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Im bored, so im gonna rant about my ex, (but im not crying or asking for advice lol)
me and my bf broke up a while ago, it was a distance thing, and my parents are strict (to make it short.)
so it was hard for him to not be able to see me, and i guess he wanted to show off his gf to the world, but he was never able to.
We WERE madly inlove (or i suppose?) but things seemed to go down, like... he was always busy or something, and i would contantly text him and ask him where he was, then i realized i was being toooo clingy. so i toned it down a bit. I was always the one who had to make plans if we were able to see each other on certain days, then it kinda annoyed me that he never said he missed me or asked when we could see each other, so i decided not to make plans, and waited on him to, but he never did (that being cause i had to make plans, cause i was the one with strict parents whereas he can see me whenever if he could) but i didnt realize that till recently, so we pretty much didnt see each other for a little over a month, and when i decided to actually ask him to hang out, he really was busy, school, work, sports and other stuff. so then, the routine of me being able to see him, and him not being able to came around, and when he could see me, i couldnt see him. so he got fustrated i guess that things werent going right. To me, it seems like playing hard to get was a BIG nono, and i regret that, but whats done is done. that month we didnt see each other, really fustrated him, and it hurt him that we werent able to see each other, so he just decided to end it so he wouldnt be upset about me all the time.
yea thats my rant, if u plan to play hard to get... umm... try not to. dont be too clingy, but dont play hard to get either. you have to balence the two off .
anyone got stories of when their playing hard to get made things bad?
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wow...
i'm in the exact same position with my bf
thanks for the advice...
i always wait for him to make plans and do everything first...
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lol sorry didn't read it all really but about playing hard to get for girls, if you don't won't you be considered iono.. too easy?? /desperate?
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^ well it really depends, i ment hard to get as in too clingy, or needy. i ment like the hardcore playing of hardto get.... i guess what i'm trying to say is, dont play mind games, cause no one likes to be played around with...
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Im bored, so im gonna rant about my ex, (but im not crying or asking for advice lol)
In that case, please use the ranting thread.
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