Question:
this is my sob story ..
all right, so theres this boy. say he and i been going out for 8 months. we both were so immature and never treated each other the right way and now weve split up. he forgot the relationship cause he dont wanna remember the misery, but he hasnt forgotten about me. this boy, he tells me he loves me still and that he will be faithful. that its a committment but not a relationship. he's sayin how he dont roll with other girls in THAT kind of a way. he has a lot of friends that are girls, and he says that they are like boys cept they're girls.
man the things he and his little gal pals say to each other. its enough to make you think that they got somethin goin on you know? but then i ask his friends, and they ask me why im trippin just cause he's talkin to some girls like they're his friends. they got this little thing made up called sexytime. i swear to god if i ask him about one more thing like this, imma feel pathetic like i already do. i dont get it. and why is he so happy, or is he just fakin it. whys he keep hanging out with GIRLS. for goodness.
i never wanted to go out with this guy. its enough to frustrate me. all i thought was that it was gonna be a fling, its gonna be nothing to me. but after 8 months, i honestly fell in love.
and i swear that i thought that he was flirting with me again this one time, but im sure he was just treating me like another girl. man it drives me crazy.
look, he's a trustworthy guy. i mean, he makes a billion of promises to me that he kept every single one. and his personality just dont roll with that. even his friends tell me that he is the most honest caring guy there is. stilll.. i dont know.
god help me, i really dont know what to do. my friends just ask me why i dont got trust in him and just yell at me. yeah, he does keep his word naw im saying? but still,, its gay how he's doin this.
so please.. a word of advice. anything. pm me, or comment this
any help is much appreciated and ill be so thankful..
Answer:
its your confidence that fails you.
your confidence in yourself, and confidence in this relationship/commitment.
it seems that this guy has never given you any reason to doubt his words, to doubt your trust in him, since he has kept all of his promises faithfully.
the only thing that is holding you back is yourself.
he's just friends with these girls.
the one he likes is you, thats why he wants to be with you and not them.
if the way he acts with his girl friends bothers you so much why dont you talk to him about it.
just tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable, and see how it goes from there.
good luck
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actually sexytime is from Borat... so they didnt technically make it up, are you sure they arent just making fun of the movie?
if you really believe there is no point in trying to work things out with him, then don't. first step to a successful relationship is you have to believe in it. and believe that it'll work out.
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it doesnt make sense?
if hes going to be faithful to you, why not get back together?
if i was in that situation. id rather him go f*ck another girl so i know i could move on.
i friken hate it when guys leaving me hanging
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is the only reason why you're doubting the possibility between you and him because of his relationship with his female friends? You said you loved him, so you if you really do then why are you feeling like it's not going to work out? He really sounds like he cares for you with keeping all his promises and what not.
Is it really the end of the world if you break up again? And that's IF you guys break up again.
Just trust him.
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I think you really need to take a very deep breath and in that moment take a look at yourself and your life and figure out what you want. Life is too short and unpredictable to have a lot of regrets at the end of the day. If you want to be with him then you need to have confidence in yourself, him, and the relationship. There will always be a girl prettier than you, smarter than you, maybe even more deserving than you, but even then if he still chooses you why can't you be content with that. Count your blessings before the disappear...don't keep it all in talk to him and hear his thoughts they might be the same as yours. Find your strength because life will only be harder if you can't. Best of luck!!!
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I'd say talk with him about it, let it all out. To build a relationship, you guys need to tell each other things. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) I wish the best of luck for you.
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maybe its not your boyfriend your worried about. i understand that you trust him and all. maybe its the girls that you dont trust. i've felt this before as well.. it isnt a nice feeling ey? i guess the most appropriate way to handle this is to talk about this with him, but be careful with your words. sometimes if you choose the wrong words, it will make yourself sound possessive and clingy. you dont want him or anyone else to get that impression. so keep it light and cool. if he says that its not just a relationship but a commitment, he should understand. i hope things work out for you =] fill us in ^^
