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So this is my story: Click
Basicaly I don't know if it would have made a difference but she didn't know if she saw us in the long run or felt the same bout me anymore and I didn't feel I gave it much of a fight to convince her the relationship WILL work. She's very good at speaking her mind and always wins arguments and I'm the total opposite. It's hard for me to describe my feelings and I suck at debates (which is why I never really talk in tutorial classes) so the conversation we had about our relationship before we broke up, I didn't know what to say and the stuff I did I say would always be counterargued by her.
So again, I don't know if there was anything I could have said to sway her or not but I felt I didn't try hard enough.
What do you guys think? Think I can try an argue with her again and win her back? Or is there nothing I can do and whether she comes back to me is up to her and all I can do is wait?
Anyone else suck at it like me? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
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i dont suck at describing my feelings but when im confused i just sit and think about it for a while lol
you can try and argue with her and win her back, but make sure you knoe what your gonna say first lol
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if you think shes worth the fight, and maybe even the failure, if you think that later on you'll regret not trying to make the relationship work as much as you could. then you should definitely try to sway her to give you another chance. just know what you feel and what you want to say, to make her understand that your relationship is actually worth it. and lol you probably don't suck at telling people what you feel, you're just to scared about how other people would react to you. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) haha i'm like that, but as long as i know i need to and i actually really want them to know, then i can tell them how i feel.
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i have no idea on how to tell my feelings to my bf's if i really like them then i would just hide it/keep to myself. can't seem to say the right things to them. i hope she is worth the fight!
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It's impossible for you to describe your feelings.
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It's worth a try right? If you think she's worth it, then go for it. Better regret something you did rather than something you didn't do.
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yeap i do. that's why it's easier for me when guys are straight forward
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I can describe it although it might not be all that great. I think you should give it a shot. =D
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i don't have trouble saying what's on my mind but apparently it always comes out wrong to people.
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It's worth a shot if you think she's worth the effort.
Even if it doesn't work out in the end you can say that you tried.
It's better than not trying and regretting that maybe you could've made it work out.
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yup i suck at describing my feelings...........
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I'd say you need to learn to be able to express your feeling. It's very important in a relationship, because your partner needs to know and understand your personality.
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I'm used to be horrible at telling girls how I felt... I think I still am. You eventually learn that it's best to just tell them and get it out of your system rather than letting it build up
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yea... i have the same problem...
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umm... that really sucks... I'm usually outspoken but when it comes to emotional or important stuff I'm always taking the back seat. I don't really like to talk about serious topic it makes me feel as though I'm going to burst to tears... even when i'm not sad. If it's silly things then i would talk and say what i think. Serious things kills me, i usually just stay silent. yeah i totaly suck at describing me feelings TOO (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif)
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It's easier for me to tell my friends than him. Which is why he always complain that we lack communication (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) I remembered once I wrote him a letter and basically said my whole thoughts n feelings into it. I felt so much better (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) but yeah, I'm not good at telling him how I truly feel at all. Specially when I'm mad at him
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It's worth a shot if you think she's worth the effort.
Even if it doesn't work out in the end you can say that you tried.
It's better than not trying and regretting that maybe you could've made it work out.
I understand that its worth a shot and all but at the same time I'm thinking maybe if I gave her her space she'll come back to me eventually. If the latter were true then trying to convince her now may only make her NOT want to come back. Sticky situation.
I guess you'll never really know?
