Question:
so there's this guy and i'm not very sure if he likes me or not. But i know he did... Here's the story. I met him from my brother, becausse he's my brother's bestfriend. and i remember we would text all day then call each other everynight. he use to be so sweet to me. but we couldn't go out, because of the fact that i'm his bestfriend's sister. now i don't really talk to him anymore, because he said he couldn't get over that fact. i really want to know what he's feeling right now. i think about him day and night. we've gone on one date, and i got to hold his hand and he kissed my hand... i also put my head on his shoulder. he said he loved me... but then when we got into this argument he said he never said that he loved me. so i'm just so confused right now. everytime i see him now, he'll just act mean and everything. there's also this other guy that asked me out, but i don't like him... but also don't want to hurt him. everyone says that i should give him a chance, but i like the first guy too much.
someone help me! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)
Answer:
hmm. i guess he just can't really accept the fact that you're his best friend's sister. and if he's still being mean and cold to you at this point, it probably means that he still hasn't gotten over it yet. if dating his best friend's sister is that much of a problem to him, i doubt that he'll ever get over it. maybe you should just still wait a while and see how things progress. if he still continues being mean and doesn't change, that's an indication that there isn't that much of a chance that you guys can be together in the future.
as for the other guy, you don't like him, so i don't think you should try to go out with him. you might end up leading him on. unless you're not sure about your feelings for him.. then you could try it. but if you're positive you like the first guy better, then..
