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i wrote this almost a year ago
and i'm really not trying to say that i'm right...
but hey, it made a lot of my friends feel better at the time
and i just hope someone gets anything out of it. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
love & the liking__
i think the essence of love has the power to make us all go crazy.
love, liking someone, crushing on them.
it can literally drive us nuts; good or bad, it really does.
sometimes when we love or like someone
and it isn't returned,
we beat ourselves over it.
we feel like there's something wrong with us,
when most the time, in reality, its the exact opposite.
our close ones tell us that there is so much more planned out for us, & that we are better off than this.
they tell us that we will eventually find the one and that when we do, it'll be the best moment of our lives.
we've heard this so many times, in all sorts of ways, so much of our lives
that we soon begin to feel that its bullshit.
we think, why not now? why not this person? why not me?
during that time, we feel like complete mini cooper and
sometimes, it'll be up to the point where we go nuts and want to kill ourselves.
but really. there is someone out there...
maybe we're just looking too hard, or too little.
and sometimes it is returned
and although it should be the best feeling in the world,
most of the time, we're scared.
we have seen so many broken relationships
that we just don't want to see ourselves in so much pain;
just because we feel we've been through enough drama and depression.
not only that,
but we're scared of the actual relationship
& a lot of us start to run away.
we all need to learn to go with the flow sometimes.
we're scared of time, and what it can bring us.
& most of the time, the girls, aka overanalyzers,
think about every single detail and we shouldn't.
does that stop us? no, we still do it.
but when that fear is overcome, many of us fall in love
that deep, comfortable love
and i think thats the best of all.
you fight, you argue, you want to rip each other's heads off.
and you still manage to see that spark in them to keep you there.
you still belong to each other.
and it drives you crazy, knowing that they have the power to drive you crazy.
funny, isn't it?
it can get scary though.
love/liking can change you...
yeah, sometimes its a good thing.
however, it can bring out the worst in you.
the jealousy, bitterness. it's still there
one move, and you can go insane.
it can make you say things you were against all your life.
and if and when you do, there is the chance of losing them
and that will only lead to regret and more insanity
so for those who want love & feel they deserve it
you probably do. no argument there.
just wait, and although you're sick and tired of hearing it,
just do it. just wait.
and to those who feel bitterness and jealousy,
you must learn to trust your significant other.
remember that your bitterness can ruin, not only your relationship, but also you, and your significant other.
trust them, please. they're still with you for a reason. you're the special one (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) .
and to the lovebirds who can't stay away from each other,
you glow. you really do.
reanna m.
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i know it's kind of weird that i write in stanzas, but i feel comfortable that way.
haha, sorry if it bothers anyone!
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I aplaud (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) really felt the emotional side =)
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well said, i agree.
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awesomeee. reading this made me feel better cause i always get jealous and i know i shouldn't ;X
and i agree with you with most of the things you said. haha thankss ! =)
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Isn't it funny how life gives you the double side of things ..
one small move can change it all.
haha nicely putt :]
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yeah but if you think about it, you don't have to LIKE someone to LOVE them. ie: family members? or someone you just have blood relation with etc. or some other reason. you just feel bounded to love them though you may not like them.
