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Hello (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) ,
i just want to start by thanking you for taking the time to read this, and help me with my problems (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif) .
Well, here goes. I really like my best guy friend, but i don't know how i am going to tell him. Heres how it all started.
Him and i met through his (then current) girlfriend, she and i were good friends. Also at the time i was in a relationship myself, so i didn't think much of him (my best guy friend). We hit it off slendidly, we were instant friends because well 1. we're both vietnamese and 2. we have alot in common. Everyone could see we had more chemistry than him and his (current girlfriend at the time) but me being her best friend i didn't want to hurt her... so me and him became siblings to prevent our ever getting together. It was all good, until i broke up with my boyfriend and was single again. Shortly after i broke it off with my boyfriend. my best guy friend and his girlfriend broke it off too.
Him and i both have been single for a while, and everyone says we would be wonderful together... so i started liking him, and i broke off our sibling pact, so that if anything DID happen that wouldnt get in the way. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif) but i've waiting and nothings been happening between us. we've actually gotten less close as friends. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)
I want to tell him my feelings but i don't know how, and i'm scared that our friendship will be ruined when i tell him.
what should i do?
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try to hint it.
if you value him more as a friend, keep it that way.
cause what if he doesn't like you back, it'll be AWKWARD.
good luck.
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you have to consider if his feelings are different for you now.
there's nothing wrong in dating him, he is not in a relationship anymore.
i think you should tell him how you feel.
it's really up to you because i know that it is not an easy thing to do.
maybe wait out a while.
see where he goes. see if you still feel the same way next week, or the week after that.
observe him and see how he still feels for you.
good luck.
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this has nothing to do w/ your topic and probably unnecessary to say this, but I just want to let it off my chest
I'm vietnamese, and I HATE how vietnamese ppl do that sibbling crap, it's so annoying
sorry, run and hide
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well, two things. you have to consider what it might do to your friendship if he doesn't feel the same way because then things would start getting awkward between you. but, maybe he likes you too and things might actually work out. i don't really understand that sibling pact thing. but as for the not knowing how to tell him thing, i understand that, i have something i need to tell my best friend (also a guy) too, and i don't know how to say it.
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led him a lot of hints so he knows that you are hecka into him! hehe
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you should try to hint it as much as you can. if there still is no response, then it's really your choice. either straight forward tell him, or just keep it in. good luck (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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Thanks for all the help guys~
i REALLY appreciate it
its nice to get opinions from other people
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Haha! I'm in the same boat kinda o_O
I have this guy friend I actually really like =)
He's a REALLY GOOD friend of mine though. We go out like A LOT (as in a group) and we're really close ^^
We're been friends for a really long time but I don't think I ever told him how I feel...since well... I DO like him but it's on and off you know?
So ya...
Since it's my last year at high school anyways, I decided to lay off it ^^''
I figured... if he's really a good friend of mine, we'll keep in touch after high school. I doubt he'll go to the same university as me... so I figured that if we're as tight as I think, then he wouldn't lose contact with me =)
And if then... we're still close, I will tell him. haha =P
Since I'm really iffy about our relationship, I know he likes another girl, I don't wanna break anything we have. I'm scared it's fragile, so I don't say anything.
In your case... I think you should do the same. Wait until you have conformation that he likes you =)
If you're 80% sure, then go tell him!
If not.... then I don't think you should risk what you have for anything just yet. You don't know his reply _
--xoxo.
TM
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give him hints here and there~
or does he have a sign of liking you more than a friend?
if you tell him straight out and he doesn't like you back,
it'll be VERY WEIRD & AWKWARD.
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HOMG yeah same situation....i dont know how to help u because im kinda confused in the same way myself. i dont know how he'd react and i dont know if id actually want to go out with him...
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this has nothing to do w/ your topic and probably unnecessary to say this, but I just want to let it off my chest
I'm vietnamese, and I HATE how vietnamese ppl do that sibbling crap, it's so annoying
sorry, run and hide
then you didn't have to post
Anywayz... I think you should give him some hints if you think he kinda likes you back or else its gunna be awkward. Try to hang out more and stuff haha i unno
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Wear provocative clothing and seduce him.
okay, I don't know. Just straight up and tell him, he might say yes...but since you don't wanna risk that, wear provocative clothing and seduce him
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don't go for subtle hints. it'll only confuse the guy. tell him straight out. you'll save time and won't have to stress the situation as much.
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Wear provocative clothing and seduce him.
okay, I don't know. Just straight up and tell him, he might say yes...but since you don't wanna risk that, wear provocative clothing and seduce him
LMAO
thats Funny (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
Thanks for the advice
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well if you tell him straight up and he sez no then you would have to be stressed afterwards...anyway i've been in the exact situation and im still his sister cos i guess i was too afraid to lose him as a friend cos i love him so much ^^
think about it would u really want to date him and is he better as a a friend.
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Tell him how you feel! lol try doing lots hints and stuff
