Question:
'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. - Alfred Lord Tennyson
Many if not all of you know this quote. For all of you who've been through both, now that you look back on things, which would you rather have?
I'm torn. I loved and I lost. I am still heartbroken over it ending, but at the same time I can appreciate that something started. On the other hand, before I fell in love and just experienced like I was perfectly happy (ignorance is bliss I suppose) plus it was easier to get over once we broke up.
I think I'll go with the love and loss though. It taught me a lot.
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i would rather to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. it teaches you alot and even though it didn`t last, at least you got to experience it. never wanting to love because you might get hurt is like never walking out the front door because you could get harmed. you`ll never experience the feeling and you`ll be missing out.
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Definitely loved and lost than no love at all.
You learn from every experience and you'll cherish the memories.
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im glad i loved and lost
it taught me to stay away from it indefinately
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definitely loved and lost.. cuz at least u can cherish it and remember all those happy memories when time passes by.
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Yeah, I agree with everyone else. Definitely loved and lost. Ever heard of that quote Never regret anything that ever made you happy
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i loved and i lost. i rather not have loved. i rather have stayed naive, so that i won't have to look back at those wonderful memories. what a childish thought i have (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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like if my lover died, yeah it's better to love and lost, but if it turns out to be a bad relationship, then never to love at all cause that's a waste of time
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well.. i did think that i was in love before but now that i think about it, it wasn't.. it was just attractions & just someone that i liked. but i do agree with the quote. i'm still glad that i met my exes & through each break up, i matured more & more.
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yeap loved and lost. the only way we'll learn
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i'd rather loved & lost than never have loved at all
because love is one of the best feelings in life
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I agree with the quote.
The love and lost only made me a stronger person.
Though, it'll take time. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
&It's better to experience the love than to not have experienced at all.
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loved and lost,so you dont repeat the same mistake again. (if there was a mistake)
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don't cry because it's over. smile because it happened.
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loved and lost. it really taught me a lot.
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I have never lost a boy I love because I haven't given my full heart up yet. But lets say I were to I would definitely RATHER have not loved at all. If I love someone that person is my life and without them I could not be as happy as I was with them. So do you understand? If I haven't love him my ultimate happiness is what I would feel. If I lose him I could never ever reach that ultimate happiness ever again. If you love someone you can't get over them because you love this person. That's how I feel. I also feel that if in fact you can move on to someone else it wasn't love. NOT true love.
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I'd rather never have loved at all.
First of all the relationship got me into the most trouble I've ever entangled myself in.
And now that everything has ended,
I finally realize that it wasn't worth it to take such a risk.
It completely destroyed my relationship with my parents and my freedom.
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i'd rather have love and lost because you learn a lot from it
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Love is powerful. It captivates body & soul and that's why I think it's better to have loved and lost than never at all.
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We only have one life to live, so we need to experience everything that we can possibly can. I have never been in loved before. Each and everyday that have gone by, I've reget it for not fallen in love with someone.
