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we got everything worked out:]]
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Apologize if you haven't already, then give him some time to cool off (and for you to reflect on yourself). This could take a few days, to a few weeks, to a few months. When the time comes, whatever the choice he makes, you should accept/respect it.
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If you want someone to help, it would probobly be better to be much more specific so we have enough information to help you.
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Another reason why I BELIEVE long disntance relationships never work.
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Apologize. Apologize. Apologize. Apologize. Apologize. Apologize.
If you already have and he still hasn't forgiven you...then you can do one of two things.
Get over it and find someone new OR give him some time to cool off then APOLOGIZE again till he forgives you.
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give him some alone time first,
then apologize to him and give him your reasons.
or apologive to him first, then give him some time to cool off, and call him up in a week.
whichever works best for you
if you're really determined to make it work, and knows that deep down he feels the same way too,
don't give up.
keep being persistant until he finally gives in.
you screwed up, so you can't be frustrated no matter how cold of a shoulder he gives you.
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Apologize if you haven't already, then give him some time to cool off (and for you to reflect on yourself). This could take a few days, to a few weeks, to a few months. When the time comes, whatever the choice he makes, you should accept/respect it.I agree, but also for the most part... it sounds like you did a lot of wrong, and I think he would be better of finding someone who would treat him better. Sure, you said those things out of anger, but that's still pretty harsh and unpleasant. Does that mean everytime you get angry, he'll have to go through all that hurt? Honestly unless you learn to control yourself and become a better person I don't see why he would consider getting back together with you. Maybe you should focus on improving yourself first before you try to snag your relationship back. Plus, if you've really hurt him then you shouldn't expect him to give you all the attention you want.
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Another reason why I BELIEVE long disntance relationships never work.
ohh i also don't think they work that well, or if u rarely see the person (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif)
say sorry to him.. but also leave some time for him to think by himself.
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If he still hasn't forgiven you yet, then eventually you'll come to the point your life where you'll finally understand that it's really not meant to be. No matter how much you love him.
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welll i think you should just chill .. and if you really dolove him talkto him in a few weeks.... o_o
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Let things calm down for a little while and rethink the whole situation, before making it worse if anything.
Than make a decision when you have a clear mind.
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you hurt him & compared him. AND lied!
he isnt going to get over it soon... i know i wouldnt!
plus its long distance and is kinda hard already, you just kind of added fuel into the fire.
but time is what he needs and you and him need time out
you should apologise but at the end of the day what he decides is what he decides...
you just have to accept it.
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Say sorry many times.
ANd explain how you felt..maybe he will understand.
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Honestly, yes you did screw up a lot. It's difficult dating someone who lies constantly or even simply because they're not over their ex. Before apologizing and hoping to get back together with him, I think you should set your priorities straight before deciding anything. Do you really want him back, or is it just because you got dumped?
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Honestly, yes you did screw up a lot. It's difficult dating someone who lies constantly or even simply because they're not over their ex. Before apologizing and hoping to get back together with him, I think you should set your priorities straight before deciding anything. Do you really want him back, or is it just because you got dumped?
i realized the things i should have known too late..i don't want him back just because i got dumped..i don't want him..i need him. bleh..probably sounds cheesy..but w/e.hahahaha.. but yeah..i know i screwed up tihngs pretty badly..i would have acted like that if he did that to me too..i realized my mistakes&willing to change&move on..forget about ex.heh,
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Realize that....being DETERMINED to change, and ACTUALLY changing are two different things.
You can't always tell him you'll change, he has to see it. The relationship may be over now.........but I think you can still win his heart and his trust back, if you stop telling lies and truly be yourself with him.
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You did the worst things a girl could do to her boyfriend. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/vicx.gif) Well, maybe not the worst, but I'm pretty sure he's really hurt right now. I think the actions you did justified how you felt. You probably felt insecure about the relationship you guys had, because it's a long distance relationship. My cousin was in a long distance relationship with her boyfriend, and I was stuck in the middle of it. Trust me, long distance relationship's are not pretty. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
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it might have seemed to him that you were only with him just to forget about your ex...
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ahh..i promised myself i won't post on soompi for advice..
but all my friends keep on telling me the same thing..
so here i am making this post _ aigoooo..
anyway.
my boyfriend..[well now ex boyfriend] was in a longdistance relationship..
and i screwed up pretty bad..
a couple of days ago..about 2 days ago..i was like really determined to change because the way i've been acting and treating him was affecting our relationship..and i realized that i love him..
i lied A LOT..and yesterday when he broke up with me[won't say the reason]
at first..i tried to hold on..but then after awhile i knew that it was over FOR GOOD.
so then my sadness turned to anger-_-;;and i said a wholeeee bunch of things..
like i said a whole bunch of things out of anger..
but i think it hurt him..A LOTT..
and now i wanna get back with him..i wanna make things right..
but he won't listen to me..arghhh
is there anything i can do..? because i don't know what to do next.._
EDITTTT///
the main reason why we kept on fighting continuously&broke up is because i wasn't able to forget about my ex and kept on talking about him..2 days ago when we got in a huge fight..i was so mad that i told him that i found myself comparing HIM to my ex from time to time..aigoo.._ i already apologized but it seems like he won't listen..&&even if i DO give him time..it seems like he won't..bleh
If you're still stuck on your ex, you're not ready for him.
You need more time.
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Doesn't matter how many times you say sorry and try to make it up to him; things were said out of anger and it'll take nothing but time for him to see how it all stands when it comes to a relationship with you.
At times there's nothing waiting for you at the end since it's his decision to make.
