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Why not simply find ways around such an obstacle?
You wanna have a kid, adopt.
You wanna have sex, use protection.
Etc etc.
Works for Magic Johnson.
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Aids or stds? Some std's are curable.
People in here in thinking when you have an std its incurable and you're screwed for life...
LoL there are a few that are curable. So yea sure if they take medicine and its be eradicated. but NO if they have like HIV/AIDs, Herpes...
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umm. no. i do not want std's and i gotta think about my children too.
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Yea, if he has what it takes to be with me (gl w/ that) then having std or not doesn't really matter. But I can imagine what my parents' responses will be like. rofl.
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Only if they are curaable or have medicine to prevent the STD from getting spread out
Like herpes for example.
Now the have prescription that can prevent the partner from getting it too.
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No, love or no love, I can't say that I will.
I can't risk it. I have too much planned for myself.
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just to let people know, everyone has STDs viruses in their body system, its just a matter of whether or not you have an outbreak!
but yeah, STDs suck and i'd have to take into consideration of how much i love that person
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no i wouldnt marry someone who has stds cause i dont want to get it .
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Um...maybe.
True love and all that blah blah blah.
Really depends on the STD though.
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Make it more complicated.. You've dated someone for a while, and they find out later that they have an STD (they found out, say, due to a full body physical at the doctor or something). You've already been with the person, so you have the STD too.
Do you stay with them (you've *got* the STD and everything was fine before you found out), get mad at them (even though they didn't know they had it to begin with), cut them off, ...?
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um i dunno...
depends on how much i like them
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Point blank, no. It's a risk to myself, possibly my children, and reality stipulates that STD's develop into a huge bag of complications. A bit cold if I do say so myself, but that's the reality of it.
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I'd rather not..i want to live a long, good life.
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no. I don't think I could deal with the constant worry that I might get it too.
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no, i dont wanna get stds and neither do i want my kids to get stds..
and stds are nasty
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Even if you truely truely love the person? I feel sorry for people with (uncurable) STDs. Well, even for people with curable STD's.
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Such a tough question. I'm not sure. It depends if I really love the guy or not.
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What if... your husband or wife finds out he/she has AIDS? Cause you know it takes some time to be noticable.
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Why not simply find ways around such an obstacle?
You wanna have a kid, adopt.
You wanna have sex, use protection.
Etc etc.
Works for Magic Johnson.
thats still easier said than done. it would be hard to have sex with your partner for life constantly using a condom. i personally dont think i can handle that. and lots of people want kids of their own instead of adopting.
it works for magic johnson b/c he has no choice but to do that. im std free and i have a choice in how i want the relationship to be and someone with a disease isnt going to be one of them.
and its not just about them having the disease it also says a lot about their actions. stds are a serious issue nowadays and its important for both partners to take responsibilities and protect themselves. a guy with stds kinda tells me he was pretty irresponsible
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if i truly loved the guy then, yeh.
