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there`s this guy that i`ve starting talking to since like..2 weeks ago. We`ve been flirting & texting..but the thing is that since i`ve been texting him so much, i don`t want to appear desperate and clingy. so i want him to want me. i`ve tried ignoring his texts, but i ended up thinking about it for the next 356161 hours. if i don`t see him that day, i feel horrible.i think i`m falling for him HARD & i want him to want me. any suggestions? lol i hope my explaination wasn`t too confusing.
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if you want to make him want you,
you're gonna HAVE to learn to ignore some of those msgs or at least pretend like you don't care.
but just a word of warning, guys are creatures of little patience.
if they think you're not interested, they lose interest pretty fast a move on.
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but just a word of warning, guys are creatures of little patience.
if they think you're not interested, they lose interest pretty fast a move on.
I've noticed that. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif) Like if you don't talk to a guy for a day or two in a row, he just shrugs his shoulders and moves on to talking to someone else sometimes because he figures you blew him off and weren't interested.
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ig nore some of the texts
o_O
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Take a long time to reply to his texts!!
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be slick, be new, make the first move.
i'm not sure how many of you watch yashimmanman on a weekly basis, but i do. & according to thousands of netizens, twinggyu-ing is what makes people leave you. twinggyu as in hard-to-get. kang soojung said this: girls should never call first. whether they sleep with their phones on their stomach or fall asleep waiting, girls should never call first. yet if he does call, don't play hard-to-get but pick up the phone happily as if you're excited that he called. this is what makes a guy want to call girls over and over again.
i don't think playing hard-to-get is a good idea at all. ignoring his texts = bad. replying quickly to texts = bad. if i were you, i'd text him i can't text anymore. i went over my limit and my parents yelled at me. if you want to talk to me, give me a call. if they don't bother calling, then give up cause then he's not too interested. yet if he does call, it means that you ARE worth it.
good luck. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/cool.gif)
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make a little space, but i think(which is different than what was said before _) that if he liked you too and is worth it, then he would persue, not lose interest. =)
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maybe you should actually talk to him in person more than you talk to him through text messages...
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play hard to get
oh yeah
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be slick, be new, make the first move.
i'm not sure how many of you watch yashimmanman on a weekly basis, but i do. & according to thousands of netizens, twinggyu-ing is what makes people leave you. twinggyu as in hard-to-get. kang soojung said this: girls should never call first. whether they sleep with their phones on their stomach or fall asleep waiting, girls should never call first. yet if he does call, don't play hard-to-get but pick up the phone happily as if you're excited that he called. this is what makes a guy want to call girls over and over again.
i don't think playing hard-to-get is a good idea at all. ignoring his texts = bad. replying quickly to texts = bad. if i were you, i'd text him i can't text anymore. i went over my limit and my parents yelled at me. if you want to talk to me, give me a call. if they don't bother calling, then give up cause then he's not too interested. yet if he does call, it means that you ARE worth it.
good luck. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/cool.gif)
Wow, that's some good advice. I'm going to use that from now on. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/cool.gif)
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OMG yes! Listen to Rachel Lee!!
DO NOT PLAY HARD TO GET!!!!!! DO EXACTLY AS Rachel Lee SAYS!!!!
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i would do what rachel lee said
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uhmm. am i the only one that doesnt find anything wrong with texting..
and how does ignoring his text msgs have anything to do with trying to make him want u..??
anyhooz.. maybe u should meet up more...
and make him want u that way..
be all pretty.. and everything..
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i can't text anymore. i went over my limit and my parents yelled at me. if you want to talk to me, give me a call.
that is friggen good.
good luck doll =]
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well that`s up to im isn`t it
i don`t believe in little mind games with a guy
honestly they get bored when you try to do that
and you`re just going to have to control the texting..
if you look too desperate he`s going to lose interest fast
that`s guys for you.
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You have to teach him to long for you.
Occasionally talk to other guys, and ignore him when he comes and tries to enter your convos with other guys. *works for me.. -o-*
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agree with Rachel Lee
but you kno, ive always had this problem of being shy to call her. I mean, i never kno whether she like me or not. So it would appear desperate for the guy....if she doesnt like u back that is
o im a male of course =P
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be slick, be new, make the first move.
i'm not sure how many of you watch yashimmanman on a weekly basis, but i do. & according to thousands of netizens, twinggyu-ing is what makes people leave you. twinggyu as in hard-to-get. kang soojung said this: girls should never call first. whether they sleep with their phones on their stomach or fall asleep waiting, girls should never call first. yet if he does call, don't play hard-to-get but pick up the phone happily as if you're excited that he called. this is what makes a guy want to call girls over and over again.
i don't think playing hard-to-get is a good idea at all. ignoring his texts = bad. replying quickly to texts = bad. if i were you, i'd text him i can't text anymore. i went over my limit and my parents yelled at me. if you want to talk to me, give me a call. if they don't bother calling, then give up cause then he's not too interested. yet if he does call, it means that you ARE worth it.
good luck. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/cool.gif)
Excellent! Best advice!
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play hard to get. dun be the first one calling or texting or IMing
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We all want what we can't have...so play hard to get, but not too hard to the point he gives up=] good luck!
