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I found this on some site, cant remember where tho, but it helped some of my friends,
so i thought i'd put it up for all you heartbroken peeps...
hope it helps...
Exorcise your Ex
When you can't get your ex out of your head it’s all too easy to remain possessed by past passions. The only way to lay old ghosts to rest is to exorcise your ex!
Release the demons
Before you can move on, you need to let all those pent-up feelings out. It’s totally normal to feel sad, upset, disappointed, lonely and even downright furious!
Talk to someone you trust and bawl your eyes out. Punch your pillow and deface his photo if it makes you feel better: whatever it takes to squeeze out all that hurt you’ve been holding on to. If you keep your feelings inside, they’ll haunt you forever.
Leave the past behind
Now you need to close an imaginary door to stop those feelings creeping back in. Start by removing everything that reminds you of him. Change your room around so it looks different than it was when you were together.
List the reasons you’re better off without him and remember to include all his ugly points. Now make a list of the things you want from a boyfriend in the future. You’ll soon see that the past is best left behind you, while the future has much better things in store.
Day by Day
The ghost of your relationship will lurk for a while, so it’s important to stay strong everyday. Stop asking if he called when you were out. No more checking your emails obsessively and whatever you do, don’t be tempted to call or text him.
You also need to banish him from your thoughts, so no more dreaming about getting back together when you go to bed at night! This is the hardest part, but hang in there and you’ll get through it.
Life after your ex
An experience like this will change you, and that’s good because you’ve learnt from it and you’re ready to move on as a new, improved person.
This is an excellent time to reorganise your life and set some new goals. Stop looking back and start looking forward. Your past passion is dead, let it rest in peace!
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I'm so glad I had a broken heart cause after I got over it, I am so high on life. I feel so happy at the beginning of each and everday.
When I was dating him, I was so sad when he turned out not what he lead me thought of him to be, it was like a broken dream. Now I feel like I can dream again.
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I like that. I really like that.
Thanks for sharing with all of us!
Haha...I can totally relate to the
whatever you do, don’t be tempted to call or text him.
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BTW...off topic...but I'm totally diggin' your avatar! =D
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Exorcise your Ex: I burned, trashed, and sold all his things. Except for the car I bought him b/c it was in his name and it would be illegal to trash or sell it without his consent. I changed all his passwords to his video game consoles, TV restriction codes, and online accounts. I also changed his pin number to his bank account. It must've been hell to retrieve all that info back.
Release the demons: I unleased hellfire on his sorry, cheating arse before I left. I slapped the crap out of him. Four times to be exact. Two bi@tch slaps to each side of the face.
Leave the past behind: I moved 3000 miles away, leaving behind most of my family and a job I love. But it was time to leave all the misery that place held. There was a bigger world out there waiting with many exciting, unknown adventures and a new, wonderful love.
Day by Day: I became happier and life got better. Did some traveling, saw some great places, met some nice faces, and made many fabulous MEmories.
Life after your ex: I met the man of my dreams after taking time off for myself and finding out what it is I want and need in life.
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Exorcise your Ex: I burned, trashed, and sold all his things. Except for the car I bought him b/c it was in his name and it would be illegal to trash or sell it without his consent. I changed all his passwords to his video game consoles, TV restriction codes, and online accounts. I also changed his pin number to his bank account. It must've been hell to retrieve all that info back.
You are amazing. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif) I would never have the guts to do that... that guy must have deserved it LOL
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Hey...those were great tips...but do you have some for a person who liked someone for 3 years, yet still hasn't moved on and is still hidding from the shadows?....Just being there when he needs someone the most...yet never having a place in his heart for her...seeing him with another girl smiling, feeling the pain, but holding it in and just pretending...sighs...
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Exorcise your Ex: I burned, trashed, and sold all his things. Except for the car I bought him b/c it was in his name and it would be illegal to trash or sell it without his consent. I changed all his passwords to his video game consoles, TV restriction codes, and online accounts. I also changed his pin number to his bank account. It must've been hell to retrieve all that info back.
Release the demons: I unleased hellfire on his sorry, cheating arse before I left. I slapped the crap out of him. Four times to be exact. Two bi@tch slaps to each side of the face.
Leave the past behind: I moved 3000 miles away, leaving behind most of my family and a job I love. But it was time to leave all the misery that place held. There was a bigger world out there waiting with many exciting, unknown adventures and a new, wonderful love.
Day by Day: I became happier and life got better. Did some traveling, saw some great places, met some nice faces, and made many fabulous MEmories.
Life after your ex: I met the man of my dreams after taking time off for myself and finding out what it is I want and need in life.
