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Who's the dominant one in your relationship?
and if you the girl are, does your boyfriend get upset over pride/self-esteem issues about the need to be a man?
When you fight, who apologizes first?
I think maybe i'm a little too stubborn and prideful for my own good...
I'm pretty much the dominant one; it tends to bother my boyfriend...
Should i back off and let him wear the pants? :
I dislike weak pushover girls, though..
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lol i'm the same as you (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) sometimes it's good to back off, but not if you're right (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
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oh shiiet i am definitely the dominant one in any relationship (especially in the last one).
haha my ex respected taht i was the dominant one. he just kinda got used to it? i don't know but he was a gentleman..
when we fought, it was usually him but sometimes it was me too.
there's nothing wrong with being the one who wears the pants if your a girl.
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i have to be the dominant one. i hate feeling like the guy has control or power over me. plus im really used to getting my way and im really stubborn too. if we fight over sumthing stupid then i dont mind being the first to apologize, but if i kno im right then i wont give in. i have to wear the pants in the relationship. it bothers the hell outta me if i think the guy has the upperhand.
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I think we're pretty equal when it comes to dominance. It just comes naturally and subconsciously that we take turns according to mood and other factors. If I start the fight or I'm wrong, I'm the first to apologize. If he did or he's wrong, then he apologizes. We share many relationship responsibilities as equally as possible. We're not 50/50 all the time, but it's not 70/30 either. Some days, it's 53/47.
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^^ i agree, in that i hate feeling like the guy is controlling me. I refuse to be a trophy girlfriend who just nods and obeys to anything her bf says (like someone i know....). I think being the dominant one in the relationship would only work if you bf allows it though. i think some guys have too much pride and manhood to let their gfs take charge. Luckily my bf isn't one of them *phew*
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^ but what happens if your boyfriend IS that kind of person with a lot of manlihood pride? that's no reason to dump him! T^T what shall i dooo
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^ but what happens if your boyfriend IS that kind of person with a lot of manlihood pride? that's no reason to dump him! T^T what shall i dooo
wouldn't that be enough reason to dump him?
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i am more dominant although outside he looks mroe dominant than me ^^
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hmm.
i'm always the first to apologize.. because he's so sensitive.
but i'm the more dominant one.. i argue. i fight. i hit. i'm abusive basically.
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i am more dominant although outside he looks mroe dominant than me ^^
Same here.. same here.
hmm.
i'm always the first to apologize.. because he's so sensitive.
I apologize first too because he's such a sensitive man. ; But I tease him a lot too. I go say stuff like Baby, I need to tell you something. Please don't be mad at me and be deadly serious about it and make him say what, what is it, WHAT? a thousand times and I end up saying I LOVE YOU!! He keeps falling for that trick. 3 Hahaha.
So anyway, I'm the dominant one.
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do watever u feel. i mean even if it does annoy ur bf, someone has to take control, nd if he's not willing, he's not willing
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Mmm.. when my ex and I were together.
I was the dominant one. We didn't like say anything about it
but we could feel that I was the dominating one ahahah .__.
I was tougher; he cried a LOT.
Erm. Yeah. I wanted him to at LEAST stand up to me or something.
Dont make me the controlling one ==;;;
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we're both actually pretty laid back, but i'd say im more dominant over him? he does everything i ask him to do... and even things i tell him he doesn't have to do that i know are out of the way for him... but he still does it....
hmmm.... actually...... i dont know who is more dominant................................. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
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I agree with you.. I don't like to see girls portrayed as weak (although it's romantic in movies & stories but I don't want it to happen to me). I don't like the idea of feeling weak & vulnerable. Don't like playing damsel in distress.
I am pretty stubborn. Too stubborn for my own good, though?
Mine likes to feel manly though.. -.-
I think it makes him feel weird if he was the weaker one, lol.
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hmm.
i'm always the first to apologize.. because he's so sensitive.
but i'm the more dominant one.. i argue. i fight. i hit. i'm abusive basically.
LOL... I hit too ^^;; just jokingly though ahahaha
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My guy is the dominant one.
I'm slow and clumsy, and not so independent T_T
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we're both actually pretty laid back, but i'd say im more dominant over him? he does everything i ask him to do... and even things i tell him he doesn't have to do that i know are out of the way for him... but he still does it....
hmmm.... actually...... i dont know who is more dominant................................. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
that sounds just like my guy lol
i always feel so bad when that happens though because i tell him not too cuz it's outta his way kinda thing but he still does it because he wants to make me happy which i know is great but its like awww i feel so guilty lol
we're both pretty laidback though but i've found that i have to be more dominant cuz we're both really really indecisive
like when i say really really i mean, like for example we spent about half an hour trying to decide where to eat because i would be like i don't mind, wherever you wna eat and he would say the same and then i'm like honestly i don't mind, you choose and then it would be like ages of both of us saying that
but i hate like hanging around like that so i end up making all the decisions
its kinda annoying sometimes lol
but i love him lol
xx
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I wear the pants, homie. = ]
Haha. Well, with me and my ex-boyfriend, I usually get the last say and when I'm mad he's the one that has to come back and say sorry. As for decision making...same.
But it's not that I'm dominant or whatever, it's just that he let me have my way cause it's easier and less time-consuming! Haha!
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You females know it's true ;oooo!
As long as dominance doesn't become abuse, it shouldn't be too much of a concern.
