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Love is springles, once you pop, u can't stop. He's in love w/ that girl, he's nto going to stop. Divorce or accept.
Don't hit the girl, hit the husband. She's single, she has the right to date whoever, but he's marry he doesnt.
she knew he had a wife ... so teh girl should have known the man is no available
and i doubt he's in love with the other girl o_o
many men that cheat sometimes cheat with the same person because they are comfortable with them
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Awww im so sorry. I think the best you can do [non violently] is be there for your mom.
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Aww I hope everything will be okay with your parents since I know you both love them dearly to see them go through a divorce. But do know that your mom did give your dad chances already -- he should treasure the chances __. It's more of your mommy's decision now. Whatever happens just be strong! You're eighteen? Heehee im older than you, Im nineteen3 If you need anything dont hesistate to PM me ^ ^.
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um um... sweety, i've been through the same thing for 15+ years.
since i was little, i remember my parents arguing because my dad was messing around.
he would do it every once in a while.... it lasted until i was about... out of high school.
my dad wasnt a bad person. he didnt do it to hurt my mom... i guess he was just a little too nice to other ladies..
but... just bare with it.
tell your parents that you love them both.
my parents were close to getting a divorce. i wanted them to because staying together was not
healthy for my younger siblings.
be there for your mom.
my mom was totally hurt too... but we all gave her our support.
now my family is better now.
but it does take time, effort and a few bad words.
ive been exactly through that....
i can picture everything ....
good luck.
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well this sitaution is tough and I know you don't want them to dicvorce but consider your mother feeling she been hurt twice already. she just want it to end it's hard, it's your parents decision I don't know what you can do but support your mother's decision
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Is there a reason your dad's doing it?
In any case, it's your mom that's the victim here and she needs your support.
If you're indeed 18 you should know that you can't keep them together if you dad's going to continue to be unfaithful to your mom.
Sometimes it's better for a divorce than to try to force them to stay together if your dad refuses to change.
Anywyas I would've totally b*tched out that sl*t and probably be pissed at my dad if he were to do such a stupid thing like that.
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When/If your parents divorce is such a fragile time in your life. You should try to stay strong for your mom because she's the one whose hurting the most. Have you talked to your dad about this ? I think you should, to get his side of the story. But there are no excuses in cheating in a relationship, especially a marriage. They made a commitment to each other and your dad has broken it. If your mom wants a divorce, you'll just have to accept it because would you rather her stay in this marriage and continue to hurt even more ? Good luck with everything~
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isn't it ironic that it's always the woman that gets the blame when a man cheats??
the girl probably doesn't even know he's married
I think your mum should get a divorce, it's the right thing to do
in the long run, she'll be more happy
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isn't it ironic that it's always the woman that gets the blame when a man cheats??
the girl probably doesn't even know he's married
I think your mum should get a divorce, it's the right thing to do
in the long run, she'll be more happy
o_o the women isn't always blamed i blame the father but i talked to her and she said the girl did know who the mom was and how she looked like o_O
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i'm sorry but i don't think your father is such a man, and nothing in your words is gonna change my mind 'cause no real man if his word would do that to something he truly loves. he'd obviously rather be with that other woman and your mother does not deserve a man of that manner. and she deserves your support rather than your father 'cause he's selfish and he doesn't deserve the good that your mother deserves. i have no advice for you on how to keep them together 'cause divroce is clearly the better choice rather than live under the same roof and argue until they die.
truth is, your father is a cheater and he does not deserve a third chance. that's one too many right there. you're 18 which means you should accept the situation and it's reality and have a better understanding. i hope you can cope with it, it's not easy but it gives you an insight on how life has more than you can control. good luck to you and your family, i'm sure things'll turn out fine.
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Guys.. Thank you.. You guys are sooo helpful and I apperciate it soo much... I've been crying for the past hour now and it won't stop but I know I could make this through and I know that I could be strong with this.. My mom hasn't been home for a few hours now and I don't think she will come home today... But if she do... I pray to god that she comes home and work things out... But I'm not really sure whats going to happen.....
EVERYTHING THAT HAS TO GO WITH A HAPPY LIFE AND ETC.. I think its bull but hey.. People got to deal with it...
Thank you again.. I really apperciate it.. xD
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my aunt and uncle-in-law are the same. my uncle cheats on my aunt all the time. and this is sad, but they've come to an agreement to cheat as much as they want w/out filing for a divorce. i don't see much happiness in the relationship, but they stay together because of some money problems. anyway i'm sure this comment won't help much but hope you feel better soon and everything works out perfectly...
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Thank you for trying... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif) ... xD I apperciate it....
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Wow. I'm like in the same situation kinda and it sucks. T_T Sorry, I don't know who I would choose either. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wink.gif) Good luck to you though.
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you dad cheated on your mom twice. i wouldn't blame her if she did want a divorce.
maybe it's for the best that they seperate. cause the situation now is just making things harder for your mom.
this happened to my parents too except my dad wasn't cheating and the vase part, it actually did hit my dad..sorta and then it sorta hit me but i wasn't hurt.
good thing i was little so i didn't really understand what was going on.
i don't really know how to give you good advice since my parents ended up seperating but i dunno, you get used to it.
after all you can still see your dad and mom right?
so yea. just..be happy? __;; or try to smile for them.
i don't think they'll feel so good knowing that they are making you sad.
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ooo i use to be in the same situation like you.
except that bit.ch came to OUR HOUSE(several times)!! O_O!! my mom was damn furious
she called the cops on her everytime, and the charges were invade private property LOL!! she rocked
but damn that girl didn't go to jail, sad. =_=
When I over heard them fighting about divorce and stuffs, not a tear shed, i was too angry and shameful to even cry it out. But when i think about it later on by myself, tears won't stop coming out. Well they didn't divorce at the end, they are ok now, my dad changed so much from the past year. Amazing, thank god for that.
Niway, back to ur parents, the issue is between them. Can't really say how the result will be, but i hope for the best.
Anything can happen, either positive or negatvie, wtv it is, you have to held ur head high and keep on walking forward... turning back does no good, but brings painess. So yeah... i'll pray for the best. ^^ *hugs*
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Well if you were in your moms shoes, and your husband cheated on you twice, how would you feel?
I know it's like.. i don't want my family to break apart, but i think it's really in the best interest of your mom for them to divorce. no family should stay together because of kids, because if the relationship isn't healthy that rubs off on to the kids and it causes so much stress and an unhealthy atmosphere for the whole family.
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I hope everything works out too... Above girl.... Thank you and I hope it'll work out like your parents did... It's exactly the same wat your parents went through but my god.. Your dad supposably girlfriend came over to your house.. Wow that was a b****.... Anwyays.. But I'm glad your parents worked everything out.. How long did you had to wait for the accomplishment that they had to go through..?....
Well thanks for the support and especially the people who've been helping me for the past 2 days.. Thank you and the rest... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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(IMG:style_emoticons/default/vicx.gif) i'mnot that bad right? . i'm helpful
=( but they deserve it ^^ see if i was in that my mom doesn't need to beat the girl because she wouldn't want her hands to get dirty
but i wouldn't mind O_O
*raises fist* *runs in circles*
don't worry haha i probably would have slapped that girl, too. How dare she break up a family, y'know?
the thing is if i were in your shoes, i'd be happy for my mom if she got a divorce.
she deserves better.
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this is my point of view on divorce: i rather see my parents separated and happy than to see them together and in pain. you and your parents are going to have to decide which is best for the family.