HAHA YOU ROCK.
too bad my ex changed all his passwords before he dumped me =(
LOL
well i pretty much bawled for a week
the 2nd week i raged about it at anyone who would listen
and 3rd i was happier. =)
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^wow it only took you 3 weeks?!?!
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You are amazing. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif) I would never have the guts to do that... that guy must have deserved it LOL
I was lenient. There was so much I could've done to him such as tipped the cops off that he was having sexual relations with minors.
HAHA YOU ROCK.
too bad my ex changed all his passwords before he dumped me =(
LOL
well i pretty much bawled for a week
the 2nd week i raged about it at anyone who would listen
and 3rd i was happier. =)
You go girl! No use bottling it all up. Let it flow. Let it go. I'm no longer angry at my ex. I just like to use him as a cautionary tale for others... and a reminder for myself to never let another man who do me wrong get off that easily. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif)
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Hey...those were great tips...but do you have some for a person who liked someone for 3 years, yet still hasn't moved on and is still hidding from the shadows?....Just being there when he needs someone the most...yet never having a place in his heart for her...seeing him with another girl smiling, feeling the pain, but holding it in and just pretending...sighs...
Well I kinda know how you feel. but I actually went out with the guy for 2 yrs and it nearly took me 3 yrs to be totally over him. I know very lame lol but its true. First of don’t try and numb yourself because that never works. Because every now and then your feelings will build-up, and then you’ll cry like a baby and its not a pretty sight. No guy is that worth it.
XPLili I think you should actually go up to this dude and tell him how you feel. I know its very risky, but then at lest you’ll b able to say, okay I’ve done this, and if he feels the same way then great, if he doesn’t then his lost.
You’re an amazing girl with loads to offer in this world. And if he doesn’t feel the same way about you, you can always remain friends. But somewhere out there is a person who does like you, and is just waiting for the right time to come out and say it.
Thanks ~!dOrkO_boZo!~, i like it too hehehe, and yea, that part was really hard for me not to do!
JJM i like what you did! A real inspiration to us all! Lol!
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Hey...those were great tips...but do you have some for a person who liked someone for 3 years, yet still hasn't moved on and is still hidding from the shadows?....Just being there when he needs someone the most...yet never having a place in his heart for her...seeing him with another girl smiling, feeling the pain, but holding it in and just pretending...sighs...
Ok, think of it this way. When you trip over a rock and fall, do you lay there or do you get up? Basically, now you're broken and sad, you can just lay there, and keep laying there or get up and do something about it.
I remembered when I broke up w/ my boyfriend, cried like crazy, and my bro got his first real professional job and he wants to treat everybody out to eat. I said I don't want to go cause I'm too sad to eat w/ tears in my eyes, an dhe was like well you can sit there and rot, or go out and have fun.
No one can pull you out of it, but yourself. You have to tell yourself you're better than that. Don't sit and mope. Don't self-pity.
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Ok, think of it this way. When you trip over a rock and fall, do you lay there or do you get up? Basically, now you're broken and sad, you can just lay there, and keep laying there or get up and do something about it.
Ever heard of falling so hard you can't get up, no matter how hard you try?
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Ever heard of falling so hard you can't get up, no matter how hard you try?
No, it's that kind of thinking that keep you from getting up. Y must you tell yourself that you're so sad that you can't get up? Y is it that other girls can do it and you can't?
Human has been around forever, and there have been so many broken hearts, do you think they all can't go on? You're not the first, and you're not the last, and it's probably not going to be the last time you get a broken heart. ARe you gonna waste your life like that every single time? OH boo the f-ing whooo that's what I told myself. Look at me now. Quoting onself is the highest level of arrogance, but I came up w/ a phrase: I'm like a ball, when I fall, I bounce back. Each and everyone of you in here can get over it. Nothing is hard if you believe you can.
Like it or not, it's OVER! When you can't go back, you can only go forward. Now you can speed up the process of recovery or you can hinders yourself from recovery by holding on, hoping, wondering, thinking....but in the end, you can only walk forward, so y not keep walking.
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Exorcise your Ex
i got rid of every single freaking thing he got me back to him ripped, cracked, burned, and basically destroyed.
Release the demons
i hit his brand new car's bumpers with bowling balls (it was my mother's idea.) he keyed my car!
Leave the past behind
i changed my hair color from blonde to black (he likes blonde hair), changed my perfume, changed my wardrobe, and best of all threw aways all the shirts he liked on me.
Day by Day
no more obsessive compulsive behavior!
Life after your ex
i'm happy living a single with 2 different guys that i'm talking to! i also am around 100 miles away from him thanks to college.
