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So my friend was talking about how recently her brother was diagnosed with cancer... even though she didnt have it she was scared that in the future no one would want her because it was in her genes. Even if the guy would agree his family probably would not like it...she said it would be a burden, like she would be scared to have kids knowing they might have to suffer through cancer....
so my queston is, would u start a relationship knowing that the guy/ girl u like had cancer in her genes pool? im not saying dating, but an actual relationship with marriage a potential...
Edit: okay lets say its heriditary.... like it will happen every second or third generation ( ur kids or grandchildren) arent u scared ur kids going to blame you?
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I would, i have chances of getting some sort of cancer since my mom and my grandma on my mom's side has it. People suffer all the same so why worry about suffering about a curable disease.
Plus, if my future husband really loves me, and i love him alot.. I'd cherish every moment we have.
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Not everyone with cancer dies...technology is constantly growing and I'm pretty optimistic that one day they'll find something close to 100% effective to treating it. With that said, yeah, if I really loved that person, I wouldn't avoid marrying him because he has cancer in his genes. There's always hope of getting better (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
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i dont think cancer is hereditary
but- shure why not?
i would just make shure to teach
my children to live healthily and happily
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i dont think cancer is hereditary
it is,
for example, if your grandmother had breast cancer, the rest of the female members have big risk of having it too.
but not all cancers, lung cancer, it's from smoking or 2nd hand smoke :-/
to the question, I would.
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So my friend was talking about how recently her brother was diagnosed with cancer... even though she didnt have it she was scared that in the future no one would want her because it was in her genes. Even if the guy would agree his family probably would not like it...she said it would be a burden, like she would be scared to have kids knowing they might have to suffer through cancer....
so my queston is, would u start a relationship knowing that the guy/ girl u like had cancer in her genes pool? im not saying dating, but an actual relationship with marriage a potential...
Edit: okay lets say its heriditary.... like it will happen every second or third generation ( ur kids or grandchildren) arent u scared ur kids going to blame you?
No offense but if it is love all those things are yes important but not relevant if you TRULY love someone then it id for the good and bad in them. There are so many things that can happen to a person even if they didn't have cancer...so personally I'd still start a relationship with them. Because even if they ended up dying or whatever I'd rather have had that little bit of time with them than with someone else. Yes, it would be painful...but if I loved them with all of me I'd endure it for the chance to be at their side. As for the children you can only pray and hope that they do't get it..but they can always get something...you never ever can know!!
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Forget the kids then (IMG:style_emoticons/default/phew.gif)
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Forget the kids then (IMG:style_emoticons/default/phew.gif)
or just adopt ^^
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but the adopted kid might have a disease too.. *sigh* ;_;
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Yeah. The person can't help their genetic code.
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hum, probably not?
but somehow, if love calls then i guess
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yes i would, why not........
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I asked my husband this question and he said that it makes no sense to not be with on the chance that our kids MIGHT get cancer. Aww!
Anyway, the question should be whether or not you guys will decide to have biological children, NOT whether or not you should be together. And even so, it's not a guarentee. I'm sure you'll find someone quite happy to be with you!
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if you love them, nothing is gonna stop you
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I have a long family history line of diabetes, so theres most likely a chance I would inherit it, but I could decrease the chance of getting diabetes if I eat right, exercise regularly, etc. You can also decrease the risk of inheriting cancer if you eat right. EG- more brocollis as it has cancer fighting properties.
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i would if i really loved that person, but i`m not sure my family would approve though. along with my big family back in china.
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Yeah, why not? Basically anything can cause cancer now-a-days. I have cancer in my family (grandparents).... I never even thought someone wouldn't want to marry me because of it.
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well if its the person nothing can stop you two from being together and noting realli matters when it is the person
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i would.... without any doubt
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yess..if you want to be with them, it shouldn't matter. also, just because they have it in their genes doesn't mean they'll have it for sure.
