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hello e veryone 8]. this is long. sorry!
okay there is this guy. i will call him b okay? well b never ever had a girlfriend in his life, still lives with his parents, and is 20 yr old in college. while i? 17 yrs old still in high school, is experienced in relationship (not professional lol or in that sort of way btw).
well okay when i first met him, of course i liked him because he decided to pursue me first because i had just moved there and im thinking that he only had the guts cause i was new there. this is at the beginning of the school year. he wasn't that cute or had anything that i liked about him. so he sort of got annoying and pesky. he acts like a little lost puppy, he doesnt know what to do with a girl or how to act around a girl. (his friends can't even help him - they had like one gf in their life too...) i moved into this really small town (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue2.gif) . okay now girls he is annoying, not bf material, and he no sense of humour...he's pretty boring. his heart breaking story is that this girl ditched him for his friend and he calle dhis friend and she was in the background noise...pathetic isnt it?
so it got to a point where he was almost stalkerish, annoying and psky so i obviously stopped liking him. he would follow me everywhere!!so i like stopped talking to him for like amonth or a few weeks around december ok? well i decided to talk to him again after that because i thought we would just be nice okay friendsand i needed tutoring help. well. he started liking me again and i liked him back a littly itty wiitle bit okay? so we sort of started talking again. and now he's obviously annoying again and he wont give up on me...he kept coming to my house every single day!! for like a whole 2 weeks....and i never asked him to come and he would auto matcially think i would want to hang with him every day?? soo i got fed up and told him about my situation about him coming over everyday..he got mad too cause i left him there..helloooo i have a life. so now...i'm moving states away right and now he even wants me more and the more i see him the more i hate him and dont want to be near him. he's a lout and i hate louts..and in my heart i know we dont have chemistry or anything and i always tell him that but he keeps begging to give him a chance and i told him that i will give him one chance and that it doesnt mean that i'll like him afterwards or be with him..
so now its the end of the school year so its like a school year of talking and even those talking times he still didnt have the guts to actually ask me out and he even told me i dont know when im planning to take you out on a date ugh thats like omg. how can you tell me tht? lol
girls help me? ty in adv..........
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stop using him and leading him on? but what do i know? [shrugs]
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Stop giving the guy attention. You said you don't feel any chemistry with him, etc. Don't use him for tutoring. Tell him how you don't like him, etc. Don't give him chances, and ignore him, etc.
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you need to tell him straight up that you don't like him.
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hire a hitman to to get rid of the pesky fella
i know a guy...pm me if youre interested...
edit: i was just kidding, dont pm me you creepy mothafuggas
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lol im not usinghim. plus he already know that i absolutely do not like him. i tell him all the time. plus he's my usual tutor so he' s been tutoring me? lol actually toda y i th ought he would have killed me..i c ould imagine that he was the weirdo/stalkerish murdering types lol..i had a big picture in my brain of how my death would be..i was just trying to be nice and friendly! he even asked me to be his gf on the first date.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wacko.gif)
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humor him? maybe he'll open up more that way...
either way, u'r leaving in a few months anyways, so maybe it won't last =/
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jus ignore him. ur giving him false hope that something can happen with u 2
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LOL like hippiehop said u shud just tell him straight maybe n front of his friends that you don't like him anymore and b okeyfriends...what makes you dink this guy is weird or annoying? and y u lik him? did u 2 evn go on casualdates or just one date? thats weird for him to ask u to be gf on first date...he just sounds very obsessive which is normal of guys that never had a gf... u shud give him sum credit for pusuing u...he doesnt know how to act prolly cuz hes nervous of u...wAs it even a good date?...what happened?...was he nice at all?...the reason he prolly took so long to ask u out is prolly cuz he never had a gf before and he would feel nervous about asking u out?...obviously u must have liked him more than a litty bit if u talk to him that long (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif) like faye2thesky said, you shud open him up more...hey have u asked any of ur friends in ur town on what dey dink? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) ...and hey if you give him another chance it might end up being like that movie theres something about mary LoLoLLOlL (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) i new a guy lik that and i liked him a lot later cuz he made me laugh at how stupid he was hehehehehHE but we broke up cuz i was too boring to him...does he dink u r boring too? lol ... pm me for more help! im 26 and very experinced and good at this... hehehehehehehe
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u ignored him once.
and u got him off your back.
do it again
