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if a guy asks you out on a date and the bill comes, do you just stare at it or offer to pay? what if it was your bf? do you always offer? wenever i go out i always offer. i woudln't want the guy to pay for me if he didn't want to.
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if a guy asked me out & it was our first date, i don't offer. i let him pay.
as for my boyfriend, i offer once in awhile. the answers usually the same: no.
but sometimes i hold on to him & i don't let go until he lets me pay. ^^
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yep even if he says no at first i whip out my card faster o_o
so he can't winnnnnn =) i try to make it more equall
o_o ok i avoid the heafty ones @_@
i remember on one of my ex's monthly anniversery the 3rd one i think i went with him to the aquarium and he asked me at the entrance: 'DO you want me to pay? in the most o_o horrible sounding tone ever so i was liek no i'll pay
then when it came to food he was like 'DO you want anything?' int eh tone again
so i just rolled my eyes .... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif) he had lots of money in his wallet @_@ i only had 20 =(
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the bill usually goes to him or he just takes it before I have the chance to even see it..
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well..
whenever the bill comes
the cashier/waitress always gives it to him lol..
so even if he pays it off, i always make it a habit to give my bf back at least $10 =P
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i always offer, and the answer is always 'noooo'. by the time i get my purse open, he already has the money in his hands. i've tried paying for something else and again, he beats me to it.
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my boyfriend will NEVER EVER let me pay -.- we get in tons of arguments about this fact too =\
He always pays for everything...and buys me things. It's really annoying... that's basically what we argue about. He says I shouldn't ever have to pay since I'm his jujubug
o_O'
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we often know who's gonna pay before we actually finish eating.
sometimes its half/half...usually its him, and I pay some days too.
he doens't let me pay sometimes...it makes me feel useless. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wacko.gif)
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oddly enough, when i go out with guy friends they usually offer to pay && all.
i feel bad but their like no don't pay, it's fine && than they pay haha.
with my bf, at first i was like zomg don't pay o-o;
cos my ex we always split the bill && all. sooo i was all O_O about it.
but now, my bf usually pays BUT i wouldn't mind paying either :]
its not like we'd owe each other anything.
-eternal.happiness
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I don't offer to pay if the guy asked me out & if its the first date but If he like asked me to pay my share I would but I will really be turned off and never to go out w/ him again.
With my bf, we kinda take turns in paying or who has more money will pay but he shoulders the bill most of the time
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I never offered..
Just because if the guy asks me out
then he should pay.
If i asked a guy out
i would pay
that's just how i am.
lmao, but, i'd probably never ask a guy out newaiz xD
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Yep. Just about 10% of the time. Because I'd like to make him feel that it's not his responsibility to pay every single thing I eat. And I'd like to show him that he's not the only one responsible in the relationship but me too... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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nope
unless if he asked, which he did, and i agreed
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If he's my boyfriend, of COURSE I offer to pay. I don't need or want him to blow all of his cash on me, especially when I have so much more than he does. It would be cruel to insist on him paying all of the time. Now, if he never paid, that would be annoying, because I don't have an endless amount of funds. But it should be equal if you're in a mature relationship.
-ginger
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If he isn't my boyfriend,
I offer to pay..but it's just a formality. I expect the guy to reject it and pay.
But if he doesn't, no sweat....but that would be the late date. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
If he was my boyfriend,
I think that its fair that we we take turns to pay.
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Whenever we're at a restraunt or something he tells me that he's going to go to the restroom but he ends up at the cashier paying for everything. Even if he doesn't have money and I offer to pay he takes my wallet and uses HIS money. I cant do anything since he takes my wallet. AFTER he pays with HIS money he gives me back mine. @_@ One of these days Ill beat him !
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I did, lots of times.
Well considering my ex one of the most...non-gentlement-like person,
I paid like 39024823049 times.
I think he paid for me twice. -______________-;
But my current boyfriend, noway (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
He doesn't let me pay (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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I don't bother offering because I know he's gonna tell me, don't worry about it. =o=
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yes cos he's always broke (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
