Question:
My parents have been complaining about how my friends are all bad when they don't even know them (I'm not offending any of my friends like Nico or Jaki) i just hate it...
My parents have been giving me tutor lessons since i started primary (i live in New Zealand here!) when i was 5...they try to get me to be like a really nice girl as in real obidient and stuff...
Since i started high school this year (i'm 13!) My parents said i've changed and i've been too into korean music stuuf (like overdose of it) I'm just being a fan girl... is that so wrong?
My dad keeps saying i get influenced too easily by my friends. I want to say he's wrong, i have my own independence, i think MY way...i do things however i want, not just because my friends tell me to...
My parents keep telling me to get good grades on my exams and test, i already do, i've aced through primary (elementary), i've aced through intermediate (middle school) and now i'm at high school, and things fly past quite easily, i still reamin at the top of the class...
All my close friends i hang out with are hard workers, they all get high grades in school. One of them got like 2nd place out of all her grades in out year level, 2 of my other friends got between 4 and 15. They all do well in school...they're all top of their classes and stuff...
But to my parents...no..they just keep going on and on about how my friends are bad and how disobidient they are, even we they dont even know who they are...
I hate it, i hate the frikkin hell out of it...
Answer:
parents usually want the best for us, and sometimes what they see as the best might not be what we want to be.
When you become a parent, you would realize that they always want their kids to be good kids, at least not a disappointment.
When you thought that it's all because of their ego, it doesn't (to most parents), but it's more to how you're gonna live your life in the future, they want to make sure that you can take care of yourself, earn money and not become some useless human being that can only ask money from their parents.
If you think that they'd underrated your friends, prove them wrong.
How? let them see that you're still striving for the best you can in studies, see if your manners are proper (polite, decent, etc)
Afterall, they love you so much...
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My parents don't say anything about my friends but my friends parents hates me... :/ same case as yours, im a bad influence to her child and stuff...sigh...
But i guess learn to ignore it? Or just tell them straight off what you think.
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Like viruz said; my friends parent hates me
For some reason they think i'm the bad kid in the friendship.
Funny thing is i'm the good one; since none of them know their kids aren't virgins anymore/ do drugs/ skip/etc. They feel as though i'm the bad kid, because of the way i dress and apparently having short spikey hair doesn't help either. Oh well
As for my parents
My mom has this thing where when she meet my friend she can tell which one to trust and not trust. It never fails though and since she always right about these type of things. I always bring my friend to see her first before I start putting trust in them. So eh...my parents don't have problem with my friends. Only the one they feel isn't good for me. Which sometime aren't
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I just got another lecture from my parents this morning saying how i have to look after my frikkin little brother, he always cries no matter what, it's so damn stupid, so whenever he cries it's always MY fault, ALWAYS...it's not fair, and they keep saying i'm influenced by my friends and i'm changing...
Funny thing is all my parent's friends like me, maybe cause their kids sucks at school, but i have the worst first impression ever... some people even said i looked like the daughter of gang leader O__O!!!
