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I don't know if I should wait or if I should just go ahead and ask.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif) She's Chinese/Cantonese [from hong kong]. And she's really nice (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) . She's studying biology and we'll be taking a few classes together next quarter. I'm trying hard to learn Cantonese phrases to speak with her haha...
I *really* like her and she's super nice and her friends are super nice too... but I'm afraid to ask _ because it would seem awkward if she said no and we're in the same class ahhhh and what will her friends think... AHHH so scared to think about it.
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become friends with her first and see if she likes your company, afterall you are taking the came classes. if she does then that's a good sign, then after that just take it up a notch. dont ask her out right away, that might freak her out, unless you're sure she has some feelings for you now.
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dont over analyze things. be smooth and confident. start a convo with her about stuff like school, since you guys are going to be in a couple classes together next quarter, or you could even ask her to teach you to speak canto then it could turn into something like that one movie, 10 things i hate about you (is that right?lol)
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lol... she'll be taking calc II and I had an A in calc II and know the material in and out .... so i was hoping i could tutor/help her haha ~ but I dunno... I haven't asked a girl out actually LOL~ they've always asked me out _.
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well it's your turn now and step it up.
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yeah get to know her first...hang out with her and her friends before you move in for the kill. if you ask her now...it'll seem rushed and she'll feel pressured and back out. maybe anyways...
by the way don't be clingy or follow her around 24/7
gee i wish there were more guys who will actually have the guts to ask a girl out lol
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^ there are only if you guys would give us some kind of sign (IMG:style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif) haha
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hey.. just slow down..
make sure you know her intentions towards you before you act.
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MAN UP.
Since everyone said pretty much what I wanted to say, I'll say something origi-nale.
Exude self-confidence. If your body language, tone of voice, etc is awkward, then the situation becomes damn awkward.
Take it easy and take it slow.
Good luck sir.
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If you allow me to be stereotypical, hong kong girls or any girls from asia would be frikkin good at math. There was this girl in my calc3 class. Very cute was SUPER at calculus... o_o I was tempted to ask HER for help because I was suffering but I didn't _
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i dont think it matters what her friends thinks, just maters on how you efel about her. AJA AJA FIGHTING~!
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like the other person said, MAN UP.
just do it. you don't wanna be sitting in your room, twiddling your thumbs...
if she says no, she says no. if she says yes, then GREAT!
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I don't know if I should wait or if I should just go ahead and ask.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif) She's Chinese/Cantonese [from hong kong]. And she's really nice (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) . She's studying biology and we'll be taking a few classes together next quarter. I'm trying hard to learn Cantonese phrases to speak with her haha...
I *really* like her and she's super nice and her friends are super nice too... but I'm afraid to ask _ because it would seem awkward if she said no and we're in the same class ahhhh and what will her friends think... AHHH so scared to think about it.
study with her and get to know her better. try not to try so hard. the bigger you make it, the more awkward she might feel. as you keep spending time, show some interest. buy her lunch sometime. small things that show you care and that you like her. when you feel comfortable enough, do something or say something to make it obvious to her your feelings and intentions. timing is everything, and you should have a good feel for when as you go.
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Wow I only though girls get all this scared and giddy when asking their guys out..... I guess I was wrong.
How about you make it so informal when you ask her. Ask: so what are you doing this friday? my schedule is clear and I wanted to see that (insert new movie name here). OR Hey, what are you doing Thursday night? I wanted to try this new restaurant, (insert restaurant's name here) I herd its great! Lets go together, I think it will be fun!
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try asking her to teach you canto =p
make the most of having classes together - try to talk to her every now and then and gradually show that you're interested in her... it'd be awkward if you suddenly came out and confessed to her.
good luck =)
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jus tell her how u feel. if u get rejected, u get rejected, it's not that bad of a feeling
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I am a girl and I've no experiences with relationships.. but from what I learn thru other's My advice would be ..be confident! I kno it's not easy but try your best and talk to her more often, get to know her and let her get to know you!! be friends first! Make her laugh, hang out with her outside of school.. doing some stuff together. Find out what kind of snacks she likes to eat. Everyone loves food! Buy and share it with her. Wouldnt that be sweet? a hint to show her that you like her is to always.. trying to talk to her and SmiLe at her ! however, if you want to ask her out soon.. then go for it!. Be smoooth.. you know? don't get all awkward..you might make her feel uncomfortable. ask her in a way that seem harmless... Perhaps something along.... ' hey name, i didn't understand what the teacher talking about during whatever class.. after a few secs of chatting.. go.. o ya, i hear -movie- is out. you interested?..Smiles..
i hope this helps.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif)
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my best piece of advice: just please, say it to her in person! not online or on the phone! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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Thanks for the tips! =). I'm really *excited* because I think she's really nice and someone I can bring home and my mom be happy about haha.
I think I'll just do the movie thing whenever it feels right o_O. Maybe like a few weeks into the quarter hahaha...
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I say Just do it! You're still young so don't let the opportunities slip by.
If she's that nice, another guy probably has his sights on her as well. So hurry while she's still free.
Don't worry about rejection - you'll live through it easily.
