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okay....
theres this girl..ill call her shirley
i like her but i dont know if she likes me...
what she does:
-glances at me during school
-smiles (almost)everytime she sees me
-calls me every other day
-tells me to follow her around school
-tells me some of her secrets
im one of her best friends
but i want to know if she wants to be more than friends... : /
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sounds like she's just a friend
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the thing is...
i like her too...
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If you are her best friend.... well of course she will smile, share secrets etc with you. i agree, just friends.
buT! if you like her... TELL her. or do something special. valentines day is coming up in two months?
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how would i tell her??
i have no courage...
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This sounds all too familiar.....I'm pretty sure she's just being a friend but like everyone else has said, LET HER KNOW!
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to tell the truth..
i have no skills in talking to girls
any tips?
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if you do tell her make sure you dont tell her when you guys are going to be together for a while, akward moments like that are never good.
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like on a friday??
i should've done it before x-mas break....haha
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nah i mean like.. do it when you guys know you arent gunna be stuck with each other for like 10+ minutes. because if she says she doesnt like you then you guys will just be together kind of awkward and stuff. whenever both of you have time to talk, but not to stick around lol
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ohhh
i see...
we have like every class together tho
so its kind of hard
should i call her?
If you are her best friend.... well of course she will smile, share secrets etc with you. i agree, just friends.
buT! if you like her... TELL her. or do something special. valentines day is coming up in two months?
if i give her a gift.
what if she takes the gift the wrong way?
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When a guy puts thought into the gift that they give a girl, most girls appreciate that but it's your choice to take that chance.
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hmm well i know most people so far have been telling you that she's just a friend.. but like, when i liked my last crush (who used to be my friend)... i basically did the same things as the girl you mentioned. BUT you can never be too sure. if you find the courage, just tell her how you feel maybe?
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idk
i dont want to ruin the friend ship we have but, i want her to be my gf
so how did that thing between you and that boy turn out?
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.like on a friday??
i should've done it before x-mas break....haha
well...from the looks of it...she seems to like you.
have a little courage man...nothing would happen with ur fear.
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ur situation is vry similar to mine!!
anii waii bak to ur prob...u said that she teo u all her secret/problems. i guess she is vry comfortable around u n does she seek help from other guy friends?//i think u hav a chance wif her but u need to teo her b4 its too late!! tyk the chance, she mite feel she same way...or u can giv her some hints...wen u conbfessin ur feelings to her teo her that if wuld b totally cool if she didnt feel the same way. this way u can mend ur friendship n allow her not to feel guilty for turnin u down!! BUT I THINK SHE LIKES U SO TYK THE CHANCE!!!
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it sounds more like a friendship thing to me.
but, since you want her to be your gf, it seems like she's really important to you.
I agree with telling her that you like her in that way, anndd, that you should tell her when you arent with her for longer than should be.
One weird way (it is..x.x; but it does work. for the most part)
is acting..well..distant around her XD dont avoid her, but when talking to you, act polite and give short answered replies.
as if you got something major on your mind (which you do : holy crap when i can i tell her!?)
if and when she finally comes and asks you like inbetween classes or something, or on the weekends. just say. (all serious like)..
Sorry for being so weird, but... there's this girl that im going crazy over. She's really funny, smart, and she just takes my breath away.
when she gets excited as asks who it is. Smile and look at her slightly intensely and say simply. 'you'
then wave, smile and walk away. (preferrably to a class period that you dont have together)
JUST so she wont be under pressure to answer you right away.
She'll either tell you she isnt interested, or she'll start seeing you in a new light if she hasnt already.
=) good luck and drop me a line tellin me how it went!
But always tell these things face to face or they wont know if your serious or not.
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=O tell her quick, before she becomes your friend permanently
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im one of her best friends
No. You are her friend and shouldn't be so open to doing all the things she wants you to do for her. Put your foot down and tell her to do things for you if she wants the friend treatment. IE, pack a lunch for you, carry your books too, etc. etc.
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from the look of what she does..
i think she likes you :]
i mean .. to me..
most best friends do not want their bestfriends to follow them around schoool ..
this happened to me before.
haha. i liked my best friend so i made him walk me around to classes and stuff :]
and i do smile everytime i see him.
ahaha.
i suggest you tell her.
TELL HER :]
even if it turns out corny.
because turning out corny for guys is actually cute :]
wish you luckk buddy .
