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I met this korean girl online for a month we talked through e-mail, then I asked her if she wanted to go out to dinner she said yes we went out to dinner and we talked..at the end of the night she said she wanted to take picture so I asked a bystander to take a picture of me and her I put my arm around her shoulder and the picture was taken then I hugged her and said goodbye. She is full korean learning english in a ESL class in NY, I am half english/half spanish, after we met I text messeged her and I told her that we should meet again she said yes, I really like her but I do not want to rush anything with her, but I really want her to know that I have feelings for her. Any advice on what I can do? The second time we meet I asked her if she would like to go shopping with me I need to get some new shoes and cloths. Is this a good second meet for us?
Any advice would be appreciated.
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does she only know the word yes?
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no she speaks pretty good but sometimes it's hard for me to explain some things to her but she understands a lot of what I say
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you know.. people say relationships are all about communication between two people..i personally believe otherwise.. i think it is the connection.. when you are with her.. it is comforting no? just to be by her side.. and you feel content.. and i don't think you have to doubt if she likes you or not.. that is obvious.. and plus.. you might feel like this language barrier is barring you from a closer relationship..don't put it that way.. if you feel like you really like her.. see it as a challenge.. that even though there is a rock between you guys.. you will overcome it thus creating a stronger foundation.. oh by the way.. being a korean myself.. i realized koreans are really prideful..prideful to the fact that a majority of koreans usually date within their race.. also the fact that their parents are even more prideful.. i am trying to say.. she has let go of that pride in order to meet you.. she really digs you man.. ahah lol good luck
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you know.. people say relationships are all about communication between two people..i personally believe otherwise.. i think it is the connection.. when you are with her.. it is comforting no? just to be by her side.. and you feel content.. and i don't think you have to doubt if she likes you or not.. that is obvious.. and plus.. you might feel like this language barrier is barring you from a closer relationship..don't put it that way.. if you feel like you really like her.. see it as a challenge.. that even though there is a rock between you guys.. you will overcome it thus creating a stronger foundation.. oh by the way.. being a korean myself.. i realized koreans are really prideful..prideful to the fact that a majority of koreans usually date within their race.. also the fact that their parents are even more prideful.. i am trying to say.. she has let go of that pride in order to meet you.. she really digs you man.. ahah lol good luck
AGREE!
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going on a second date then she wants to give you a try
but i wouldn't rush because she's learning american culture
but i like the shopping idea
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I picked up the shopping idea from talking to her when we went to dinner, I really do not want to rush anything with her at all, I did that with this one other korean girl I liked and I ended up breaking it off with her because it was not mutual the feelings I had for her(she was born in korea and adopted to the US at a young age)
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sounds good to me!
it's good that you don't wanna rush things..i think that's a good idea
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it's sweet that you care and don't wanna rush things =)
your idea of going shopping it great too.
it's not to rushy for anything^^
i like that about guys most.
but too bad my past guys are.. ehh . (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif)
i wishh you luck on the next date =)
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i could totally take this the wrong way ans say bad things (and i know someone else is thinking this too, you know what i mean), but this isnt the place, so i'll just agree with everyone.... :-)
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I met this korean girl online for a month we talked through e-mail, then I asked her if she wanted to go out to dinner she said yes we went out to dinner and we talked..at the end of the night she said she wanted to take picture so I asked a bystander to take a picture of me and her I put my arm around her shoulder and the picture was taken then I hugged her and said goodbye. She is full korean learning english in a ESL class in NY, I am half english/half spanish, after we met I text messeged her and I told her that we should meet again she said yes, I really like her but I do not want to rush anything with her, but I really want her to know that I have feelings for her. Any advice on what I can do? The second time we meet I asked her if she would like to go shopping with me I need to get some new shoes and cloths. Is this a good second meet for us?
Any advice would be appreciated.
sounds like a plan. i don see what's wrong?
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going on a second date then she wants to give you a try
but i wouldn't rush because she's learning american culture
but i like the shopping idea
Agreed. It's casual and not pressuring. It's also a good way to find out the kinds of things she likes and what she's into.
Pues, buena suerte corazon. ¡Espero que todo vaya bien!
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so far i think you're at a good start. dont rush anything. i think you're doing just fine by spending time w/her and hanging out and doing whatso. just take this one step at a time and when you feel that she is ready then maybe you can surely pursue a bit more. i'm sure you'll see when that happens. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) if this girl really didn't like you im sure she wld of not meet up w/you and so forth. just take the time to enjoy and have a good time. good luck! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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my bro (who is not korean and of course that means i'm not either) dated a korean girl who was from korea (she was a study abroad student starting from highschool to college). from what i saw in their relationship, it took him pretty long to get her to start dating him (exclusively). plus she was the friendly type so he never really knew if she was just being friendly or really liked him. i don't think you should rush it. if she wants to rush it she'll give you signals. altho you should make it known to her that you like her.
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u dont have enough confident ?
that why u need to post a thread !!!
if i were u = i would act if u are ditched its not a big deal there a lot of Girls ^^
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Agreed. It's casual and not pressuring. It's also a good way to find out the kinds of things she likes and what she's into.
Pues, buena suerte corazon. ¡Espero que todo vaya bien!
gracias mi gusta ella, ella es un mujere bien para yo
u dont have enough confident ?
that why u need to post a thread !!!
if i were u = i would act if u are ditched its not a big deal there a lot of Girls ^^
I believe I really do not but I am trying to improve upon that ...
I was just curious about what others thought
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so far i think you're at a good start. dont rush anything. i think you're doing just fine by spending time w/her and hanging out and doing whatso. just take this one step at a time and when you feel that she is ready then maybe you can surely pursue a bit more. i'm sure you'll see when that happens. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) if this girl really didn't like you im sure she wld of not meet up w/you and so forth. just take the time to enjoy and have a good time. good luck! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
That's true she would not have met up with me if she did not like me.
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The shopping idea is cute. ^^ It'll work well.
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Just go with the flow. The main reason why ppl do bad or say the wrong things is cuz they overthink. Be smooth like a river young skywalker..i mean..contro
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I guesss take it easy.. not much advice to give.. jsut go with the flow.. like everyone else above said.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) Good luck!
