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Started because he said one of my friends tried to break us up because he changed a small part in a convo i had online with my bf(so he thinks he tried to make him look bad to make me break up with him) and then i brought up that his friend told him she liked him when we started going out and it was the same thing, and already i'll put out there that i DO NOT like this girl, because shes only a bit older than me but is very slutty and my bf used to tell me how he thought she was hot(i'm sorry but shes not..) and he talks to her everyday and told me how he doesnt hang out with his usual girl friends anymore to keep himself from flirting(because thats what he does =_=) but still hangs out with her regularly. Part of why i'm mad is because i cant ask him not to talk to her, especially now because theyr 'such good friends' and because they still talk everyday and there have been times there were problems because of her and because my bf blames me on that thing with my friend and now i have no friends while he has a gf and his friends.
I only get mad about this now even though it was long ago because i let him do whatever he wanted to before(i tried being an ideal gf) but he took advantage of it and never appreciated me, so i stopped and now i'm like raging bi polar pinkberry @_@......
Would you be mad if someone told your s/o they used to like them while your going out? (i guess you can answer putting yourself in my place or just the question in general _)
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If someone told my s.o. they used to like them...then most likely they STILL do...or just want attention.
I would be annoyed but I know my s.o. would just avoid them like the plague ^^
In your case...I don't think I'd like that girl either (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) .... I had a semi-similar case to yours...and I asked my bf to cut off all contact with her...and he agreed o;;
I don't see why you can't have a guy friend or friends in general if he can have a slutty female friend.
I hope you feel better though (:
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I kind of don't blame you, but.. it's kind of your fault for letting him do whatever he wanted in the first place. He doesn't realize that you've changed your mind about that and he's still taking advantage of you. Leave him for a while, see if he'll come crawling back a better man..
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i can understand why you are mad, but maybe she told him so she could move on?? the rare times i tell a guy i like him, if he rejects me, i tend to get over it pretty quickly and move on with my life. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
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Wow....not sure what a so is, but.......
Seems like I'd get a teeny bit jealous there. If he's taking advantage of you, then just tell him. Doesn't hurt to tell the guy how you feel especially when he's treating you like that.
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hmm talking her to her everyday? i dun even talk to my best guy friend everyday. that's kinda....weird
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he's a stupid jerk. go out and make some new friends!! make them boys while you're at it! you dont close down your life just for him while he didnt even do it for you. and that girl..she will always be in the way......girls like that..you cannot win over esp when he talks to her everyday like that...if he's taking advantage of you...it will stay that way..but thats my opinion maybe you should dump him..im sure if you did he will surely run to her. .. my opinionn
