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Theres this guy I've known basically all my life. He's like my brother and best friend, rolled into one. He's 26. I'm 15. He's married, been married since he was 18. Lately, he's been overly flirty with me, sending me random text messages during the day, saying stuff like, Hey Beautiful. I miss you so much. and I can't wait to see you again., and things like that. Well, today, he sent me a text message that said, Hey cutie. I can't get you out of my head, so I'm going to try and go to sleep. Just thinking that I can't see you again for while kills me. Goodnight beautiful. I love you. It's making me.. absolutely repulsed. I'm not comfortable around him anymore.
Today, I went to the mall with him. And I was wearing a kind of low cut top with a collar button up shirt over it, which is.. not slutty from what I can see. Anyways, so all these men were hitting on me. Walking up to me, bumping into me accidentally and then proceeding to ask me for my number, name, address, etc. After about an hour of this, my friend got really pissed off. In the middle of everyone, he pulls off his shirt, and tells me, You're wearing this. Theres too many perverts hitting on you, and I DON'T like it. Later, I saw this guy I knew. Well, actually, a guy that I used to like that I.. semi-dated. I hadn't seen him in awhile, so I was really happy to see him. We were all flirting and cheerful, and my friend said to him, in a whisper: If you know what's good for you, you'll leave. Now. which I heard, and then glared at him for. Awhile later, he says to him: Do you know what feels really good? Choking someone to death. And did you also know teenager's faces turn purple faster than an adults? My ... semi-ex got upset and left not too long after that.
I'm REALLY uncomfortable with him now, and I don't know if I should just avoid him from now on. __ Any advice?
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Confront him and then avoid him.
That's not normal...and think of how his wife would feel with such actions @__@;;
Best of luck to you, but honestly confront him I suppose.
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woah wat the hell..thats awkward...o_o. um...yah should confront him...at first i thought that maybe hes taking up the brother role..an overprotective one at that..but you cant be so sure... o_0 so tell him, hes making you feel uncomfortable saying i love you ect..and being to overprotective good luk
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That is really creepy.
You shouldn't feel guilty if he's the one that's always coming onto you.
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I wonder if he's trying be play the protective brother role..?? Maybe he cares..?? But if it bothers you, you should do something and not bottle your feelings up, it will get worse if you do.
He took off his shirt?? WHOAH!!
But yeah, he should be considerate of his wife..
plus you're 15 and he's 26!! That would be.. illegal. .
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26?
thats wrong.
no matter what kind.
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wow he's married and 26?!! no way, definitely avoid him the text messages are really creepy
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v yeah I agree with the person under me...find a bf and AVOIDDDD
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O.O O.O O.O!!!!! SCAARY!!!!!!! avoid him!!! ignore hsi msgs and avoid him!!find a bf(a fake one will do!) ASAP!! and rub it in his face!!
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RUNNNN BB***TCHHHH RUNNNNN!!!!!!
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damn. i say u talk to him. tell him how u feel. and u shouldn't feel like a homewrecker b/c ur not the one going for him. and if he still does all that after you had that talk with him, i say just avoid him as a whole
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here's the question: Do you love him?
if yes, then it's gonna be a big problem because he's married.
if no, then tell him what you feel.
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here's the question: Do you love him?
if yes, then it's gonna be a big problem because he's married.
if no, then tell him what you feel.
Uh, if I loved him, I would've written it in there. I love him as a friend, not as a guy.
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He's 26. I'm 15. He's married, been married since he was 18. Lately, he's been overly flirty with me, sending me random text messages during the day, saying stuff like, Hey Beautiful. I miss you so much. and I can't wait to see you again., and things like that. Well, today, he sent me a text message that said, Hey cutie. I can't get you out of my head, so I'm going to try and go to sleep. Just thinking that I can't see you again for while kills me. Goodnight beautiful. I love you.
from what i'm reading in ur description, he sounds like a pervert trying to give u lewd attention. forget that he's a friend (an abnormal one at that!)... no grown man in modern society should behave that way (except countries where pedofilia is accepted? though i don't know of any). that's my argument. think and ponder it for a moment. it should be enough to determine what the obvious thing is to do next... and you won't need our advice. ur 15, young woman. geez. hope ur not feeding off his attention, and i hope you'd have a bit more self-respect.
and go date ur semi-ex and make sure the pedophile sees you guys together in public.
