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what do you think about girls losing their virginity before marriage?
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hmmm this is an interesting topic. i wonder this too
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I think most guys don't mind as long as she's not like overused like a prostitute.
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do you really think soo? cause i just lost my virginity and i feel guilty to my future husband (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif)
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do you really think soo? cause i just lost my virginity and i feel guilty to my future husband (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif)
me too. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
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virgin.. but if they aren't and you love them. you'll forgive them.
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I really don't mind. Virgin or not. As long as she isn't a sex freak or anything...;D
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definately virgin, as the saying goes(and not to be sexist but..), God created women to have one farmer (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif) ; why do I want to go with a girl where another man's been before? Lol, it's just an opinion, but some people may have porn actresses as a wife so.. .;;
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like i said in another thread that just asked the same question basically
if he expects me or prefers or wants or whatever and is kinda picky or it will bother him if i'm NOT a virgin... then he better be a virgin too (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) !
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do you really think soo? cause i just lost my virginity and i feel guilty to my future husband (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif)
Although I'm a girl (a virgin myself), but i have plenty of guy friends, and I'm definitely sure MOST guys do not mind that girls aren't a virgin. Everytime I ask a guy what do you like in a girl, I don't think they ever answered that she has to be a virgin. Mostly, they say, cute, nice, fun, understanding. None have ever replied, she has to be a virgin or no no. Sometimes I ask them if they're ok that a girl is non-virgin, and they say they're fine as long as she's not a slut. Being a virgin is a +, but it's not something that cause a guy from not liking you just because you're arent a virgin.
So no worries girls. Though I'm not promoting you girls to sleep with every guy you date. If you sleep with a boyfriend and then broke up and regret, remember to make your decision wisely next time.
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Knowing myself, there's a 100% chance the girl i'm marrying wouldn't be a virgin anymore by our wedding night, whether or not she was a virgin when she met me. Soo, it makes no difference, as long as she's clean.
Seriously, chastity is overrated. I'd rather a girl know how to be pleasing in bed than expect me to walk her through the whole ordeal repeatedly.
Besides, what sexually active guy wants a woman for the rest of their life that they have no idea will be gratifying in bed or not? Seems to be the exact same logic with most girls I know. They'd rather an experienced S/O than one that isn't.
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Seems to be the exact same logic with most girls I know. They'd rather an experienced S/O than one that isn't.
Indeed. Coming from someone who's been with multiple virgins and non-virgins, the only thing thats good about doing a virgin is that they're clean and you have that 'I was first' status, aside from that, it's really not even worth all the time and work it would take to make the sex thereafter, worth while.
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Wow, just as I thought. Many would prefer virgins. What if she made a mistake in the past? Would guys still accept the fact that she's not a virgin because of that?
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well according to society, guys want experienced virgins, which is nearly impossible
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I know this topic is meant for guys, but I lot of my guy friends don't WANT a virgin. They rather kick it with a girl who knows what she's doing.
As the female point of view, I doubt many guys want to stay virgins for their wives, so why should we? I don't see why we should feel guilty if we decide to have sex.
And seriously, times are much different now. Men don't really expect women to be virgins.
I also don't see what's so clean and religious about waiting for marriage. Just so guys can get off on the fact that we're virgins?
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I want a clean virgin that never had experience with sex before in her life..
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It's terribly disapointing to hear that women feel guilty. Whatever men told women to believe hundreds of years ago still works today.
Male or female, you should stay virgin for YOURSELF. Not out of fear that a man won't want you. That's just pitiful.
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Although I'm a girl (a virgin myself), but i have plenty of guy friends, and I'm definitely sure MOST guys do not mind that girls aren't a virgin. Everytime I ask a guy what do you like in a girl, I don't think they ever answered that she has to be a virgin. Mostly, they say, cute, nice, fun, understanding. None have ever replied, she has to be a virgin or no no. Sometimes I ask them if they're ok that a girl is non-virgin, and they say they're fine as long as she's not a slut. Being a virgin is a +, but it's not something that cause a guy from not liking you just because you're arent a virgin.
I'm one of those^^ guys. As long as the girl has some self-respect and isn't sleeping around for fun in her past life, I'd be alright with it. I mean, for me to expect her to be a virgin when we marry would mean I'd be expected to be a virgin as well, in all fairness.
And, like blue shoes said, just because it isn't a requirement doesn't mean we don't mind our possibly-future-wife to have a long history.
It's terribly disapointing to hear that women feel guilty. Whatever men told women to believe hundreds of years ago still works today.
Male or female, you should stay virgin for YOURSELF. Not out of fear that a man won't want you. That's just pitiful.
Amen. People, not just women, should learn to think and act for themselves where they can. Are you really your own person with your own mind if you let others dictate your life? There are times when following society can be good for you, but there are also times when it can be bad. Unless people can think and act for themselves, nothing is going to change. Preach on Sadana. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/cool.gif)
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my requirements
she must be a virgin
no tattoos
no prior drug use
no smokers
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well according to society, guys want experienced virgins, which is nearly impossible
What the hell is an experienced virgin?
