Question:
Would you or would you rather not?
Perhaps it depends on how you both part ways? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)
some examples:
- both of don't have time for each other --> the relationship ended in good terms, but it leaves you a bittersweet feeling
- your significant other did something that hurt you so much and you hate them so much --> the relationship ended so sudden and you do not wish to see them ever again in your life
no matter how u both parted, you guys are still considered each other's ex..
but would you still keep them on your contact list?
and also...
would you keep your ex's friends on your list too?
edit: Opinons from both GUYS & GIRLS would be nice! ..
and i'm just curious.
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uhm.. Yeah i think I would. It actually doesnt depend on how you part ways but rather the reaction afterwards. If you think you cant bear being friends of him, then deleting is better =P
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I would...I know a lot of my friends do too. unless you had a really hard breakup and you just can't get over that person, it should be fine. =/
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Yep i would.. because i still want to keep contact with em..
No matter how much he hurt me before, i loved him.
So i cant hate him^^
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most of my ex' are on my msn list anyway
luckily a majority of them ended on good/okay terms
no matter how much i' ve hurt i' ve moved on
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yep definitely depends on the way u part. me and my ex had a pretty laid-back break up we didnt fight or anything so he's still on my list.
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- both of don't have time for each other --> the relationship ended in good terms, but it leaves you a bittersweet feeling
Yup... that was my situation. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) We don't have the time for each other anymore, and we talk at most like once every 3 months or so. He's still on my list ^^.
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I have one of my ex on my MSN list. We both ended the relationship mutually. On the other hand, I have an ex that I deleted off my contact list. He's not block or anything just deleted off the contact list. Only because he purposely changed his screen name to things that will make me feel very bad about breaking up with him. Also, I felt that he was trying to get me back by making me feel very bad because it happened once, so he's the only ex I have that's not on my MSN contact list.
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i have my the guy I used to date (not an ex... since we were never really together)... on my MSN list... he's in my facebook too
and he comments a lot! arg. anyways... i do want to delete him and stuff... but i don't want to be mean. i even reply back to him just so he doesn't think i have issues or something.
freaking annoying. I mean, we're on good terms, nothing bad happened. I just don't really want to drag it on like this. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif)
anyways, about MSN? i never even go on anyways, lmao.
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None, for awhile we kept in contact but I broke all ties with them.
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i still have..
dont talk to him anymore though
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I blocked them...lol
um yea...after a while when im not mad anymore i dont block them but just delete them off the list
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I kept my ex on my msn ;]
I blocked him a few times but than I really didn't care,
even thuogh he kinda still asks me to go back with him _
But yah know we're mature people xD ahah we can handle ex's and what not.
I don't speak to my ex's friends though, it's one of the reasons why we broke up ^^.
But I do keep him in my msn because its memories yah know?
Even thuogh I know he has blocked me because
I kept saying no. I don' really care ;]
Im the more mature one ahaha.
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Suuuure, I wouldn't really mind.
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I kept him on my list. He hurt me a lot. But he's still there for some reason. I just don't talk to him. I'm waiting till the day when I can truly forget him, to actually consider talking to him again (if that made sense).
I just place him in a group in order so that he's not the first person I see when I sign in.
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No. When it's over, it's over. Even if it's a mutual separation, I don't like keeping contact info of any exes. I'm not a big fan of let's still be friends. I usually ask and expect them to get rid of my contact info too.
For some ppl, they keep the ex on b/c when they can finally delete the ex, it means they're truly over the ex. I hang onto nothing. I have an ex who still owes me $4500, but hell if I'm going to go find him and make him pay me back. I'd rather go heads-up in poker with the devil for my soul... playing 2,7 unsuited.
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Yeah, I mean why not? Maybe some day I might need to talk to them.
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we ended our relationship mutually and i still have him on my list...although, i don't really get on anymore. but we're still friends...just not as close as we used to be before we went out...but i still talk to him a few times whenever i see him...
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i still have my ex on my list. We still talk to each other at times. Before, she did try to talk to me on msn, but i ignored her cos she hurt me too deeply. Now, i think i really am truly over her, so now i can talk to her again without feeling upset (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif)
I think when your truly over your ex, you will be able to talk to them again. If you still have feelings for her, then it's really hard to. I know lots of guys who ignore their exs cos they're not over them yet. They actually deleted them off the list to forget about them
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at least you guys broke up amicably not as messy as most of my break ups...
i have an ex that's on my contact list and vice versa.. and we chat once in a while in the beginning it was kinda hard *ummm bad break up, messy as hell* and now its like hey what up...