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You need to tell him that his behavior is creeping you out (and since he sounds a bit psycho with the whole choking your semi-ex thing, you should bring a gun or something similar with you since you won't know how he'll react). Make sure that you let him and everyone else know that he's only a friend to you, and nothing more.
26 and married.....that's just so wrong. And you're only 15. Maybe he's just being overprotective...but just talk to him, and if he really understands, then he'll stop. If he doesn't, like what everyone else said.....RUN!!!
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26.... 15...
you're barely even the legal age so why is he so... eeek with you?
That's just wrong.
Tell him up about this whole thing E.
He could get arrested.
I doubt he's doing the big brother role cuz he's taking it way further than that.
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I think he likes u BUT he's a dangerous person to be with! lol...
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You don't mean to be a homewrecker.
But you sure are acting like one.
Then, it would have no diff right?
Pull your acts together, stop keeping in touch with this guy, he doesn't sound good in my ears.
At the end of the day, it's still your choice.
You're still 15, concentrate on your studies and not going around malls with old married man.
Think of your parents and his wife.
So yeah, I know I sound harsh but I don't want you to post another thread saying that his wife slapped you when she met you guys at the mall again.
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Theres this guy I've known basically all my life. He's like my brother and best friend, rolled into one. He's 26. I'm 15. He's married, been married since he was 18. Lately, he's been overly flirty with me, sending me random text messages during the day, saying stuff like, Hey Beautiful. I miss you so much. and I can't wait to see you again., and things like that. Well, today, he sent me a text message that said, Hey cutie. I can't get you out of my head, so I'm going to try and go to sleep. Just thinking that I can't see you again for while kills me. Goodnight beautiful. I love you. It's making me.. absolutely repulsed. I'm not comfortable around him anymore.
Today, I went to the mall with him. And I was wearing a kind of low cut top with a collar button up shirt over it, which is.. not slutty from what I can see. Anyways, so all these men were hitting on me. Walking up to me, bumping into me accidentally and then proceeding to ask me for my number, name, address, etc. After about an hour of this, my friend got really pissed off. In the middle of everyone, he pulls off his shirt, and tells me, You're wearing this. Theres too many perverts hitting on you, and I DON'T like it. Later, I saw this guy I knew. Well, actually, a guy that I used to like that I.. semi-dated. I hadn't seen him in awhile, so I was really happy to see him. We were all flirting and cheerful, and my friend said to him, in a whisper: If you know what's good for you, you'll leave. Now. which I heard, and then glared at him for. Awhile later, he says to him: Do you know what feels really good? Choking someone to death. And did you also know teenager's faces turn purple faster than an adults? My ... semi-ex got upset and left not too long after that.
I'm REALLY uncomfortable with him now, and I don't know if I should just avoid him from now on. __ Any advice?
Hello, my name is Chris Hansen with Dateline NBC....
You should avoid him.
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i say tell his wifey. or talk 2 him about it
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why you go with him at the first place? you send him a WRONG msg.
a nice 15 years old-girl will just STOP contact with him after receiving those MSGs
& tell her parents about it. her parents will warn him! what were you thinking
still go to the mall with him or contact with him?
You don't mean to be a homewrecker.
But you sure are acting like one.
Then, it would have no diff right?
Pull your acts together, stop keeping in touch with this guy, he doesn't sound good in my ears.
At the end of the day, it's still your choice.
You're still 15, concentrate on your studies and not going around malls with old married man.
Think of your parents and his wife.
So yeah, I know I sound harsh but I don't want you to post another thread saying that his wife slapped you when she met you guys at the mall again.
exactly! i can't believe she will even contact him after receiving those MSGs.
that's plain wrong & horrible!
