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do keep your love towards your EX??? do you try to bring it back???? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)
... still striving....to do so.....
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hmmm i remember a time when i tried so hard to hold onto my feelings for someone. i ended up letting go little by little and when i realized it i tried desperately to get those feelings back. I didn't want to get over him but time won instead.
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i think so... but everytime you see him/her. and you gain the friendship you had started, doesnt it make you go back????
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no. maybe cos i never had love for him in the first place. well after the break up we became friends but those were the onli feeling s ihad for him.
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ehhh yeah actually, after i saw him after a long time i did start to get those feelings back. after he broke up with me, he came knocking on my door on the day of my friend's graduation (that we were both going to) to apoligize and say that he finally realized how good i was to him and how he doesn't even deserve to be friends with me. oh...and to give me back my stuff. but that was 2-3 months after we broke up and i had forgiven him already in my heart. so he was surprised i didn't kick him in the face or anything hahah. but yeah...we were running late for the graduation. i had to go get flowers for my friend and i said we'd talk more later.
then after the graduation dinner he took me to the beach even though it was freezing cold. we just sat there in the car and talked about all the things we never talked about when he broke up with me. so i finally got the chance to voice my opinion. but yeah all-in-all i couldn't help my feelings for him. he is someone i truely love. we ended up spending more time together and now we're back together.
i wouldn't say that i tried to bring the feelings back...it was an accident because my real intention was to just be friends after he hurt me so much. it was a real ugly breakup too o_O
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aw!!!!!!!!!!!!! so sweet... good luck to both of you!!!!!!
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no, i did in the past but i learned from my mistake
it' s not like i hate them tho
but after a breakup i have time to think
and the love if you want to call it fades
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Depends on who the ex is and the situation. I'm striving to keep it alive on both sides. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif) It's never really died on my side, I'm just.. wishing it was a little better on his end.
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Nah because.. I didn't love him.
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feelings aren't like a bouncing ball.. if you said you hold your feelings but when you hang out again.. the feelings come back? that's not really love that's more like lust and passion.. the feeling of wanting something you don't have and when it's right in front of your eyes you just feel comfortable i guess
but no i don't hold feelings because once you break up with someone.. i just leave it at that because i don't want any complications
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Hmmm. I don't keepp it intentionally. And nor do I want to bring it back.
I loved my ex for a few months after we broke up and then things changed and it went away but he's still there.
Keeping a love that you can't have is very difficult to me.
Makes you wonder if it's worth it you know?
Getting hurt realizing that you love him but not the other way around and nothing would become more again.
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it depends. if the feelings come back to me, then i gain back feelings for him, but if not then no. i dont think i can control whether i can keep feelings for someone or not. its natural. if it comes, it comes. when i have the feelings for him, i cant push it away. so its not possible for me to force myself to bring back the feelings.
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i don't, because i don't want to go back there.
and it's hard because my ex is still in love with me...
i guess sometimes the feeling comes, but i try to control it.
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Nope. The ex is axed. Severed emotionally, mentally, and definitely physically. No love left. My love moves on with me. No going back.
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I wouldn't want to try and bring back those feelings. Besides, it's hard (or even impossible) for me to ever feel the same way again. What's over and done with should be kept that way.
