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So theres this girl in my psych class in college that i've had my eye on for a while, when i first saw her really i was like O_O but as of yet i've only approached her once (borrow a pencil -___-) and after doing so i asked her for her name and i said mine and was like ohh okay nice to meet you but that was it..
ever since then she hasnt really noticed me or looked at me or anything although i do sit next to her sometimes, honestly i dunno what to do since she takes the class with her friend and is usually talking to her =/, that and the class is like 100+ so sometimes its hard to find a seat bah =/
what should i do o_o i've been thinking that maybe i should give up since she seems out of my league and may already have a bf already but i dunno
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Think of more ways you can talk to her. Since you already introduced yourself you should at least say hi if you catch her eye. Once you're more comfortable and establish a conversation you can think about finding out whether or not she has a boyfriend. For example, once you start talking to her you can add her on facebook and you could find out that way.
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^ Yeah, and you could also ask for her email and chat with her through MSN or something.
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what should i do o_o i've been thinking that maybe i should give up since she seems out of my league and may already have a bf already but i dunno
Nobody never out of your league and stop assuming all girls have bf. aww i give up, im tired of helping out they guys. Please somebody else help him.
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you like black cat?!?! one of my favorite manga/animes...
anyways you should just suck it up and go talk to her again
you could ask questions about what she thinks about the class or something
it's better to face your fears head on than to wonder what if
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it seems like your only in lust not love or like. so wait a couple of weeks or maybe a month and see how you still feel about her...if she feelings are still the same then go for it!
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lol k given up -___-
approached her today before class started
*she's sitting down in front of the class and reading a book*
Me: ur name is ___ right? how did you do on the midterm (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
Her: ehh i did okay half fake smile
Me: haha ic (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) lol i dont think i did that great either, i guessed on a couple questions hahah xD
she continues to read her book and ignores me -___-
silence..
and after that i just talked to my friend -__-
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lol, totally bad way to approach ;D
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lol was it that bad?
i mean i approached last time so i would think
ehh iono lol
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your not much a conversationalist, I'm guessing.
EXAMPLE
wrong type of conversation:
you: how was the test?
her: I didn't do that great.
you: me too...
right type of conversation:
you: how was the test?
her: I didn't do that great.
you: Really? me too... the second part was difficult to understand.
and you can go off from there, ask her questions, you can transition into another topic from this.
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dunno lol
from the start her body language was giving me bad vibes but u could be right too
hmm
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From the conversation, it definitely seems like she's not interested.
I mean seriously, unless if that was one suspenseful book, I don't see why else she would ignore you like that.
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You said she talks to her friend all the time. Don't talk to her. First become friends with her friend since u don't like her friend it shouldn't be too hard. Sit next to her friend too after u guys have talked alot. If shes polite she will introduce you to her thats were she says Oh I already know him if she actually remembers you. After that they will begin to talk, don't try to talk just to her to talk to both of them. She will see that you aren't just looking for some @ss she will open up. After that try to get to class before her friend and start a good convo about class or anything not too personal
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Why don't you go to the pint and say I really like you or give her a note explaining your feelings towards her. Maybe she will notice and you and her feeling towards you get stronger.
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Why don't you go to the pint and say I really like you or give her a note explaining your feelings towards her. Maybe she will notice and you and her feeling towards you get stronger.
lol that would be horrible since they dont really know each other that well and they are in college not middleschool
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lol that would be horrible since they dont really know each other that well and they are in college not middleschool
yeah!!! when you are an adult, you can't stay kiddy stuff like that.
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Communication is the key!! Don't make it obvious, but try acting a little more smooth. Initiate a convo and go for it. Don't think about the scenario. Thinking about what your doing just gets ya nervous. Just talk. No excuses about not having seats.
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lol k given up -___-
approached her today before class started
*she's sitting down in front of the class and reading a book*
Me: ur name is ___ right? how did you do on the midterm (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
Her: ehh i did okay half fake smile
Me: haha ic (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) lol i dont think i did that great either, i guessed on a couple questions hahah xD
she continues to read her book and ignores me -___-
silence..
and after that i just talked to my friend -__-
you got it allll wrong.. listen, ur boring her out of her mind.. damnnnnn
you gotta say:
you: hey yo the exam was tough wasnt it?
her: ehh i did okay..
you: yea? what, did you not study alot?
her: not really..
you: yeah, i thought so.. you're one of those types..
her: what type? what do you mean?
you: oh nothing, just saying.. if you were naturally intelligent and good-looking like me you would have done better.
her: *laughter*
you: um listen i gotta run, see you around.
her: okk see you
you: oh yeah, btw can i get ur number maybe i'll give u a call sometime.
.........
its all about having some fun.. take it easy ok?
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HAHA. the advice they're giving u is totally true.
the conversation you had was destined to end like that.
u gotta keep it going
the whole Yeah i guessed on a couple... gives her nothing to say back. [unless shes easy to talk to and interested in you of course]
eh, guys... need to be more fun and confident.
what u said makes it sound a bit.. creepy.
