his heart!!..
they don't even know my side of the story.. and they're just taking his side.. this is totally unfair!!~ (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
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hi gloriaaaaaaaa !
hahaha
&
advice for you
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
lol
you should tell him before he turns 16 DEFINATELY.
