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would u get mad if ur bf/gf went to the club w/out telling u?
i would careless becuz i think there should be trust and honesty in a relationship to have a healthy relationship. but wat do u think????
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i wouldn't be jealous, but i'd be a bit mad. my boyfriend barely goes out, and if he goes to the bar without even inviting me, then i'd think he had some other intentions. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
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Not really, people DO have the right to go whereever they please most of the time.
But.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif) if I ever found out I had a bf who went to the club with a girl, I'd be pretty pissed.
Clubs ain't the place for a guy to catch up with a girl friend.
A club is a place to bump, drink and grind.
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kinda sorta b/c i like to know what he's doing and if he makes it home safe. i do however get mad though when he goes out and gets drunk..he's a stupid drunk.
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hahaha my bf doesn't and wouldn't go clubbing unless i make him.
no worries for me XD
but~~
i think i'd be better off if he went w/out tell me than telling me before hand.
cuz then it'd be like..whaatt?? ur clubbing and ur not inviting me??
lol
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i'd probably be the one that went and did not invite him. HAHAHAHAHA.
honestly, clubbing is just to go out and have fun. as long as you know you can trust him, i think it's alright if he goes for drinks with the boys. if he tries to pick up some chicks and cheat then maybe he's really not worth it, right? unless you're really protective of your guy then maybe that's a different matter. personally, i'm not that into the clingy business... :\ if you want space from your s.o, then you should learn to give them space too.
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yeah i'd be mad, my bf and i always let each other know how our day has been and what we been up to.. and for him to not tell me must mean he is hiding something...
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yeah a bit , since he tells me everything about his days.
so if he accidently left this out, then i would think something was up.
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well i wouldn't be mad if he goes to the club without telling me, but i would be mad if he doesn't tell me if he is home or not.. like 2 days ago he went out with his friends and some of their gf's, i was okay with it.. but then he didn't call me when he's home.. i hate it when my bf drunk.. he forget about everything.. he even forget i called him twice and ask him where he was, and he said he's going home.. when he wasn't.. he's a stupid drunk..
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I wouldn't be mad. But if he made a point to always go out to clubs and to never tell me, then I would be pissed.
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Well my bf usually tells me everything (i think lol), so I would be kinda suspicious if he didn't tell me that he was going clubbing. I mean, it's no big deal if he goes, I would just like to know if he's going.
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I wouldn't get mad at him for clubbing without telling me - when I go out, I want my own space to relax and have fun. I don't expect him to keep tabs on me or for me to keep tabs on him. I'm not his mom lol.
Instead, I'd be mad at him coming home smoky, drunk, and sweaty and trying to crawl into bed.
And I'd be REALLY mad if he'd brought a female home.
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YESSSSSSSSSSSSS. god knows i will.
again, with my jealousy problems! i need to learn to give space
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It depends on the situation
And how the relationship is.
But in most cases.
No, i'm not his mother.
I don't need to know.
Yes, if he purposefully hid it.
As if he did something wrong.
Like if he denies the fact he did.
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oh crap. Im a friggin easily jealous person. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif) I don't understand myself. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
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depends on how much you like him.. and how much you trust him i guess.
i would get jealous with my bf...
with the other guy... hmm maybe not.
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Uhh no.. What's wrong with clubbing? As long as he didn't lie to me when I ask. He doesn't have to go out of his way to tell me, as long as he won't be dancing with other girls or checking them out.
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depends who's he going with & what hes doing =X
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i wouldn't get mad, cuz he has his life and he's allowed to do as he pleases~~
but if he goes to the club and does stuff with other girls, i would get mad
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Uhh no.. What's wrong with clubbing? As long as he didn't lie to me when I ask. He doesn't have to go out of his way to tell me, as long as he won't be dancing with other girls or checking them out.
I think my boyfriend wouldn't be dancing with other girls...
... but, I'm sure he would be checking out the girls.
He say - I like to go to clubs to enjoy the music.
But I doubt it's only that. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
