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okay there's this one guy that works at the cafe i go to. anyway everytime i go in he talks to me and makes conversation with me but not to any of the other custmors. anyway he's always looking at me when i don't notice or when i'm not paying attetion. he acts like he cares about my feelings cause yesterday he saw that i was feeling down and asked what was wrong. does any one know what he might be thinking?
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he's interested in you, if you want to find out, try playing the truth/lie question game, just look at his eyes, if he lies.. his eye would not look directly at you.
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we should have a sticky tread for THIS ONE GUY/GIRL (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
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so he's intrested in me? but sometimes i don't think so just cause i honstly don't see the signs. i mean when i look at him he doesn't look at me.
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so he's intrested in me? but sometimes i don't think so just cause i honstly don't see the signs. i mean when i look at him he doesn't look at me.
danggg maybe he didnt want you to see him lookin at you? it's called being subtle.
i agree with whoever said above that these topics should be in one pinned topic
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Well, he's trying to avoid being caught looking at you, cause he feels that being caught will make him a creeper. YOu already mention the signs he has given you, he asked if you were okay, that means he cares about u. He starts conversation with you, that means he's interested. now, this is like a game, you make a move to move in for the kill, i want you try doing these few things to detect the signals, start joking around with him in a conversation, and then say a really corny joke and if he lauhgs at that, its a signal. The next signal if he asks you a question about urself, try making him guess, if he begins to whine, thats another signal. now this should be ur final signal of all, its called the touchy game but this wqould only work if u can confirm the other two, poke him and if he pokes back then u definitely know forsure he likes you. but sure if he askes alot questions about you in the second signal then u dont need to use the third one. Hey it worked for me, hopefully this would work for you.
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maybe he's curious? maybe you're one of the only customers around his age? I don't know. You will never know if you don't make some sort of move because it's more common for a customer to make a move on a worker than the other way around because that person is on the job.
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okay i'll try to make a move. anyone got any more ideas to test or whatever
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He seems to like you. But it's kind of unpredictable. Guys are so hard to understand. Maybe he was just being nice, or trying to be friendly. But if you like him too then maybe you should go for it.
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yeah i like the guy. my friend thinks he likes me. when i went on tuesday i think that when i gave him the money my hand touched his but i don't think i pulled away right away. but he didn't pull back
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i guess he watns to be your friend or more because like what everyone else said, hes interested in you.
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may be or may not. just wait for him to give you a clear sign. don't dream too much before you know for sure.
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maybe you should make him ask you out or something.. instead of waiting, mack on him until he finally notices.
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actually follow my first post in this topic, its the same advice.
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idk just to let u guys know he's also 5 years older than me. i'm 17 and he's 22.
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I think he just wants to be nice. Wants you to be happy and smiling all the time, I guess.
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idk what to think. idk what to do
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don't be too concerned about the age. he's 22; meaning, it's more likely (but doesn't really guarantee) that he's mature. which should be a good thing. maybe he does like you. now that you're aware, don't get too nervous though because you might give a wrong impression.
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he's interested.. but not sure what he is interested in.
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is it cause he has to be nice to regulars?
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he's not interested. he just wants to develop a good relationship with his customers so he doesn't get fired..
or he likes u and is shy.
or he flirts a lot
