Question:
There's this guy that liked me for 9 months. At first I said no when he asked me out cause it was my junior year and I wanted to concentrate on my studying. But now that it's all over and I'm a senior, I said ok when he asked me out again.
He broke it off in 5 days saying that he was confused about his feelings. Now I'm hurt. I trusted him and he blew it.
I try not to think about it but it's really hurting me. :/
Thanks, just needed to vent...
Answer:
well, like they say having a bf can ruin your goal in this case your goal was to focus on your studying. if you said no before, you should say no again.....or you shouldn't have said no in the first place. bleh, hope that make sense.
he's just confused. give him some time to think about it.
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Im in Australia.. so i dont know how many years apart from a junior and a senior.. but.. ppl's feelings change.. so i guess you could have waited and get to know him a bit better before saying yes.. Sorry.. dont know the whole story, so cant make a full judgement.
Hope u feel better sooon (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) its ok, guyz arent everything!.
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yeahh junior year is REALLY bad. there are like no couples that are juniors, loll.
hmm. i think. he just fled from the relationship so quickly cause he probably couldn't believe it was for real... after waiting for so long. give him time, cause i'm sure he still feels strongly about you (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wink.gif)
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he was probbably determained to amek you his gf then when he finally got you he didn't like it anymore so he gave you up
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hmmm no..i don't think you did anything wrong
if he was confused he shouldn't have asked you out in the first place
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You said no, so he said no. Don't be hurt, you made it that way.
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omg, what a dummy guy!! find someone else girl!
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Well. When his feelings does change and he starts to like you..and he asks you out..say no...
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well.. just move on and go with it lol
if he comes back just do what you think is right or .. just let the words flow out of your mouth.. kuz that's what's inside your heart and not your brain.. your brain tricks your mouth into saying things that really aren't true.. your heart will never lie.. ^^*
