Question:
i know this is crazy. but whenever i like a guy, the more that i think he doesn't like me, the more interested i become. right, so recently i started liking this guy, and then he liked me back, and suprisingly, i continued to like him. he asked me out, and i said yes... but now, i feel like i dont really like him that much anymore. i am really confused, am i just going through a phase, should i go out with him longer to see how i really feel. will i always be like this? argh!~
and can anyone else relate?
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Its not weird... I used to be like that too. I think its part of the growing process and finding the right person for you...at least it was like that for me. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) I used to be very picky, changed my mind often and had many 'crushes'. but eventually you will find the right person for you... just don't try and rush relationships... that's about the only advise I can give you. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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you're probably in the growing phase. my friend got bored in hers but she held on and now they're at 8 months =]
i think i was in that position a bit, but i had other reasons as well so i broke up with him. :x
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I'm a guy, but I go through phases to where I like different people, and the interest of liking a girl or woman only lasts for so long. Like I asked a girl out on a date. We were supposed to go out tonight, but I lost interest. I'm still going to go on the date just for the sake of making a new friend, etc. These days I know what I'm looking for specifically, or so I tell myself. Lol
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Many people such as yourself and I, find the chase alot more fun than the relationship. Eventually we will learn to settle haha
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^ I agree on that, the chase leacves a mystery and tension. While sometiems the relationship is more of commitment and it's whoel new level.
I was like that for awhile ..but with my current boyfriend .. I love him so i suppose you just gotta sample (lack ofa better word) for awhiel before you know who's the right person.
