Question:
I never know whether or not guys like me. Especially this one guy right now, that I'm somewhat attracted to. When people around us say, he's hitting on you, and 'ooohhh' when he says he's going the same way with me on the subway and will ditch me but doesn't do it...
he doesn't deny it or anything, im the only one who whines and says 'stoop ittt!'
He flirts with me a lot, or maybe it's just friendly teasing. But I just met him yesterday, and we hit off pretty well...as friends, that is. He's like the opposite of me, outgoing, breakdancer, dresses...the typical bad boy clothes. But he's a nice and funny guy, hahaha.
one thing.
he has.
girlfriend.
i shouldn't even like him... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif)
but why is he teasing me and acting like he likes me a little bit at least?
maybe he's a player (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
one of my guy friends tells me he thinks I have the hots for this guy, and that I really want his body. WTH??? where did he get that from? I do like him a bit, but O____O ok..thats just going overboard, and how can he tell??? ...then he goes off and tells me that it's either this guy, or this other guy that I was talking to. He said he's pretty sure I like one of them...LOL XD... I swear he's weird.
this also happened today with a guy I don't like in that way as well: he also has a girlfriend asked me to hang out with him and wanted a hug, but I was hesistant and he acted like I was rejecting thing or something. But duh, dude you have a girlfriend, I don't know you well, and I don't hug random acquaintances. I found out he had a girlfriend after he asked for my number, called me up twice to ask if i could hang out with him, and then asked me for advice on his relationship with his girlfriend (a month ago). Nowadays when I see him I try to avoid bumping into him (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif)
does anybody else experience this?
is it just me overanalyzing, or do guys like to play mind games with girls for fun?
Answer:
I think guys like female attention and playing mind games with us. Honestly, some guys flirt with everything female that moves even when they have girlfriends, which makes it incredibly hard to tell if they actually like you that way or not. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif) There're a couple of guys in the past couple of years I've sort of been attracted to who teased me all the time--the one this year has a girlfriend--but then they also tended to hang out a lot with girls and joke around in general, so I just wrote it off.
I suck at handling situations like this; I just assume it means nothing and back off. Sooo yeah, this post won't help you at all, will it? You might just have to be bold if you're dying to find out. Otherwise, just play along and enjoy but don't assume anything.
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I think that A LOT of mixed signals are due to overanalyzing.
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eh i'm a guy but this girl started talking a lot more after she got a boyfriend o_O
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lol. u only like guys who are taken (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
do guys play mind games with girls for fun? yes.
i think the guys u met are flirts. don't fall for it. his gf probably doesn't like u now
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I think that A LOT of mixed signals are due to overanalyzing.
Seriously.. maybe that's just how he is. He has a flirty personality.
