How Do You Feel After A Break Up?

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How do you feel after a break up?
My bf and I broke up like two week again. The feeling is gone :/...well for his part, mine just die over time. I doubt we have any plan to get back. I'm doing fine...really. Beside I'm starting to eat and sleep least...I lost like 4lb during this past two week and I didn't even work out. You see this is not the first time that I eat and sleep least, maybe I'm until stress or something. But when I'm depressed it's when I don't eat and sleep and it's usually after a break up or something. But I feel fine about this break up...maybe a little sad...but it's not depress...so I don't know why don't I eat or sleep that much.
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yeah its natural to be stressed after breakups.
I'd be upset or angry.
I found I felt better after making myself busy. Don't sit around doing nothing, otherwise you'll end up thinking about it.
I went to the gym and went out window shopping.. anything to keep myself busy.
Gym really helps. The exercise really refreshes you.
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it's an unconcious pain then. You are hurt. You just may not be fully aware of it. Maybe you should learn to understand yourself more. *shrugs* anyways... this is natural. Time heals all wounds, as cliche as that sounds.
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yah, I was crying everyday, stressed,
depressed about all 4 years of relationship had gone the drain,
panic, because I wouldnt get those 4 years back,
felt worthless, afraid no other man would want a girl like me
Yah, just make yourself busy, surround yourself with friends.

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if i really liked him, i would feel really depressed. i know that i felt really depressed when i got dumped. i didn't want to do anything. i mostly cried and cleaned a lot.
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i think maybe your not depress but your heart is. if you can't sleep and eat then that means that you heart just feels different now. but look on the plus side your getting a diet at the same time. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) cheer up!
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yah, I was crying everyday, stressed,
depressed about all 4 years of relationship had gone the drain,
panic, because I wouldnt get those 4 years back,
felt worthless, afraid no other man would want a girl like me
Yah, just make yourself busy, surround yourself with friends.
Sums up my weekend (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)

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well, it's still depressing going through a break up. it's been over a month since me and my ex broke up and i'm still crying. i don't think i've gained back my regular appettite. idk...everyone handles break ups differently.
i think it's normal that you still can't eat and sleep.
as my friends keep telling me...time heals all wounds. which i still have yet to see.
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I cried for a week after my ex broke up with me. It was miserable. I had to face him everyday at school and pretend everything is fine. AHHHH!!! But gradually, time heals all things.
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The night my ex broke up with me, I cried so much -__-. Since then, no more tears... but the raw pain stayed on. I was depressed too, and felt like nobody would want someone like me.
You should let time handle it, and don't think about it too much. I'm sure you have better things to give thought to =).
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it depends for me, if i break up with the guy cuz i WANT to. then im okay with it, even tho i might miss him here and there a bit. but im happy (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) . if its him that breaks up with me, and i still really really like him... then haii.. stressss (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
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it depends on how serious the relationship was and the terms on which we broke up. my most current breakup (over a week ago...we were together for a year and a half) was extremely confusing and painful. I also lost my appetite, it's harder for me to fall asleep, and when I do fall asleep it's harder for me to wake up. I'm heartbroken, I'm allowed some off behavior but only for a short time. I'm allowing myself to cry a little but not dwell on it. Relationships end but life's gotta go on.
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id be sad of course
even when i thought i was over it
i found myself being sad and crying again
it was weird though
i thought i was over it
but i guess not :/
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i was depressed. i cried all day, i couldn't sleep, i had no appetite and whenever i was alone, all i could think was all the fun times we had and that we couldn't get that feeling back again..
but it helps if you go out with your friends..and pre-occupy yourself as much as possible~
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haha..
hmm ..
most people gets SKINNIER.
while i get FATTER.
when i get upset, i eat A LOT.
ahhaa.
so then for my last break-up..
i gained 5 pounds off fat stuff. ehh.
i lost it though :]
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if you weren't so concerned about how to feel when you break up, you probably wouldn't have broken up in the first place.
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-- my breakup was yesterday. i feeeeel so depressed. Crying and not eating...
hopefully... this will end!
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-- my breakup was yesterday. i feeeeel so depressed. Crying and not eating...
me too (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif)
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i broke up with my ex because he wasnt paying attention to me ... and i felt stressed to still be in the relationship even though i liked him a lot. i cried for several weeks.. not everyday, but a lot. =/ this was 2 months ago, and now im ok w/ it, even though it feels like a part of my heart is missing.
dont be too sad about it, just let time do its thing. im sure you'll find another guy 100x better than he is.
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i feel completely drained and exhausted.
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