Question:
ok~~
so I have a bf right now....
some of you may have read my previous 2 topics on how this current bf is treating me without respect~~
he is using me for sex and whatnot~~
he ignores me, and pays no attention to me and constantly talks about his ex-gf's or his female friends~~
he swears at me sometimes~~
and I am not happy with him~~
the other side of the story is that....
I work at a Japanese Restaurant named NAMI~~
well, a new server has come in and obviously he's a male....
he's 26 and i am 19....
he is the nicest, sweetest most caring human being i have ever met, and i know he isn't like other guys~~
he won't use me or anything.....
the thing is, he is not cute, or hot at all~~
no looks~~doesn't mean he is super ugly that you wanna puke...
it's just that he's not cute/hot~~
all my exes have been pretty hot and cute~~
but they never treated me right and all our relationships have ended in failure~~
on the other hand, this new dude doesn't look as great as my other bf's but his personality makes him shine~~
he's so amazing~~
lol
plus, he has a gf at the moment too, but she's in korea.....
he promised me he'll end the relationship~~
and he's made it pretty clear to me that he wants to go out with me~~
so i dunno what to do~~
i am going to dump my bf today, but it has NOTHING to do with the guy i am in love with now~~
i have been thinking of dumping my bf since the 3rd day we started going out, cuz he's the worst bf a girl can have~~
so should i stay with
1. bad bf that has the looks but bad personality
or
2. good dude that doesn't have the looks but the amazing personality??
i know...
this is messed up~~lol
Answer:
The awesome personality duh, doesn't take a genius to figure that out honey (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
Chuck your current bf
No one wants someone who treats them with no respect.
Your choice you decide
Sometimes life could be so easy, we just want to make it complicated
Answer:
yeah, wasabi29~~
i think that's the only right thing to do~~lol
i know that's the right thing todo....just chuck him~~
lol
i just wanted everyone's opinion
Answer:
if you gdont feel comfortable with your current bf and dont feel like its right anymore
and if you know and feel like hes using you there should be no reason to stay behind
there is someone much more suited for you righ tnow why not just go for him?
Answer:
if you gdont feel comfortable with your current bf and dont feel like its right anymore
and if you know and feel like hes using you there should be no reason to stay behind
there is someone much more suited for you righ tnow why not just go for him?
yeah
i totally agree~~
Answer:
your current boy doesn't restpect you now, what make you think he will respect you later? dump him now before he hurts you.. you already know he uses you...
i say go for the great personality guy.. personality is a must have in a guy.. when looks is just a plus.. nothing special..
Good Luck!
Answer:
^ i feel that if you have a bf with not like the best looks but jst avg
then your set to go =) i mean then no one will really want to steal him or anyuthign right?
astable and comfortable relationship =)
Answer:
Ummm...it's pretty obvious what you should do...I'm guessing you know that too.
Cheelu
Answer:
the awesome personality wins it all love! im sorta experiencing the same thing except.. its weirded out ;D go for it!
Answer:
BREAK UP WITH HIM
Answer:
wtf is wrong with you.
you're asking us whether or not you should break up with your bf?
Oh, come on! If you knew you deserved so much better, you would be smart enough to just have done it already.
Stop being so naive and break up.
Don't be another one of those stupid girls who stay with their boyfriends knowing how badly their boyfriends treat them.
Answer:
no matter how hard you think it'd be to break up with him, there is nothing worse than going out with someone who seems to be slowly losing interest in you. i'd break it off as soon as, and as nicely as possible.
Answer:
Did u choose this guy or u asked him out? treating girls without respect , their no point of having a relationships when he just wants you have to have sex. That is wrong.
Answer:
you cant figure this out on your own?
sorry but are looks thatttt important to you that you would be willing to stay with a guy that treats you like crap?
Answer:
Why don't you just break up with your current boyfriend, and stay single?
How long have you known this new server? Not too long, huh? And you're already in love. How can you trust someone, whom you just met recently? He may just end up using you like your current bf. What happens when his gf comes back from Korea? He may leave you to go back to her. Don't trust him completely. They're just words. Well, the decision is really up to you. Just be cautious.
Answer:
definately go for the personality.
the looks won't get you anywhere...
Answer:
ok~~
so I have a bf right now....
some of you may have read my previous 2 topics on how this current bf is treating me without respect~~
he is using me for sex and whatnot~~
he ignores me, and pays no attention to me and constantly talks about his ex-gf's or his female friends~~
he swears at me sometimes~~
and I am not happy with him~~
the other side of the story is that....
I work at a Japanese Restaurant named NAMI~~
well, a new server has come in and obviously he's a male....
he's 26 and i am 19....
he is the nicest, sweetest most caring human being i have ever met, and i know he isn't like other guys~~
he won't use me or anything.....
the thing is, he is not cute, or hot at all~~
no looks~~doesn't mean he is super ugly that you wanna puke...
it's just that he's not cute/hot~~
all my exes have been pretty hot and cute~~
but they never treated me right and all our relationships have ended in failure~~
on the other hand, this new dude doesn't look as great as my other bf's but his personality makes him shine~~
he's so amazing~~
lol
plus, he has a gf at the moment too, but she's in korea.....
he promised me he'll end the relationship~~
and he's made it pretty clear to me that he wants to go out with me~~
so i dunno what to do~~
i am going to dump my bf today, but it has NOTHING to do with the guy i am in love with now~~
i have been thinking of dumping my bf since the 3rd day we started going out, cuz he's the worst bf a girl can have~~
so should i stay with
1. bad bf that has the looks but bad personality
or
2. good dude that doesn't have the looks but the amazing personality??
i know...
this is messed up~~lol
i thought your already going to dump your boyfriend?
and if his using you for sex, then dont give him any.
and i guess stay with the one that have amazing personality
Answer:
how about option 3
where you dump your bf but don`t mess up the other guys relationship.
i feel bad about your current situation with your bf
but do you realize you sound like a total homewrecker???
Answer:
Why do you even need to ask?
Answer:
I don't know why you haven't already broken up with your BF.
It is not all about looks so stop basing it on looks and saying how not hot that other guy looks
or how cute your BF is.
I find it crazy that your new guy would break up with his current GF to date you.
I think you're coming inbetween their relationship.
I say break up with your BF dude and stay single for a while.
Don't rush into another relationship so soon.
