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If so, does it bother you? Do you guys argue about it a lot?
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What's considered too much? I know some people who feel any interaction at all with the opposite sex is cheating. I also know some people who feel interaction with the opposite sex (regardless of how many) is completely fine. What's too much to you and why? Insecure?
I've enough trust in my girlfriend to believe that no matter how many guy friends she may or may not have, she's going to stay faithful to me. And no, there's nothing to argue about.
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well, when my ex and i were together, he'd constantly try to make new girl buddies on myspace. i know that it's not like they'd ever meet. but still that was john teshen irritating. we constantly fought, but i knew he wouldn't stop.
idk. i guess you just need trust in your relationship, but he just gotta make sure they don't get too close.
another example. my friend was dating this girl for 4 years. they were like the perfect couple. then when she went back to college, she made a new friend. my friend didn't mind, but she eventually left him for the friend
you guys should just talk about it rationally. don't do it when you're mad.
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i dont have a s/o...
so no worries for me...
*sigh*
but none of my ex's really knew that much gurls...
weird
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i dont have a s/o...
so no worries for me...
*sigh*
but none of my ex's really knew that much gurls...
weird
i can say the exact same things
my ex didnt have many girl friends either :/
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i don't have a s/o rite now either but when i was dating my ex he had more girl friends that guys...but i was fine with that cause i trusted him but he would constantly try to test whether i was jealous or not ....
he had a problem with me being friends with mostly guys though... he was always really insecure so bleh..
i think it just depends on how much faith and trust there is in the relationship..
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What's considered too much?
Yeah, what would you consider as too much? I think it depends on the amount of trust in the relationship. If you trusted your s/o completely, you wouldn't worry regardless of how many friends of the opposite sex that they have. If they're with you, they're yours (unless you're having second thoughts!).
I used to argue about this stuff with my ex, so yeah. You know how you make mistakes and then learn from them? Yeah, that's what I did. Trust your s/o, don't doubt them.
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IF i had a bf, he would have to be a veryyyyy secure person..
cause i'd say 99% of my friends are guys.
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hmmm
the ratio of my guy frends to gurlfrends...is like crazy
80% of all my frends are guys
and only thing i can say why is because i grew up as a tomboy..in a way, and i am veyr upfront honest n straightforward person..i totally dislike drama. and i dislike issues that some women create for themselves.
I'm not a type of gurl that hates on her gurl.. If i see a gorgeous gurl id' be like daym she is hottt..or gorgeous....MOst of the time when gurls seee another gurl who is hooochi, they would call her a 'slut', BUT I DONT DO THAT. I'd would tell them gurls that don't hate cause you dont have the package to wear what she's wearing and work it the way she works it...
to get to the point i dun like many gurls..cuz they are sooooooo competitive with each other??? its a waste of time. I'm like a guy i compete with myself and reaching my goals in life mentally n physically.
and my bf hates that i have alota guyfrends........but he understands.. and we dun argue cuz he trusts me
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when my significant other has other boyfriends i get very jealous. but thats fine because i know its ok in this western world of progress.
