Question:
i have a friend named Anthony.
we used to be really close; we were best friends. we could tell each other anything, like the really important things.. such as emotions, feelings, thoughts, life..all of that.. it was just something different when i talked to him.(beginning of last year.. so Feburary-ish of 2006) and then things changed after some time (towards August maybe of 2006). i think it was me but whatever. it was just like all the sudden we stopped talking and it became really awkward because neither of us said anything to one another about what was going on and soon everything was just gone...
things got a little better. we've been up and down. somehow it goes up and down without either of us telling each other about what really happened way before. we've never talked about how we all the sudden stopped talking. i tried once but he completely ignored the try and made up some bull crap and squeezed his way out of talking about it... and i was weak enough to just take it.
we talk most days now; on a regular basis i suppose. but now he won't tell me anything... anything being like his thoughts.. his emotions.. what's going on in his life.. the really important stuff. we just say random things, have random conversations. i never ask him to spill everything though because i've come to believe that you can't force someone like that to talk to you; they have to want to... right?
even though i know somethings already bothering him (itt might have to do with me, that i'm not sure though..), i tell myself to wait and that he'll come back. i'm just hoping he'll open up again... just maybe.
ANYWAYS point being... or the question i wanted to ask was do you believe people (in this sort of situation) shouldn't be forced to talk? am i thinking the right way through all of this?
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holy poop. i feel so frustrated again.
thanks to those who care to read. i appreciate it.
Answer:
you're right....people shouldn't be forced to talk. at least that's how it is with me. if i want to tell someone something, i'll tell them on my own terms and that person would hopefully be willing to listen. mm....i've been in your shoes and i've been in his. and since it looks like he doesn't wanna talk, i think you should just let him know that if he ever needed to talk, you'd be there to listen. don't get too frustrated, you'll only make yourself crazed&tired. *huggies* 3
Answer:
yeh. dont force him to talk to you. my friends recently fell out over something and cuz one of them was trying to get the other one to talk the 2nd one got really angry and said loads of horrible stuff that i don't think she really meant. let him talk to u when he wants. if he doesnt just forget him and see more of your other friends. i know that sucks but its the best thing cuz he will probs realise that ur cooler than he thought and wana be friends again.
i hope all that made sense lol!
good luck (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif)
xxx
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good luck . =] give it some time
