Question:
hi everyone well, first off my name is not Seohee im using my friends soompi IDi feel kind of pathetic doing this idk why, well heres just some info , im 19 yr old college student, im a girl... korean american
ok now heres the story:
ive known this guy for almost 8 years and hes 3 yrs older then me, he USED to go to my church but not n e more but he visits our church oftenly...
i wouldnt say were closee but we know eachother well enough, we joke around and stuff like that and im good friends with his sister too...
hes like the type of person thats like a jokster, hes reallly funny and nice and hes a really devoted christian. andd he NEVER had a girlfriend -_-;
sooooooo like 2 weeks ago we had this church party thing over at my house and he came also....there were lot of ppl there...
so we were eeatting and stuff...and at the table was that guy and like...5 other ppl...one of my friends suddenly brought up the subject about relationships and who we like and blagh blah blah.....and that guy asked me how long was ur relationship ..? 2 weeks like in a jokingly way....and i was like yea hahaha wutever.
later that night me and this little kid we were playing gong-gi in my room (for the non koreans its a traditional game. like jacks? kind of) ....
and then that guy came and was just asking me how i was and wut i do on my spare time and like wut i do on weekends..and i was like i just go to class...go home...work out...eat...sleep etc etc...im a loser! haha and hes like oh....heh ic and then hes like do you wanna watch a movie with me? smokin' aces look reallly good ......and the thing is HE NEVER EVER ASKED ME TO GO N E WHERE WITH HIM..like it was so random of him to ask me go to the movies with him....when he asked me at first i thought he was joking around so i was like yea sure ill go (in a sarastic tone)..
the next day he callled me!!!! (which he never does) and was like r u busy wed? we shud go to the movies that day and he was serious!! so on wed he picked me up and we watched the movie he bought the tickets and food and everything.....and on the way when he was dropping me off he asked me like wut type of guys i like (once again which is random of him to ask me) and i told him....................................
and then a week after he invited me to his bible study superbowl party thing (which was yesterday), and i said sure why not....so i went with him...and we had a good time.
i know wut ur all thinking yea he defiinately likes you blah blah...but the thing is....when he asked me wut i do on my spare time and stuff i told him that i really dont go out much, so im thinking that he feels bad for me so hes taking me out......or......i dunno~!#$%^&....im so confused, or am i just over reacting??
please help!
Answer:
hmms does actually sound like he likes u tho LOL mayb ur finkin too much about the im thinking that he feels bad for me so hes taking me out. part...sounded like he was just interested in wot u do for living~ and was sort of a topic to bring up leading to askin u to go to the movies =]
i always fort...wen a guy asks a girl wot sort of guys u like..it kinda means they like u koz they wana find out whether they r ur type or not xD
Answer:
I think he likes you, but then again, maybe he's just looking out for you and trying to take you out so you won't go into depression from boredom.
Anywho, he DID ask you about the type of guys you like.
Solution: Ask HIM on a date and see what he says..
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the question is do you like him?
well from it sounds like he does like u. however as i am a prodreamer in over barbaric situations it might be like 'she's all that' where his making a bet. or he has liked u for over more than a year and just waited till now to grab the chance at you. !!
but in all seriousness, i think he does like you and that you should ask him wt type of girls he likes and if it sounds like you. u take it from there =]=] goodluck!
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It sounds like he DEFINTELY has a crush on you. I mean, if you think he`s taking you to the movies out of sympathy you`re wrong. If he really did do that, why would he ask you what type of guys you like? Do you like him? Cause I don`t see you mentioning you like him? .
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hurhur
i think he likes u
but he wanna take it slow.
enjoy it hun
haha
yeah
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the fact that he asked you helps add to him liking you.
Plus, never had a real relationship, he's probably feeling awkward (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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If he does like you, you don't have to wonder. It would be really obvious. Just keep your heart neutral now, be patient, and see what unfolds. Remember also to just be you. Don't 'change' your answers to suit what you think he likes. If you really get together in the future, those 'answers' may come back and bite u in the 4ss. Love is so much sweeter if both are honest with each other.
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you guys are really involved in church huh..
but yea, that sounds like he likes you.
