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If you did something wrong, hurting a person, will you apologize? Even you know that person will not forgive you?
Please help..... and Thank you for input.
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i think, apologizing is always worth a try, if you're sincere about it.
just because you think they won't forgive you, doesn't mean they won't.
i know there are a lot of things i thought i would never forgive people for
but i did..
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Whether or not they will forgive you, you should at least work up the decency to apologize anyway. Would you only apologize just for forgiveness? What's wrong with apologizing for the sake of apologizing?
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of course. even if not, i do anything, or actually everything to make that person happy enough to forgive but not forget depends on what the problem is of course.
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well of course!
if i did something wrong.. i will of course apologise
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It's better than nothing.. if you just kinda sweep it under a rug and forget about it, it'll only make the other person think even less of you.
not to mention, if it was your fault, then it's pretty much common decency
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Of course I would apologize. To me, I can never say something mean to someone and hurt them. If I did, I would apologize immediately even if it means that person would still be mad at me. I can't live with the guilt that'll be hanging on my soul. I would probably forget the incident eventually but I'll always have it in the back of my head. I wouldn't care if the person accepted my apology and I would never just apologize without meaning it or apologize just so the person would forgive me and we'd be all dandy again. That's just wrong... that's not me at all.
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Sorry is the hardest word to say... for me anyway. I would LIKE to think I'm always right (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif) .
But if you hurt that person REALLY badly, and you KNOW its entirely your fault, then go apologize. If you felt that hurting them had some reason to it... then you should be more reasonable with your apology. Don't take all the blame, you can always talk it over with them to solve the whole thing.
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yeah i def would apologize. even if they don't forgive me i'd rather know i apologized..
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when you know it's your fault. you have to apologize
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Sorry is the hardest word to say... for me anyway. I would LIKE to think I'm always right (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif) .
Same with me... It's somehow especially tough to say to people I love and cherish (like family (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif) )
If I hurt that person and I felt really guilty about it, then I'd eventually get guilted into apologizing. Even if I never saw the person again... I'd probably want to apologize. And if that person doesn't accept my apology, I probably deserve it. I'd continue feeling guilty about what I did, but I would have at least let the person know that I knew what I did wrong.
Apologies shouldn't be meant to free YOU from whatever it is you're feeling. If it does, then that's a great perk that comes with giving the apology. I don't think it's right to expect forgiveness all the time. I think apologies are meant to humble a person and bring him/her down to earth.
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i would...and i would make them try to accept it =/ idk that's just me
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if i knew that i did something wrong i'd definitely apologize
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I hate apologizing because it hurts my pride, even when I'm wrong but my brother told me it's always worth a try and if they don't forgive you it's your fault. Kill people with Kindness. Just be nice and she'll feel guilty later on, if she doesn't then leave it up to God.
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Not really.. i hardly say sorry.. and i don't go out of mah way to patch things up.. sometimes we just eventually start talking again
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apologise. i apologise not even wen its my fault or wen i dun evne know wat i didrong. to keep the peace. tts just me. but its up to u...
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If I'm 500% sure that it's all my fault...meaning they didn't do a thing to deserve it, then yeah. But normally I don't say anything too hurtful unless the other person really deserved it.
I think the only person I've ever said sorry to and meant it was to my mom.
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I have to say, I don`t sincerely apologize to people much
but if I did sth wrong.. yes I would apologize even if they don`t forgive me
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yes i would definitely apologize. it might seem like they'll never forgive you, but theres always the chance that that little apology could change everything. and even if they dont forgive me, i'll at least know i tried patching things up.
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i would still apologize! i mean if it was the other way around, i would like an apology even if i hated them!
