Question:
okay so i'm going to winterformal with a friend of a friend and we sortta know each other because i've met him several times before at dances and clubs but it was sortta like a passing each other hi sortta thing. me and him are both worried about communication problems since i've never really had a nice long convo with him and i'll be with him the whole night. i'm sortta concerned about akward moments and having nothing to say to him during the ride. dont get me wrong.. i do wanna go to formal with this guy since i find him sortta charming (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blush.gif) haha but i just dont wanna seem boring since i tend to get shy around guys that i like soo what's a good topic to talk about?
DEAR GOD i hope i make sense haha. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif)
Answer:
well in my opinion, it's better not to think about what will happen next. i'd just let the guy start the conversation then i go on from there. xD
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dear the more you think about it the more you'll lose what you want to tlak about. Just go witht he flow and just talk about anything that comes to mind. If you make it seem awkward there will be so relax, enjoy the moment, and let your self have some fun.
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i think you should talk to him more before the winter formal. so you can get use to it more ya know? maybe on the phone. or aim or msn or something
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well since you don't know him well, you could ask about him during the ride
that way you'll have something to talk about, and you'd be getting to know him better
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^ yeah.. you should ask him questions about himself during the ride.
Or you could do what I do with one of my guy friends when we get bored in the car. It's kind of stupid though, but we just ask each other stupid questions like what's your favorite food?, would you rather... and stuff, and usually the questions lead up to a conversation topic. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
